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ygos? youre way better looking than me, and i dont have to try. man the fuck up imo

whaaaaaaaaaat wrote:

ygos? youre way better looking than me, and i dont have to try. man the fuck up imo

had to urbandictionary that

ghettoperson wrote:

I have to urbandictionary pretty much every one of Ig's posts.

OT tho, not really lacking confidence. I just don't say much. I'm a quiet person. Which people say sometimes makes me look like a douchebag, but I can't help it tbh.

Iono, is it wrong to only date girls you find attractive?

Winston_Churchill wrote:

Are there any fairly close friends you have that are girls?  You might find it more comfortable around other girls if you're with a close girl friend.  Plus, they'll usually help you with other girls that you like, both directly and indirectly.

If you dont have any close girl friends... well, make some.  Even talking to friends' girlfriends and stuff will help.

i've had a really close girl friend since about 6th grade. I'm not uncomfortable around girls at all you see - I'm not socially awkward. I'm not even really an introvert. I just don't say much.

Bevo, my brother from another mother, we are quite similar.

As far as hookups go, I wasn't a total player or anything since I'm not super outgoing or anything, but a lot of opportunities popped up in situations like what Winston described. I wouldn't go out looking for girls, and wouldn't bother with them, and instead of just hang out with friends I was comfortable around and be my loud funny self (as opposed to not saying much, like when I'm around people I don't know so well). Then, any interested ladies who might have overheard me would approach me and things went from there.

As far as relationships go, get some chick friends to set you up (tried it myself a few times though and it was ). Other alternative is to go the "let's be more than friends" route. The point is, your friends know you for who you really are, which can help with the set up, and your chick friends know you for who you really are, and can make a decision based on concrete evidence instead of having to wonder "is this guy ok or is he insane? etc."

ghettoperson wrote:

I find being loud, obnoxious and heinously drunk tends to work pretty well with girls, if that's any help.

So true; although that means the chicks are likely total sluts. Many times I've thought, "Well fuck this I don't stand a chance, might as well get super wasted and have a good time." Then sure enough, the loud obnoxious rowdy behavior brought the girls to the yard.

liquidat0r wrote:

mtb0minime wrote:

Then sure enough, the loud obnoxious rowdy behavior brought the girls to the yard.

And were you like, damn right my dick's bigger than yours?

Ah ok good. I thought you were saying that I pull a hot chick and then compare our dick sizes

Winston_Churchill wrote:

Bevo wrote:

Winston_Churchill wrote:

Are there any fairly close friends you have that are girls?  You might find it more comfortable around other girls if you're with a close girl friend.  Plus, they'll usually help you with other girls that you like, both directly and indirectly.

If you dont have any close girl friends... well, make some.  Even talking to friends' girlfriends and stuff will help.

i've had a really close girl friend since about 6th grade. I'm not uncomfortable around girls at all you see - I'm not socially awkward. I'm not even really an introvert. I just don't say much.

You dont really need to.  In my first year at university I just kinda hung around with my friends, went to parties, etc and did quite well with girls.  You dont need to be the coolest guy around, just make them laugh every once in a while and they'll remember you.  Female friends can help you find out whose interested in you, and subtly letting girls know you're interested in them.  It really isnt that hard if you put yourself in situations with girls + alcohol + people willing to help you.

well take for example the last time I went out clubbing. It was my close girl friend's friend's 18th. It was basically me, two other guys and 6 college dancers. 3 or even 4 of them expressed interest and naturally I only found one attractive, and she was the only one out of the lot with a boyfriend. Shit like that just makes me facepalm.

Bevo wrote:

Winston_Churchill wrote:

Bevo wrote:

i've had a really close girl friend since about 6th grade. I'm not uncomfortable around girls at all you see - I'm not socially awkward. I'm not even really an introvert. I just don't say much.

You dont really need to.  In my first year at university I just kinda hung around with my friends, went to parties, etc and did quite well with girls.  You dont need to be the coolest guy around, just make them laugh every once in a while and they'll remember you.  Female friends can help you find out whose interested in you, and subtly letting girls know you're interested in them.  It really isnt that hard if you put yourself in situations with girls + alcohol + people willing to help you.

well take for example the last time I went out clubbing. It was my close girl friend's friend's 18th. It was basically me, two other guys and 6 college dancers. 3 or even 4 of them expressed interest and naturally I only found one attractive, and she was the only one out of the lot with a boyfriend. Shit like that just makes me facepalm.

So hook up with the next hottest one. Or y'know, go meet some new people whilst you're there. I appreciate that it depends on the club as to whether you can actually hold a conversation or not. In which case you go down the get-fucked-up-and-dance-with-slutty-girls route. Whilst it sounds slightly pathetic, stop being fussy! If they're not genuinely ugly that is; just go have some fun, get some experience so that when you meet someone you actually like you don't cock it up.

Haha that would be good fun.