What do 'friends' do with each other?

2010-10-13 12:32:09

#1

Macbeth: Banned; +2,444|5977

So I saw a girl I went to grammar school and high school with a few months back and she gave me her number to hang out sometime. I called her today because I was bored and long story short I'll be picking her up after her class at 9PM today.

She's a fairly okay looking girl but I just don't have any interest in having sex or a relationship with her and I just want to be friends. I think she probably feels the same way to which is fine with me.

So what do 'friends' do which each other? Where do we go and what do we do and talk about etc? Do I just treat her the same way as I would a girl I want to sleep with but just not sleep with her? I can't treat her like I would a guy friend because she isn't a guy and doesn't have the same interest as one.

I'm really stressed out about what I'm going to do later today when I see her.

And yes I really haven't hung out with a girl I haven't wanted to sleep with since HS ended back in 08 so I'm a bit fucked when it comes to interpersonal nonsexual relationships with girls.

Thanks.

2010-10-13 12:34:09

#2

SEREMAKER: BABYMAKIN EXPERT √; +2,187|6960|Mountains of NC

no interest in sex ............. theres always interest in sex

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2010-10-13 12:35:07

#3

Macbeth: Banned; +2,444|5977

Maybe if she offered but really I'm just looking for someone to spend some time with.

2010-10-13 12:36:17

#4

.Sup: be nice; +2,646|6845|The Twilight Zone

They lend hands or something else...

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2010-10-13 12:37:08

#5

mtb0minime: minimember; +2,418|7046

Sit around high on meth watching Jersey Shore and Dancing with the Stars.

2010-10-13 12:37:26

#6

SonderKommando: Eat, Lift, Grow, Repeat....; +564|7051|The darkside of Denver

Men and women cant be friends. Eventually you'll end up porking her or not hanging out anymore.

2010-10-13 12:40:04

#7

.Sup: be nice; +2,646|6845|The Twilight Zone

SonderKommando wrote:
Men and women cant be friends. Eventually you'll end up porking her or not hanging out anymore.

Even the not so pretty ones? And being drunk is never an excuse to shag a manly faced woman doughnut.

2010-10-13 12:42:51

#8

SonderKommando: Eat, Lift, Grow, Repeat....; +564|7051|The darkside of Denver

.Sup wrote:
SonderKommando wrote:
Men and women cant be friends. Eventually you'll end up porking her or not hanging out anymore.
Even the not so pretty ones? And being drunk is never an excuse to shag a manly faced woman doughnut.

Who talks to the ones who arent pretty?

2010-10-13 12:43:28

#9

Macbeth: Banned; +2,444|5977

On topic guys. What do I do with her later?

2010-10-13 12:44:13

#10

SEREMAKER: BABYMAKIN EXPERT √; +2,187|6960|Mountains of NC

Macbeth wrote:
On topic guys. What do I do with her later?

make her do the walk of shame

2010-10-13 12:45:18

#11

mtb0minime: minimember; +2,418|7046

If there's no sexual interest at all, and you can't have fun sitting around doing "nothing" (watching tv, mundane shit, etc.), then you probably won't be good friends.

2010-10-13 12:45:49

#12

.Sup: be nice; +2,646|6845|The Twilight Zone

SonderKommando wrote:
.Sup wrote:
SonderKommando wrote:
Men and women cant be friends. Eventually you'll end up porking her or not hanging out anymore.
Even the not so pretty ones? And being drunk is never an excuse to shag a manly faced woman doughnut.
Who talks to the ones who arent pretty?

got me now. But seriously sometimes you need them, maybe to do your homework or do exams instead of you or just prepare some samiches ya digg?

2010-10-13 12:46:57

#13

SEREMAKER: BABYMAKIN EXPERT √; +2,187|6960|Mountains of NC

.Sup wrote:
SonderKommando wrote:
.Sup wrote:

Even the not so pretty ones? And being drunk is never an excuse to shag a manly faced woman doughnut.
Who talks to the ones who arent pretty?
got me now. But seriously sometimes you need them, maybe to do your homework or do exams instead of you or just prepare some samiches ya digg?

and maybe a random blowjob ... here or there .... bust a nut and be on with your way

2010-10-13 12:47:12

#14

SonderKommando: Eat, Lift, Grow, Repeat....; +564|7051|The darkside of Denver

.Sup wrote:
SonderKommando wrote:
.Sup wrote:

Even the not so pretty ones? And being drunk is never an excuse to shag a manly faced woman doughnut.
Who talks to the ones who arent pretty?
got me now. But seriously sometimes you need them, maybe to do your homework or do exams instead of you or just prepare some samiches ya digg?

Which leads to the second part of my statement, after their use has been expired you stop hanging out. Otherwise sexual tension would inevitably build up until you fuck her face off.

2010-10-13 12:47:29

#15

.Sup: be nice; +2,646|6845|The Twilight Zone

Macbeth wrote:
On topic guys. What do I do with her later?

hey Vinnie did Snooky and everything worked out just fine

2010-10-13 12:49:56

#16

SonderKommando: Eat, Lift, Grow, Repeat....; +564|7051|The darkside of Denver

.Sup wrote:
Macbeth wrote:
On topic guys. What do I do with her later?
hey Vinnie did Snooky and everything worked out just fine

that proves my point though. They couldnt be just friends, they ended up sexin.

