I dumped a girl last night

2010-06-30 01:26:45

#1

1927: The oldest chav in the world; +2,423|7069|Cardiff, Capital of Wales

Fuck man, I never have to do that, usually they do it to me.

I spent 2 days thinking did I/didnt I want to knock her on the head and then 2 days trying to work out how I say it.

I did it the correct way, I rang her. Was only nailing her for 4 weeks and she started getting emotional, tut. I had to do it, she was about to say 'I love you'.

Its not the nicest of things to have to do but I learned a few years back in 2005 when I dumped a girl I had been with for 6 months, if your unsure do it rather than later.

Please dont say fuck all on my facebook.

I do feel guilty but as I say Im wise enough to know the sooner you get out the better, at least this way her kids n Molls wont be upset.

Its a bit of a shit thread I know - but rather than chuck it in EE and it gets lost I wouldnt mind hearing some of your tales about breaking up with girls, the shittiest way of having it done to you. I have got a fairly good one myself which I can add to this thread later on if the thread works.

2010-06-30 01:29:50

#2

Ultrafunkula: Hector: Ding, ding, ding, ding...; +1,975|6869|6 6 4 oh, I forget

Did the right thing. Better sooner than later to avoid more damage.

2010-06-30 01:33:46

#3

mtb0minime: minimember; +2,418|7050

I once had to "dump" a girl after just 2 or 3 weeks. She was way too attached. I was in for some summer fun, she thought it was the long haul (I never ever gave her that impression either; she was just young and dumb). I wanted to burn all bridges, after all, she did flip out on me like crazy, and got even more hysterical when I was confused as hell.

Women

2010-06-30 01:35:52

#4

Ultrafunkula: Hector: Ding, ding, ding, ding...; +1,975|6869|6 6 4 oh, I forget

mtb0minime wrote:
I once had to "dump" a girl after just 2 or 3 weeks. She was way too attached. I was in for some summer fun, she thought it was the long haul (I never ever gave her that impression either; she was just young and dumb). I wanted to burn all bridges, after all, she did flip out on me like crazy, and got even more hysterical when I was confused as hell.

Women

Oh, to have had the knowledge about women and dating back then what I have now. Would've helped plenty. But that's what's called growing up or something like that.

2010-06-30 01:38:15

#5

1927: The oldest chav in the world; +2,423|7069|Cardiff, Capital of Wales

Ewwwww growing up, I aint fucking doing that, never.

2010-06-30 01:44:55

#6

mtb0minime: minimember; +2,418|7050

I honestly think this thread has some serious potential. Look how far the "girl-problems thread" has come. I'm sure there are so many counterparts and catch-ups from active members in that thread, as well as all the young teens madly in love at first sight with that girl who sits in the front row in high school English class

2010-06-30 01:54:00

#7

DefCon-17: Maple Syrup Faggot; +362|6551|Vancouver | Canada

I took a dump on a girl last night.

(..Not really.)

2010-06-30 02:10:30

#8

FloppY_: +1,010|6681|Denmark aka Automotive Hell

My first girlfriend broke up with me ~½ a year after getting together...

Reason: I miss beeing single

After which she waited 1 week and then hooked up with a friend of mine I had intruduced her to...

shit stings bro'

Oh well, at least I found out what she was worth..

Your thoughts, insights, and musings on this matter intrigue me

2010-06-30 02:13:57

#9

Catbox: forgiveness; +505|7111

Love is the answer

2010-06-30 02:17:53

#10

1927: The oldest chav in the world; +2,423|7069|Cardiff, Capital of Wales

FloppY_ wrote:
My first girlfriend broke up with me ~½ a year after getting together...

Reason: I miss beeing single

After which she waited 1 week and then hooked up with a friend of mine I had intruduced her to...

shit stings bro'

Oh well, at least I found out what she was worth..

Ahhh you see now she deserves getting cunted in the bastard for being a liar.

