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2008-06-18 11:21:16

#1

SEREVENT: MASSIVE G STAR; +605|6576|Birmingham, UK

So, like the title says.

I'll tell you the story: I like this girl in my year, and i know she likes me, cause her friends told me several times, but i left it late. I'm planning on asking her out tomorrow, and i don't know what to say/do.

Like what if she says yes? Or no? What would i say for the actual question?

There is a slight possibility that another guy likes her but i won't take that into account .

So anyways, i've liked her a while and left it till the last couple of weeks before we break up for work experience and summer...

2008-06-18 11:22:20

#2

Ryan: Member; +1,230|7312|Alberta, Canada

Ask her through a text message, be a real man.

2008-06-18 11:22:45

#3

Gooners: Wiki Contributor; +2,700|7101

Go for it.

You may expect this:

"Get pissed and fuck her"

Ignore it.

2008-06-18 11:23:27

#4

Tehremos: Parcel of ol' Crams; +128|6877|Somersetshire

hey [insert name here]

i was wondering, can I be your bf?

2008-06-18 11:24:28

#5

Tehremos: Parcel of ol' Crams; +128|6877|Somersetshire

Ryan wrote:
Ask her through a text message, be a real man.

Real men ask out men

2008-06-18 11:25:53

#6

Sgt._Eraser74: Upper Decker Expert; +54|7032

Call her up & ask her to a movie, dance, etc. Yours & her ages respectively can ultimately decide where u go on a date or hangout. If she says no or doesn't want to go out with you, chalk it up as a loss & keep searching. At the very least, maintain a good friendship & open communication can also help too.

2008-06-18 11:25:56

#7

Cybargs: Moderated; +2,285|7185

Ask her in person, don't ask her through a text message like a pussy. Ryan, youre a big pussy

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2008-06-18 11:27:10

#8

^*AlphA*^: F*ckers; +3,135|7207|The Hague, Netherlands

Tehremos wrote:
Ryan wrote:
Ask her through a text message, be a real man.
Real men ask out men

those are actually fake men playing for woman...

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2008-06-18 11:27:42

#9

SEREVENT: MASSIVE G STAR; +605|6576|Birmingham, UK

Yeah i know to ask her in person, i mean, what do i actually say? Then what do i say/do if she says yes/no?

2008-06-18 11:29:53

#10

Cybargs: Moderated; +2,285|7185

SEREVENT wrote:
Yeah i know to ask her in person, i mean, what do i actually say? Then what do i say/do if she says yes/no?

Ehh just say wanna go out for a movie or something. Confidence is key to asking a woman out, that's what they like to see in a man.

2008-06-18 11:30:56

#11

Ryan: Member; +1,230|7312|Alberta, Canada

Oh hai cyborg! Where have you been?
(*note: just a question, not a thread derailment)

2008-06-18 11:31:04

#12

Dr.Red-Eye: fanneh; +64|7163|Ireland

I would invite her + her freinds out with you + your friends.

2008-06-18 11:31:34

#13

SEREVENT: MASSIVE G STAR; +605|6576|Birmingham, UK

cyborg_ninja-117 wrote:
SEREVENT wrote:
Yeah i know to ask her in person, i mean, what do i actually say? Then what do i say/do if she says yes/no?
Ehh just say wanna go out for a movie or something. Confidence is key to asking a woman out, that's what they like to see in a man.

Hmmm. Thats got the speaking part over. Now to the reactions...

"Yes"- I do/say:

"No"- I do/say:

2008-06-18 11:32:06

#14

Shem: sɥǝɯ; +152|6996|London (At Heart)

Spend some time with her during ze day, or get her out in the evening, in fact, do that, get her out.

After the main activities have mellowed out, go make sure your talk to her 1 to 1, build a connection, then ask, the right words will come out, unless your a twat

2008-06-18 11:33:17

#15

^*AlphA*^: F*ckers; +3,135|7207|The Hague, Netherlands

SEREVENT wrote:
cyborg_ninja-117 wrote:
SEREVENT wrote:
Yeah i know to ask her in person, i mean, what do i actually say? Then what do i say/do if she says yes/no?
Ehh just say wanna go out for a movie or something. Confidence is key to asking a woman out, that's what they like to see in a man.
Hmmm. Thats got the speaking part over. Now to the reactions...

"Yes"- I do/say:

"No"- I do/say:

Yes - ok cool, see you then

No - FOR THE LOVE OF GOD YOU $&#*@#*#@ IM ALL HERE FOR WHAT???? THIS YOU PEACE OF $&*#*# I AM OPENING UP LIKE THIS AND NOW!!

(ok real one, hmm... "Alright, well have fun with *insert excuse here*, see you some other time.