2010-10-13 12:50:02

#17

Poseidon: Fudgepack DeQueef; +3,253|6929|Long Island, New York

SonderKommando wrote:
Men and women cant be friends. Eventually you'll end up porking her or not hanging out anymore.

This. 100%.

I have a girl (who's actually coming to visit me at college on friday) who's pretty much my absolute best friend. She helps me out with anything I need and I help her out. And we fuck. It was pretty much inevitable since the day we met tbh. But we understand it's casual and we both know it'll never lead to a relationship. It's just to relieve stress or to have fun. We both get it.

I mean, I do have the rare girl friend who I'm just friends with... my one friend I went to camp with and worked with (at said camp) this summer is good friends with me, but if you think I haven't tried for her you're crazy.

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2010-10-13 12:50:24

#18

Jenspm: penis; +1,716|7124|St. Andrews / Oslo

lol

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2010-10-13 12:51:37

#19

SEREMAKER: BABYMAKIN EXPERT √; +2,187|6960|Mountains of NC

Poseidon wrote:
SonderKommando wrote:
Men and women cant be friends. Eventually you'll end up porking her or not hanging out anymore.
This. 100%.

I have a girl (who's actually coming to visit me at college on friday) who's pretty much my absolute best friend. She helps me out with anything I need and I help her out. And we fuck. It was pretty much inevitable since the day we met tbh. But we understand it's casual and we both know it'll never lead to a relationship. It's just to relieve stress or to have fun. We both get it.

I mean, I do have the rare girl friend who I'm just friends with... my one friend I went to camp with and worked with (at said camp) this summer is good friends with me, but if you think I haven't tried for her you're crazy.

is she hot - good looking .............. on a scale from 1 - 10, where does she stand

2010-10-13 12:52:09

#20

.Sup: be nice; +2,646|6845|The Twilight Zone

SonderKommando wrote:
.Sup wrote:
Macbeth wrote:
On topic guys. What do I do with her later?
hey Vinnie did Snooky and everything worked out just fine
that proves my point though. They couldnt be just friends, they ended up sexin.

If you put two persons in one place for a longer period they will do each other sooner or later. I mean just look at prisons- there's more action going on there than Dutch brothels.

2010-10-13 12:52:18

#21

Toilet Sex: one love, one pig; +1,775|6964

Poseidon wrote:
SonderKommando wrote:
Men and women cant be friends. Eventually you'll end up porking her or not hanging out anymore.
This. 100%.

not really

the majority of my friends are girls

♥

2010-10-13 12:52:28

#22

Wreckognize: Member; +294|6877

mtb0minime wrote:
If there's no sexual interest at all, and you can't have fun sitting around doing "nothing" (watching tv, mundane shit, etc.), then you probably won't be good friends.

Best advice in this thread tbh.

Also, talking is usually a good thing to do with female friends.

2010-10-13 12:52:47

#23

Poseidon: Fudgepack DeQueef; +3,253|6929|Long Island, New York

SEREMAKER wrote:
Poseidon wrote:
SonderKommando wrote:
Men and women cant be friends. Eventually you'll end up porking her or not hanging out anymore.
This. 100%.

I have a girl (who's actually coming to visit me at college on friday) who's pretty much my absolute best friend. She helps me out with anything I need and I help her out. And we fuck. It was pretty much inevitable since the day we met tbh. But we understand it's casual and we both know it'll never lead to a relationship. It's just to relieve stress or to have fun. We both get it.

I mean, I do have the rare girl friend who I'm just friends with... my one friend I went to camp with and worked with (at said camp) this summer is good friends with me, but if you think I haven't tried for her you're crazy.
is she hot - good looking .............. on a scale from 1 - 10, where does she stand

She's about a 7. Not fantastic by any means, but she's good. And she can fuck like you wouldn't believe.

As for Mac's problem -

Macbeth wrote:
So I saw a girl I went to grammar school and high school with a few months back and she gave me her number to hang out sometime. I called her today because I was bored and long story short I'll be picking her up after her class at 9PM today.

She's a fairly okay looking girl but I just don't have any interest in having sex or a relationship with her and I just want to be friends. I think she probably feels the same way to which is fine with me.

So what do 'friends' do which each other? Where do we go and what do we do and talk about etc? Do I just treat her the same way as I would a girl I want to sleep with but just not sleep with her? I can't treat her like I would a guy friend because she isn't a guy and doesn't have the same interest as one.

I'm really stressed out about what I'm going to do later today when I see her.

And yes I really haven't hung out with a girl I haven't wanted to sleep with since HS ended back in 08 so I'm a bit fucked when it comes to interpersonal nonsexual relationships with girls.

Thanks.

Treat her nice. Treat her like a girl on a date. If she gave you her number and she wants to hang out, that's a good indication of what can happen. If you hook up you hook up, if you don't...

Toilet Sex wrote:
Poseidon wrote:
SonderKommando wrote:
Men and women cant be friends. Eventually you'll end up porking her or not hanging out anymore.
This. 100%.
not really

the majority of my friends are girls

you're probably gay m8

Last edited by Poseidon (2010-10-13 12:53:37)

2010-10-13 12:55:00

#24

Toilet Sex: one love, one pig; +1,775|6964

Poseidon wrote:
you're probably gay m8

ah shit yeah, that's what it is

♥

2010-10-13 12:55:33

#25

13urnzz: Banned; +5,830|6889

Toilet Sex wrote:
Poseidon wrote:
you're probably gay m8
ah shit yeah, that's what it is

gay like a fox!

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