This girl with me lived about a 45min drive away, the pussy was good, but wasnt that good, I didnt say all of that sentance to her I just said the drive home the next day was getting on my tits. She got too dirty too quickly with me, I think that was a factor aswell but obviously couldnt say that to her.

2010-06-30 02:20:07

#11

1927: The oldest chav in the world; +2,423|7069|Cardiff, Capital of Wales

Catbox wrote:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=l6avuh3K_70

I had to read the OP again to see if I mentioned the pain in the ass drive home I just mentioned above, but I hadnt. It wasnt until I heard a lil bit I got the point, but yeah the travelling was a pain. I dont want that lives in my town, I like my own space and knowing I can do what I like without having 'suprise' thrown at me as she walks through the door.

2010-06-30 04:17:55

#12

Jaekus: I'm the matchstick that you'll never lose; +957|5573|Sydney

Ultrafunkula wrote:
Did the right thing. Better sooner than later to avoid more damage.

Exactly.

I was once seeing a girl for a few weeks, and after some time I realised this would not be a good move to get more serious. She came back from holiday, met her at a bar and she said some guys had wanted to kiss her (on the cheek) but now she wanted a "real" kiss and looked up expectantly. I had to do it then, so I told her straight. She said she'd been thinking the same thing too, jumped in a cab and went home. A week later she told me she was more attracted to me than ever (I guess it's human nature to want more what you can't have), but it was ok I think.

So yeah, just be prepared for her to want you more than before. Good on you for telling her the way you did, you're gonna get over it a lot quicker than her though.

2010-06-30 04:22:02

#13

JakAttaK: csanva<3; +492|6721|England

I have never had to dump a girl. Always me being dumped

That said, there was a girl when I was like 14 who would not give up asking me out. She was constantly asking me, getting friends to ask me, writing me notes asking me out etc etc. She was not attractive at all. In the end we were at a party or something and she asked me again, and I told her really sternly, no. Probably too stern actually. She cried for at least two hours and hasn't spoken to me since. Also...She's a lesbian now.

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2010-06-30 04:56:10

#14

1927: The oldest chav in the world; +2,423|7069|Cardiff, Capital of Wales

I just been and seen Dad (he's in work today) machines are running, he's half deaf so Im shouting over workmates to him:

'Oh Dad, Guess what I did last night, I havent had to do it since I was 21??'

He's puzzled, hasnt a foggiest.

'Dunno' he says 'Tell me'

'I dumped a girl Dad'

.....
.....

'Fuck did you do that for, she must of been a minger'

'Dad, she even had bigger tits than me'

He just walks away and mutters 'Stupid Boy' under his breath

2010-06-30 05:06:40

#15

killer21: Because f*ck you that's why.; +400|6986|Reisterstown, MD

It's always better to let someone know that you do not share the same feelings as they do. However, having sex with a girl on numerous occasions could cause them to think you are more into them that you actually are.

2010-06-30 05:18:19

#16

1927: The oldest chav in the world; +2,423|7069|Cardiff, Capital of Wales

killer21 wrote:
It's always better to let someone know that you do not share the same feelings as they do. However, having sex with a girl on numerous occasions could cause them to think you are more into them that you actually are.

I think it was the way I sex'd her that gave her the wrong impression. I even slept on the wet patch.

2010-06-30 05:19:56

#17

Mekstizzle: WALKER; +3,611|7016|London, England

killer21 wrote:
]It's always better to let someone know that you do not share the same feelings as they do. However, having sex with a girl on numerous occasions could cause them to think you are more into them that you actually are.

That's the problem with society these days, I remember someone else bitching about similar shit and I asked "are you fucking this chick" and he was confused as to how he obviously was but couldn't see how that had any bearing on what was going on, wtf is wrong with people?