2008-06-18 11:33:50

#16

MorbiD.ShoT: Stormin' through the party; +322|7065

Don't "beat around the bush" (if ya catch my drift ) and just go for it. Eventually, as you get older, you'll realize all of the wasted opportunities that you allow yourself to make when you're young out of fear of failing.

Failing is a learning process and it only makes you stronger. Take some chances when you're young, do something crazy (not too crazy), get in trouble. Just do it and get it over with, I'm sure you will be glad you did.

2008-06-18 11:33:58

#17

Andoura: Got loooollllll ?; +853|7108|Montreal, Qc, Canada

SEREVENT wrote:
Yeah i know to ask her in person, i mean, what do i actually say? Then what do i say/do if she says yes/no?

Call her, talk for a bit normally about her day, what she is doing, etc... then ask her normally if she is doing something 2night... If she says yes. then just continue on the conversation asking what shes doing etc..... if she says no then just ask her if she what to do something.... She will probably say yes what you want to do... keep on going on what she will like to do... go to a movie etc...

You'll be ok with that... she is probably waiting for you to call her at this time lol So go ahead and let's us know what happens

2008-06-18 11:35:52

#18

Funky_Finny: Banned; +456|6601|Carnoustie, Scotland

"Ask her out"

Are you saying go out to a movie or be your gf?

2008-06-18 11:36:25

#19

SpIk3y: Minister of Silly Walks; +67|6608|New Jersey

Ask her to go to a specific event/place. Don't just say "Wanna hang out?" Say "Let's go mini-golfing this weekend." or something like that, be specific. Then you can set up the time and details right there.

2008-06-18 11:36:38

#20

SEREVENT: MASSIVE G STAR; +605|6576|Birmingham, UK

Funky_Finny wrote:
"Ask her out"

Are you saying go out to a movie or be your gf?

Urm, i dunno, depends what comes out

Nah probably movies.

2008-06-18 11:39:11

#21

Ryan: Member; +1,230|7312|Alberta, Canada

^*AlphA*^ wrote:
SEREVENT wrote:
cyborg_ninja-117 wrote:

Ehh just say wanna go out for a movie or something. Confidence is key to asking a woman out, that's what they like to see in a man.
Hmmm. Thats got the speaking part over. Now to the reactions...

"Yes"- I do/say:

"No"- I do/say:
Yes - ok cool, see you then

No - FOR THE LOVE OF GOD YOU $&#*@#*#@ IM ALL HERE FOR WHAT???? THIS YOU PEACE OF $&*#*# I AM OPENING UP LIKE THIS AND NOW!!

(ok real one, hmm... "Alright, well have fun with *insert excuse here*, see you some other time.

You pick up chicks like that? How many of them get into bed with you though?

2008-06-18 11:40:15

#22

Sgt._Eraser74: Upper Decker Expert; +54|7032

Try to nonchalantly see if she feels about you the way you do for her. Ask her to a movie. During the course of the movie, casually reach over & hold her hand. Provided that it goes well, wait a bit & maybe kiss her hand. Sometimes the little things can make a woman melt.

2008-06-18 11:41:20

#23

Funky_Finny: Banned; +456|6601|Carnoustie, Scotland

SEREVENT wrote:
Funky_Finny wrote:
"Ask her out"

Are you saying go out to a movie or be your gf?
Urm, i dunno, depends what comes out

Nah probably movies.

Well then go with (I can't believe I'm saying this) what Andoura said. But don't do it on the phone, do it irl. When (not if, think positive) she says yes act cool (Not OMGNOWAI YAS!! GO ME I'm TEH BEST EVUR) and say something like "Alright, awesome/cool/great/<insert adjective>". If she says no look a bit hurt, but not too much, and go aww, okay then.

Gl stud

2008-06-18 11:42:09

#24

cowami: OY, BITCHTITS!; +1,106|6759|Noo Yawk, Noo Yawk

Sgt._Eraser74 wrote:
Try to nonchalantly see if she feels about you the way you do for her. Ask her to a movie. During the course of the movie, casually reach over & hold her hand. Provided that it goes well, wait a bit & maybe kiss her hand. Sometimes the little things can make a woman melt.

don't forget "the move"

y'know, yawn, stretch, arm on shoulder

SIXTY PERCENT OF THE TIME, IT WORKS EVERY TIME
_{i'm not responsible for any sort of embarrassment or failure this may cause you}

2008-06-18 11:43:03

#25

icecold2510: Member; +31|6763

SEREVENT wrote:
cyborg_ninja-117 wrote:
SEREVENT wrote:
Yeah i know to ask her in person, i mean, what do i actually say? Then what do i say/do if she says yes/no?
Ehh just say wanna go out for a movie or something. Confidence is key to asking a woman out, that's what they like to see in a man.
Hmmm. Thats got the speaking part over. Now to the reactions...

"Yes"- I do/say: Just smile and think of sex

"No"- I do/say:Just smile and think of rape

No but just smile and be all sweet n shit.

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