BF2S Forums Bullying in schools

In my first few years at high school I got made fun of a fair bit.  For the most part I either ignored them or responded in kind, and I never really cared.  In the end no-one bothered making fun of me because when I clearly didn't care what they had to say they looked foolish.  They still hated me, I still hated them, but we just ignored each other.  It was fine.  And now, I'm done with secondary school.  RUMBA TIME!

Hurricane wrote:

Good on your son. Sounds like the bully was actually hitting him and such. Nothing like good old karma to give a swift kick to the nuts.

Uh.........that isn't karma.  Karma would be the bully tripping and falling over a bridge.  That is cause and effect.

A bully gets his (her) power from fear, if there is no fear then they have no power.  Teaching kids that they cannot defend themselves is ludacris and plain stupid in my book.  Of course it is not the child (or adult) that strikes first that gets caught and is in trouble, but rather the one that strikes back or defends themselves.  And after reading all these forums about cops abusing power, Bush is evil, the war is stupid, the war is great, Bush is our savor threads I'm about ready to say fuck it and not care anymore.  My kids, if I ever have any, will be able to defend themselves, but will know that they aren't to start a fight or try and steal their friends lunch money.

Good for him sticking up for yourself is the best option even if the bully is larger than you

mcminty wrote:

LostFate wrote:

anyway one day my mate an his girlfreind we're just chillin on a bench when a bunch of little faggots just jump on them an start hittin them even the girl was hurt really bad, it was for no reason what so ever anyway a freind of mine smacked the leader in the face he ran off an that was that a few minutes later all the chavs from our year all these ghetto tossers come out an about 20 of em surround the guy an start kickin him in at this point we all just jumped on those bastards like (mike V) i got a damn few good hits in too an those fuckers never said shit again!

Hmm, I don't know much about English culture, so what's a Chav? Are they the low-life drop-kick people at the bottom of societies ladder?

But by god, beating up a girl is pretty fucking low.



Mcminty.

Yeah that's pretty much it.

A small description to help - http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Chav

EDIT: btw dude - you and your son kick arse. +1 to you

Last edited by Shadow893 (2006-11-19 03:17:31)

2 years ago in school some kid was trying to bully me and take my iPod because he wanted it. So he says he is gonna stab me with a pencil if I dont give it to him and he does. It goes about half an inch deep into my arm.
So then I take a pair of scissors and drive it 2 and a half inches into his leg. Only got suspended for 3 days 

I think you did the right thing, even after you had talked to the father of this BULLY and he did nothing, I tell mine, if he gets bullied at school or anywhere else for that matter to Hit as hard as you can and AIM FOR THE NOSE because one of two things will happen..

One is that this nose will break and bleed and the BULLY will back down which is what happens 9 times out of 10, bullies only pick on those that dont stand up for themselves, and when you do fight back they themselves are the cowards.

OR two they do fight back but as stated in other posts there will not be any more problems because of the respect and courage to stand up against him...

My father told me that if I ever started a fight he was going to kick my ass but if got into a fight then finish it and dont take shit from no-one


GOOD FOR YOU I AM RECOMMENDING YOU FOR FATHER OF THE YEAR!!!

some_random_panda wrote:

Wow.  This thread got revived after all these weeks.

Hey this is serious. A couple of years ago this kid and his friends bullied me casue i liked the Steelers and only got my Bettis jersy after Christmas