2010-06-30 05:37:14

#18

FloppY_: +1,010|6681|Denmark aka Automotive Hell

JakAttaK wrote:
I have never had to dump a girl. Always me being dumped

Your thoughts, insights, and musings on this matter intrigue me

2010-06-30 05:45:00

#19

ghettoperson: Member; +1,943|7044

Mekstizzle wrote:
killer21 wrote:
]It's always better to let someone know that you do not share the same feelings as they do. However, having sex with a girl on numerous occasions could cause them to think you are more into them that you actually are.
That's the problem with society these days, I remember someone else bitching about similar shit and I asked "are you fucking this chick" and he was confused as to how he obviously was but couldn't see how that had any bearing on what was going on, wtf is wrong with people?

"I'm sorry, I don't follow you. That's like saying, 'How can an ant carry twenty times its body weight, but root beer floats are still delicious?' Are the two even related?"

2010-06-30 05:45:51

#20

Stubbee: Religions Hate Facts, Questions and Doubts; +223|7138|Reality

1927 wrote:
killer21 wrote:
It's always better to let someone know that you do not share the same feelings as they do. However, having sex with a girl on numerous occasions could cause them to think you are more into them that you actually are.
I think it was the way I sex'd her that gave her the wrong impression. I even slept on the wet patch.

There is the problem right there.
She was supposed to swallow!

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2010-06-30 05:47:48

#21

1927: The oldest chav in the world; +2,423|7069|Cardiff, Capital of Wales

Stubbee wrote:
1927 wrote:
killer21 wrote:
It's always better to let someone know that you do not share the same feelings as they do. However, having sex with a girl on numerous occasions could cause them to think you are more into them that you actually are.
I think it was the way I sex'd her that gave her the wrong impression. I even slept on the wet patch.
There is the problem right there.
She was supposed to swallow!

She swallowed and didnt even gagg, even after I had eaten a curry - good girl.
No I took my socks off, she thought that ment 'love' not 'sex'. Best tits I have ever felt and the best BJ I have ever been given too, she lapped it up.

2010-06-30 05:48:54

#22

ghettoperson: Member; +1,943|7044

Then you're an idiot. You should have stopped hanging out with her, but popping over every so often for sex and then leaving immediately afterwards. She'd have got the message eventually.

2010-06-30 05:49:06

#23

FloppY_: +1,010|6681|Denmark aka Automotive Hell

1927 wrote:
Stubbee wrote:
1927 wrote:
I think it was the way I sex'd her that gave her the wrong impression. I even slept on the wet patch.
There is the problem right there.
She was supposed to swallow!
She swallowed and didnt even gagg, even after I had eaten a curry - good girl.
No I took my socks off, she thought that ment 'love' not 'sex'. Best tits I have ever felt and the best BJ I have ever been given too, she lapped it up.

Oh god I want one of those
Spoiler (highlight to read):
BJ not socks

Last edited by FloppY_ (2010-06-30 05:49:20)

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2010-06-30 05:52:01

#24

1927: The oldest chav in the world; +2,423|7069|Cardiff, Capital of Wales

ghettoperson wrote:
Then you're an idiot. You should have stopped hanging out with her, but popping over every so often for sex and then leaving immediately afterwards. She'd have got the message eventually.

Nahhh Im 34 I dont a fuck buddy, been there done all that. Her heart was in it, all I had in it was my balls really. If I didnt like her as a person I wouldnt give a fuck, but she's as good as gold and thus I had to do the right thing. I didnt break her heart but I cracked it, if It had carried on she would of ended up a wreck, probably turn to booze and drugs and next thing you know the social take the kids off her.

All because of me.

2010-06-30 05:57:37

#25

Uzique: dasein.; +2,865|6866

FloppY_ wrote:
My first girlfriend broke up with me ~½ a year after getting together...

Reason: I miss beeing single

After which she waited 1 week and then hooked up with a friend of mine I had intruduced her to...

shit stings bro'

Oh well, at least I found out what she was worth..

we've all had that excuse/scenario at least once

those sorta bitches aint worth the oxygen they breathe

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