So I have applied for the Canadian Forces as infantry a couple months back and finally got the call to fly down to Vancouver to do my CFAT, medical and interview. I havent told anyone in my family/girlfriend about this cause they would go all ape shit on my ass ( I once told them that I want to be an infanteer and they fucking called me stupid and laughed at me for months so I never brought it up again) because they have this idea of me being a tradesman (plumber, electrician etc...) and its not for me. I dont know how to tell any of them.
My dad would say I am an idiot and that I wont get nothing out of it, that when I come out of the army I well have no skills etc. I want to tell him to shove is fucking joint up his ass. My mom wants me to be a Police Officer so it shouldnt be that hard to convince her this is what I want ( my parents are divorced and live in seperate towns so I need to tell them both). Now my girlfriend doesnt want me to join because I well be away from her and I can die blah blah blah. If I have to I well leave her ass. So please anyone some advice would be great.
My dad would say I am an idiot and that I wont get nothing out of it, that when I come out of the army I well have no skills etc. I want to tell him to shove is fucking joint up his ass. My mom wants me to be a Police Officer so it shouldnt be that hard to convince her this is what I want ( my parents are divorced and live in seperate towns so I need to tell them both). Now my girlfriend doesnt want me to join because I well be away from her and I can die blah blah blah. If I have to I well leave her ass. So please anyone some advice would be great.