BF2S Forums Games not lasting long enough.

Its not really a complaint its more like a mild irritation, but its hard to play a full game specially from the get go every flag is taken. I try to tell my team to let them have one flag so the game can go on, but all I get is good old FU man i want to win. I try to join 64plyr maps with like 10 people in it but the game always end too soon cause people drop out, maybe cause i keep killing em yah but it is kind of annoying because im just want my stinkin combat and marksman infantry medals. Im sorry if a thread like this was already started but i guess i over looked it. So does any body know a good ranked server a with a time limit of 35 mins, so i go for my medals and command badge. Any help will do thanks guys.