I need help.

2009-03-12 17:16:30

#1

FFLink: There is.; +1,380|7121|Devon, England

Right.

I'll cut things short:

My girlfriend's semi-emo. Sometimes she'll be all cute and happy, and something will happen to drop her right down.

Currently, she's kind inbetween, rocking back and forth. SOMETHING has happened to her to take away my happy Chloe (Her name) and make it all "Meh" and stuff. She won't tell me what this is, and by me trying to get it out of her it's making things worse. It's nothing I've done though, so I just leave it.

ANYWAY, the main question:

Saturday is our 9 month anniversery thing (inb4thatnotbeinglongatalletcetc) and I know that if I do something awesome for it, she'll get all happy again, and we can work on fixing this thing that's bringing her down.

The only thing is... I'm fucking stuck for ideas. Below is a list of considerations needed to be taken into account, and maybe you can see why I'm stumped:

- Time of her month
- She hates me spending lots of money on her
- English weather is dodgy. Could be good, could be bad
- None of us can drive yet (Both due for final tests in April )
- She lives like 14 miles away, bus times can be dodgy to work with
- She lives in a crappy village with nothing to do in

All I have so far is what I'm currently working on, which is a crap load of music for her and some software to help her learn Japanese (She's learning Japanese). This, of course, costs little to nothing for me (Wink wink), and she will appreciate it a lot.

But now I just need something to do.

All I can think of is making food, and that's probably not that fun. Plus she's a vegetarian, so nothing easy and meat-a-licious.

Halps!

2009-03-12 17:17:18

#2

Sidsnot: Banned; +93|5992|Stoke, England

Dress up as a pirate

2009-03-12 17:23:17

#3

FFLink: There is.; +1,380|7121|Devon, England

Sidsnot wrote:
Dress up as a pirate

Best idea so far.

2009-03-12 17:23:35

#4

Pochsy: Artifice of Eternity; +702|5973|Toronto

I've been is a similar situation.

First, make a picnic. Then make a fort with her (sounds stupid but girls love cheesy shit, and forts kick ass) out of things in the house...blankets, pillows, chairs, tables...whatever. Eat picnic in fort. Then get sex in fort. Or in your case get blue balls in fort.

It works. Do it.

The shape of an eye in front of the ocean, digging for stones and throwing them against its window pane. Take it down dreamer, take it down deep. - Other Families

2009-03-12 17:24:40

#5

SgtHeihn: Should have ducked; +394|6917|Ham Lake, MN (Fucking Cold)

Hire a taxi and take her to a happy vegan restaurant.

Or

make her a build a bear thing.

(that better liq?)

2009-03-12 17:24:57

#6

phishman420: Banned; +821|6111

dress up as a pirate then tell her to make you a sandwich

2009-03-12 17:24:59

#7

Sidsnot: Banned; +93|5992|Stoke, England

FFLink13 wrote:
Sidsnot wrote:
Dress up as a pirate
Best idea so far.

She likes pirates, right?

2009-03-12 17:25:37

#8

FFLink: There is.; +1,380|7121|Devon, England

Pochsy wrote:
I've been is a similar situation.

First, make a picnic. Then make a fort with her (sounds stupid but girls love cheesy shit, and forts kick ass) out of things in the house...blankets, pillows, chairs, tables...whatever. Eat picnic in fort. Then get sex in fort. Or in your case get blue balls in fort.

It works. Do it.

Ha ha, sounds like a plan... I'm considering it, but I don't know how we would go about making a fort in her room...

I'd have to draw up some fort building blueprints.

2009-03-12 17:28:09

#9

Pochsy: Artifice of Eternity; +702|5973|Toronto

FFLink13 wrote:
Pochsy wrote:
I've been is a similar situation.

First, make a picnic. Then make a fort with her (sounds stupid but girls love cheesy shit, and forts kick ass) out of things in the house...blankets, pillows, chairs, tables...whatever. Eat picnic in fort. Then get sex in fort. Or in your case get blue balls in fort.

It works. Do it.
Ha ha, sounds like a plan... I'm considering it, but I don't know how we would go about making a fort in her room...

I'd have to draw up some fort building blueprints.

When we did it was the worst fort I had ever seen. It consisted of four chairs (back to back) and a blanket draped over top with pillows and blankets at the bottom.

Draw plans up. You don't want a repeat of my epic fail fort.

The shape of an eye in front of the ocean, digging for stones and throwing them against its window pane. Take it down dreamer, take it down deep. - Other Families

2009-03-12 18:12:37

#10

FFLink: There is.; +1,380|7121|Devon, England

Pochsy wrote:
FFLink13 wrote:
Pochsy wrote:
I've been is a similar situation.

First, make a picnic. Then make a fort with her (sounds stupid but girls love cheesy shit, and forts kick ass) out of things in the house...blankets, pillows, chairs, tables...whatever. Eat picnic in fort. Then get sex in fort. Or in your case get blue balls in fort.

It works. Do it.
Ha ha, sounds like a plan... I'm considering it, but I don't know how we would go about making a fort in her room...

I'd have to draw up some fort building blueprints.
When we did it was the worst fort I had ever seen. It consisted of four chairs (back to back) and a blanket draped over top with pillows and blankets at the bottom.

Draw plans up. You don't want a repeat of my epic fail fort.

I think the plans will help keep things sane and not make it look like I just made it up on the spot XD

2009-03-12 18:14:32

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Winston_Churchill: Bazinga!; +521|7169|Toronto | Canada

Watch 24 and keep repeating

DAMNIT CHLOE!!