Last year, my family friend, a big basketball player. Was getting made fun of at our school because his mom basically is a MILF, ill admitt it. Id rail her in a minute. But anyways, kids have been making fun of him for the last two or three years cause of it. Not really making fun of him, comments like. Oh i fucked your mom. Your mom was good in bed like that. Immature little shit like that, that builds up a lot  of hate in someone. The kid at first, just started punching wholes in his wall. His dad, a fucken huge guy 6'7 doesnt take any shit. Just told his son to kick the shit outt of the next person to make the comment.  But, just like every kid thinks, consiquences. Didnt really want to get in trouble for something. But, finally after a good two to three weeks after all of this took place. A kid named matt mad a comment to him in ou gym class. I see this kid charge at him, take him to the ground. But immediatly get thrown off him by this kids friend. Got thrown back on the ground and laughed at. Then a good two days later, in the locker room. He said another comment about his mom ( our parents are probally best friends with his parents, im decent friends with this kid, known him for awhile) and yet again this time walks up to him, punches him in the face. The other kid, falls back against the sink, with a blody lip, gets back up and him and two of his friends start pouncing on him. No teachers, in the locker room, just us. I get in, start pulling these kids off him, when yet i get punched in the face, while i pull  one of these kids off him. I dont think twice. About two seconds later once i realize this fagget just punched me in the face. I get back up, grab him by the head. Smash his head into the locker. ( Now the other two kids stop fighting and are just watching us) He pushes me back gets another hit on me. And then i just build up so much hate that i start punching this kids face in. After about a good three to four minutes of me just smashing his jaw in. The bells rings, and i let off him. I go over get my bag and start heading for my next class when he gets back up, follows me out into the lobby of our school, and jumps on my back. Starts saying shit now about " oh you fagget, and by the way i hope your mom dies today you mother fucker, ladada" ( My mom has cancer, and shes not doing very well at the moment) So, by this time, thats the wrong thing you say to me. I turn around smash him in the face again. Hes bleeding all over the place, i have a black eye. And finally a teacher comes over to us screaming. And im done by this point, ive gotten my point across to this kid. Dont fuck with me or my friend. And he just jumps on me, starts hitting me. While the teachers pull him off me. Soon, enough we all our parents are here. Brought as all home. I have a black eye. Other kid got 38 stiches on his fore head. Now we are all suspended from school until further notice. We all had to go to the local police station for a police report. After about two weeks, me and my friend finally went back to school, sitting in our principals office with our parents telling our side of the story. After its all said and done, this kid that i kicked the shit out of got expelled from our school. While the other two got suspended for the same time we did, and got another 20 days of inschool suspension. Besides this, ive never had so much anger built up in me, before i just bursed out. So this kid expelled ever sense has always talked more shit to me, ( onlline). But, my parents just tell me to let it slide. Ever sense havent had one problem, with anyone, nor my friend.

Until recently. Me and acouple of my friends were up at Mount Snow in vermont skiing. We were inside the lodge. Look whos here, this kid and one of his friends, whos about 6'5 skinny. Starts throwing shit at me. I yell over to him, " Yet, want to start more shit again?" haha, there was a un-opened tampon on the ground next to me. I open it up, whip it in a puddle of brown water, that is on the floor next to me. Throw it over and hit this kids girlfriend. After about ten minutes nothing happens. Me and my friends, get all our shit on, walk outside the lodge. When this kid 6'7 charges outside and duffs me in the face. Does absouletly nothing, except puts a small scratch on my goggles. Kid pushes me over onto the ground. I have ski boots on, so its hard to move around, compared to him, who has snowboard boots on. Hes punching me on my back, when this other kid (one that got expelled from our school) comes charging out laughing. My friends get this kid off me. I get up and smash the kid in the shoulder blade with my ski-pole, as he walks back inside. This kid is done. I yet hobble over to him as hes moaning on the ground and kick him with my ski boots on. Instantly hes done, now this other fagget (kid got expelled) takes on of my 800 skis and throws out on the concrete path way. Im, heated again, at this fagget, take his head smash it into the snow. He gets back up, I punch him on the face, and start smashing his face on the picnic table, before all of these nearby workers, tell us we have 2minutes or there calling the cops. Rip our tickets and tell us to leave. Both the kids are on the ground as i go collect my skis. And start skiing down the bunnyhill to get to the car. Broke my brake on my bindings when he threw my ski, nothing big (5 dollar part). It was welll worth my 30 dollar lift ticket and the piece on my bindings. I havent recieved one message from this kid online ever again. I hear his parents straightned him out, after i was done with him yet again. hah kid had to get another 8 stitches above his eye,from where i smashed his on the picnic table. And, im actually chill with his friend (kid thats 6'7) finally. After he told me he was gonna kick the shit outta me for smoking him with my ski-pole, luckily nothing ever happened again from that day. All of this and the kid has two huge scars on his face, for him talking all this shit. I dont know any other faster way to straighten someone out then by kicking the shit out of them. Not only have I learned from this, I personally now watch what I say. I do think, standing up for yourself is something that your should tell your son. And if it ever happens again, I would tell your son, the same thing. Kick the shit out of this kid until they learn there lesson. Cheers

Never hit first, self defense if you don't

hm, i mean, its not gonna hurt like getting hit with a baseball bat. What i mean by this. I snuffed him with the pole. He was on the ground done. (By this i mean i knew that he wasnt going to get back and kill me) he was done trying to fight with me. ( If you get hit in the right spot, a ski pole can do some damage)

Unless he's smart enough to not hit back and instead let you take the punishment......................