Girlsproblemslols. This is why it's great to be single.
I'm good friends with my ex's, and I tell you, it does suck in ways. I'm too nice to cut all ties with them, though. And when my latest one's single, we screw around so it's not all bad.
Just do what you want. It would be more beneficial for you to cut all ties, but if you're not the kinda person that can do that, then just go for the friends with benefits thing. Understand that they will find someone else, though. Also understand you should be looking, too, and not hope for a revival of your relationship.
Just do what you want. It would be more beneficial for you to cut all ties, but if you're not the kinda person that can do that, then just go for the friends with benefits thing. Understand that they will find someone else, though. Also understand you should be looking, too, and not hope for a revival of your relationship.
mtb0minime wrote:
Girlsproblemslols. This is why it's great to be single.
My gf wore a crotchless thong last night.mtb0minime wrote:
Girlsproblemslols. This is why it's great to be single.
still wanting to be single?
What was the point in putting anything on at all?Adams_BJ wrote:
My gf wore a crotchless thong last night.mtb0minime wrote:
Girlsproblemslols. This is why it's great to be single.
still wanting to be single?
I'm afraid I'll have to back Uzique on this, I'm not even going to try. Seeing an ex I have gotten over, don't care for anymore at all, after so many months might not make me want her back, but it will bring up memories of times when I did. Feelings fade, but memories remain, regardless of how much time will pass.Uzique wrote:
meet up with her 10 more times then tell me she's 'just another girl'.Zimmer wrote:
I think this is true only if you hold on to her right after the relationship. It's been 5 months since me and my ex broke up... I broke most contact from her in that time, only occasionally talking and all that - she was the one that made the effort to talk.Uzique wrote:
if it's properly over, then the honest and painfully truthful best way is to never be friends or talk to her again
staying close to exes that were 'the real deal' or had special significance is a constant emotional pain; there will always be a string tugging, somewhere. fuck. that. you'll be better off putting a tombstone in your back garden, hosting a funeral service and convincing your head that to all greater extent the girl is dead.
Then last Saturday we agreed to meet up, and when I did... There was no emotional tug or pain, I was happy to see her and the idea of her still made me funny inside, but I never thought of grabbing her and kissing her, of wanting her or anything else. She was a new girl to me, that I didn't have much interest in. She noticed that (after I made sarcastic jokes at how poor our relationship was) and now I believe she's severed total contact from me. I think (hope?) she realised what she had lost and it opened the wounds that she tried to close by running around several guys... I found that a bit ironic seeing as she was the one that broke up with me and was insensitive about it.
So yeah, I think it's fine after [insert X months of the time you believe you need to get over a girl], but I agree that maintaining contact right after is not a good idea.
i left it for months, too. then rebroke the friendship barrier, again. i live with my ex, dunno if you remember.
it doesn't stay that way for either person and it becomes messy again very quickly. i still get my ex coming into my room whenever she's unhappy with her current life so she can hang out and get a hug from me. yeah, i'll give it cause i don't like to see her unhappy. but, benefit? easy friendship? hell fucking no. it's an emotional headfuck. avoid if you can.
I did sort of had to see a very old ex (I don't me she was old ) recently, but in the relatively impersonal atmosphere of a class reunion. It actually scared me how little it did to me, even after all those years, in fact I felt absolutely nothing. However that alone, the fact that she was the only one in the room I did not talk to and the fact that no-one else apparently went anywhere near the subject, does say something.
You Sir,.. haven't lived.mtb0minime wrote:
Girlsproblemslols. This is why it's great to be single.
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Because its hawtebug9 wrote:
What was the point in putting anything on at all?Adams_BJ wrote:
My gf wore a crotchless thong last night.mtb0minime wrote:
Girlsproblemslols. This is why it's great to be single.
still wanting to be single?
I actually thought you were Marlboroman.Adams_BJ wrote:
Because its hawtebug9 wrote:
What was the point in putting anything on at all?Adams_BJ wrote:
My gf wore a crotchless thong last night.
still wanting to be single?
Sig thief.
Air thiefFFLink wrote:
I actually thought you were Marlboroman.Adams_BJ wrote:
Because its hawtebug9 wrote:
What was the point in putting anything on at all?
Sig thief.
oh snap
£35.CammRobb wrote:
Lol how much we talking?JakAttaK wrote:
Finray your relationship sounds exactly like mine but in terms of progress your like 2 months behind. Everything you have said about the break up has happened to me. Similar reasons etc. Do what the other guys are saying. Little contact as possible. When we talk I'm nice to her, but I try not to initiate conversation (she does owe me money though so I'm quick to remind her about that shit).
Oh that's noth--- holy shit that's like $1000!JakAttaK wrote:
£35.CammRobb wrote:
Lol how much we talking?JakAttaK wrote:
Finray your relationship sounds exactly like mine but in terms of progress your like 2 months behind. Everything you have said about the break up has happened to me. Similar reasons etc. Do what the other guys are saying. Little contact as possible. When we talk I'm nice to her, but I try not to initiate conversation (she does owe me money though so I'm quick to remind her about that shit).
If your relationship looks exactly like his, are we talking about coincidence or symptoms..?
Haha, it's alot of money to me.mtb0minime wrote:
Oh that's noth--- holy shit that's like $1000!JakAttaK wrote:
£35.CammRobb wrote:
Lol how much we talking?
And Chou, I'm no longer in a relationship, it's just funny how it's because of similar reasons, and ended in a very similar way.
Okay, let's keep it at symptomsJakAttaK wrote:
Haha, it's alot of money to me.mtb0minime wrote:
Oh that's noth--- holy shit that's like $1000!JakAttaK wrote:
£35.
And Chou, I'm no longer in a relationship, it's just funny how it's because of similar reasons, and ended in a very similar way.
I want a girlfriend but don't want to abandon my standards.
Halp
Halp
lower them.
Blackbelts are just whitebelts who have never quit.
Blasphemy!m3thod wrote:
lower them.
what are these standards you speak of o bevoBevo wrote:
I want a girlfriend but don't want to abandon my standards.
Halp
1. AttractiveKimmmmmmmmmmmm wrote:
what are these standards you speak of o bevoBevo wrote:
I want a girlfriend but don't want to abandon my standards.
Halp
2. Not a complete moron
austin is a singles capital there should be plenty of fishin in thar city
go to local parties to meet ladies friends of friends ..dont expect to meet your next gf in a bar
keywords: through friends
go to local parties to meet ladies friends of friends ..dont expect to meet your next gf in a bar
keywords: through friends
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kimmm i'm 18, i dont go to bars
i go out with friends pretty often and tell them to invite all their friends and such... i've met lots of new people. just seem to have no luck
i go out with friends pretty often and tell them to invite all their friends and such... i've met lots of new people. just seem to have no luck
I've removed myself from the hassle of wanting a girlfriend or any of that crap, I just can't be fucked anymore. If something comes along then that's all good otherwise I'm not going out of my way for anything
What's it all about anyway, fuck all
What's it all about anyway, fuck all
i know a girl who's on her 4th bf in as many years. She unstoppable!
she was banging a director at one point.
she was banging a director at one point.
Blackbelts are just whitebelts who have never quit.
we'll see about thatMekstizzle wrote:
I just can't be fucked anymore