2009-03-12 18:14:39

#12

Pochsy: Artifice of Eternity; +702|5973|Toronto

FFLink13 wrote:
Pochsy wrote:
FFLink13 wrote:

Ha ha, sounds like a plan... I'm considering it, but I don't know how we would go about making a fort in her room...

I'd have to draw up some fort building blueprints.
When we did it was the worst fort I had ever seen. It consisted of four chairs (back to back) and a blanket draped over top with pillows and blankets at the bottom.

Draw plans up. You don't want a repeat of my epic fail fort.
I think the plans will help keep things sane and not make it look like I just made it up on the spot XD

Also good. Then you'll have proof on paper that you care. Good thinking man.

The shape of an eye in front of the ocean, digging for stones and throwing them against its window pane. Take it down dreamer, take it down deep. - Other Families

2009-03-12 19:48:32

#13

FFLink: There is.; +1,380|7121|Devon, England

Pochsy wrote:
FFLink13 wrote:
Pochsy wrote:

When we did it was the worst fort I had ever seen. It consisted of four chairs (back to back) and a blanket draped over top with pillows and blankets at the bottom.

Draw plans up. You don't want a repeat of my epic fail fort.
I think the plans will help keep things sane and not make it look like I just made it up on the spot XD
Also good. Then you'll have proof on paper that you care. Good thinking man.

Ok, done:

https://img4.imageshack.us/img4/5995/blueprint2s.png

This is part of the plan. I still need more ideas, people!

2009-03-12 19:53:50

#14

argo4: Stand and Deliver; +86|6363|United States

rent a movie(ice age, whatever any chill movie), get ridiculously high=fun times

2009-03-12 19:56:33

#15

FFLink: There is.; +1,380|7121|Devon, England

argo4 wrote:
rent a movie(ice age, whatever any chill movie), get ridiculously high=fun times

We watch films as a regular thing... Need something different and "special".

Getting high is out of the question, but I won't go into that.

2009-03-12 19:57:33

#16

[-DER-]Omega: membeR; +188|7257|Lithuania

take her to a therapist

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2009-03-12 19:59:09

#17

ATG: Banned; +5,233|6959|Global Command

I made my girl friend a little brass box with a love note inside.

It was rather crude with visible solder and all, and the lock didn't work so I had to cut it open for her.

She still was pleased as nobody had ever made her anything.

We now have two crumb crunchers and a upside down mortgage.

Do it fagot.

2009-03-12 19:59:56

#18

FFLink: There is.; +1,380|7121|Devon, England

[-DER-]Omega wrote:
take her to a therapist

Truly hilarious.

ATG wrote:
I made my girl friend a little brass box with a love note inside.

It was rather crude with visible solder and all, and the lock didn't work so I had to cut it open for her.

She still was pleased as nobody had ever made her anything.

We now have two crumb crunchers and a upside down mortgage.

Do it fagot.

Hmm... Good idea... Don't know what I can make though, in such a short time... I have friday night, 9:30 til sleep, then saturday morning til about 15:00 to finish all preperation, then it's off hers.

Last edited by FFLink13 (2009-03-12 20:01:28)

2009-03-12 20:00:03

#19

argo4: Stand and Deliver; +86|6363|United States

FFLink13 wrote:
argo4 wrote:
rent a movie(ice age, whatever any chill movie), get ridiculously high=fun times
We watch films as a regular thing... Need something different and "special".

Getting high is out of the question, but I won't go into that.

yeah, that stuff can get expensive, plus the smell

2009-03-12 20:09:27

#20

FFLink: There is.; +1,380|7121|Devon, England

Just read a new idea. Get an empty bottle, rip up loads of paper and write stuff on each piece, so she can read one anytime she wants.

I got a lot of great things to say about her and why she's so amazing to me, so this is just perfect Off bed now, hoping for more ideas in the morning

2009-03-12 20:11:38

#21

argo4: Stand and Deliver; +86|6363|United States

FFLink13 wrote:
Just read a new idea. Get an empty bottle, rip up loads of paper and write stuff on each piece, so she can read one anytime she wants.

I got a lot of great things to say about her and why she's so amazing to me, so this is just perfect Off bed now, hoping for more ideas in the morning

just wondering, how old? great idea btw

2009-03-12 20:15:14

#22

VspyVspy: Sniper; +183|7103|A sunburnt country

She sounds way too high maintenance man.

She probably won't change and if you have to impress her in a hugely spectacular way, just for a nine month anniversary, imagine what you'd have to do after 2 years!

Save yourself the heartache mate, fuck her off and get a new one.

2009-03-12 20:18:26

#23

argo4: Stand and Deliver; +86|6363|United States

she might be cheating on you

2009-03-13 02:49:28

#24

FFLink: There is.; +1,380|7121|Devon, England

VspyVspy wrote:
She sounds way too high maintenance man.

She probably won't change and if you have to impress her in a hugely spectacular way, just for a nine month anniversary, imagine what you'd have to do after 2 years!

Save yourself the heartache mate, fuck her off and get a new one.

This isn't about impressing her, it's letting her know I care about her and making her feel extra special.

I'm not gonna leave her cos she "Sounds way too high maintenance" as I'm just not that kinda person. I have feelings and care for people, you see.

We're both 18, by the way. Almost 19.

Last edited by FFLink13 (2009-03-13 02:50:05)

2009-03-13 02:52:51

#25

Cheez: Herman is a warmaphrodite; +1,027|6869|King Of The Islands

Sidsnot wrote:
FFLink13 wrote:
Sidsnot wrote:
Dress up as a pirate
Best idea so far.
She likes pirates, right?

Everyone loves pirates.

My state was founded by Batman. Your opinion is invalid.

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