Poll

What couldn't you tollerate finding out about your girlfriend's past?

Had sex with more guys than u have friends.23%23% - 41
Had a three some (with two dudes).10%10% - 18
Had sex with even just one guy.4%4% - 8
Had a mans "unmentionalbles" in her mouth.5%5% - 9
I could care less, im getting it & shes faithul to me.28%28% - 50
Who cares? She should be able to do whatever she wants.23%23% - 42
Had sex with one person, but numerous times.4%4% - 8
Total: 176
Babb Master Flash
Justice for the 96!
+540|6832|Oslo, Norway
Every person have their own past. You can't do anything about it. Maybe next time you hook up with someone, don't ask for earlier relationships. Or flip the coin; what if someone broke up with you because you have a past?

That's why I never ask about pasts. If you meet the "right" girl, you'll get pretty shocked.
GunSlinger OIF II
Banned.
+1,860|7094
i think imagining the one i love in the middle of a sandwich dont paint a pretty picture
D6717C
Anger is a gift
+174|7084|Sin City

You're Chasing Amy.......
CoconutBlitz
I've had the diarrheas since Easters
+145|7040|California U.S.A
Ah I think the only thing that would just wig me out would be if she told me had sex with my Dad.

I mean EWHhhhhh that's..... just not right.   (Nor would it ever happen Dad, like me, is a faithful dude)

I already did the halo jump of life out of a vagina my Dad has been "in", I am not gonna go in another vagina if ole Dad has been before.
mcgid1
Meh...
+129|7167|Austin, TX/San Antonio, TX
The past should only come into play if it concerns STD's.  Other than that, no real problem with what she's done and who she's done it with.
BVC
Member
+325|7146
Knowing this guy thats standing in front of you has tube-fed her with throat yoghurt more times than you can imagine would be a bit offputting, yeah...but get over it, seriously.

Actually being that guy that you're getting emo over can have its moments.  An ex and me broke up a while back but kept the friendship.  One night we were high and talking about anal sex, she was never that keen on it with me but just blurted out that she wanted to do it with him one day.  When I asked her why she never wanted to do it with me but wanted to do it with him she replied "because your dicks too big"...then realised what she'd just said, looked away and went bright red!  I had a quiet laugh to myself next time I saw the guy.

Last edited by Pubic (2006-12-22 00:05:18)

SpaceApollyon
Scratch where it itches
+41|6970|Finland

usmarine2007 wrote:

Kmarion wrote:

You will find that it's life. Become Mormon and you might have a chance.
Will you people stop saying Mormon.  I have had the most wildest nights of my life with Mormons.
Yes, with all the hassle that abstinence causes, I've concluded that it is unnatural. Atleast to a certain degree.
It creates all kinds of perverts! usmarine obviously met one from the sweeter end of the spectrum!




PS. I freaking dare you not to twist this post into: "All abstinent people become perverts"!
J4ck.P0tt
dong-ma?
+8|6825|Berlin
The more experience she gained in her past, the better for You mate! It's like flying the chopper in bf2 - You don't really need a n00b in the gunner's seat (and I think she actually might say the same)

If she had her share of fun before she met You, she won't be wondering for the rest of her life if she might have missed something...

Personally, I'd draw the line at murder, child abuse... period. The rest is history.

Cheers
J4ck
Reciprocity
Member
+721|7031|the dank(super) side of Oregon
where's the 'free donkey shows in Tijuana' choice?  personally, that is where I usually draw the line.

Last edited by Reciprocity (2006-12-22 00:55:25)

lt603668
Member
+6|6812|northern cali
jackdreaper You know what you need?
    ANDREW DICE CLAY

  PROBLEM SOLVED
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Ohh skeet skeet
+143|6921|New York

Mr.Casual wrote:

Rape always works over relationships.
jackdreaper
Member
+5|6975

SpaceApollyon wrote:

usmarine2007 wrote:

Kmarion wrote:

You will find that it's life. Become Mormon and you might have a chance.
Will you people stop saying Mormon.  I have had the most wildest nights of my life with Mormons.
Yes, with all the hassle that abstinence causes, I've concluded that it is unnatural. Atleast to a certain degree.
Abstanance causes perverts? There is some irony that i want to recognize but i really cant (no sarcasm).


I think fining out your mother was a whore when she was younger would conceive more perverts than someone waiting untill they find "the right person" to have sex with would. I think abstanance by choice and for respect of ur future spouse is admirable...... (now i do anyway).   

Lusting is natural...i guess im selfish and hope my future girlfriend has been "waiting" for me.... its never going to happen, ill just end up settleing for some "experienced" chick to give me a few sons so i can start raising my army..(i joke).

But I wonder, if we are ok with girls losing their innocese at young ages because we believe in free choice or because thats the only option there is therefore find ways to justify it, because thats what we see on tv and hear about at school? I dont know...i think all i can do is give my opinion, and its baised, soo.. w/e!
SpaceApollyon
Scratch where it itches
+41|6970|Finland

jackdreaper wrote:

I think abstanance by choice and for respect of ur future spouse is admirable...... (now i do anyway).
No disagreement there.
I should have made a distinction between forced abstinence and abstinence of choice. Sorry for the confusion.
Sydney
2λчиэλ
+783|7294|Reykjavík, Iceland.
There should be a poll option

"Under 18, being naughty to view this thread".
Mason4Assassin444
retired
+552|7113|USA

jackdreaper wrote:

I was with this great girl: She cared about me, was sweet, supported my BF2 addiction, never talked out of turn, all the good things u can imagine from a girlfriend.

I knew she wasnt a virgin, because she had told me when we talked about the topic. I was ok with it until.....

I started to think i really love this girl and i want to marry her. thats when everything went crazy in my head. I started obssessing over her past relationships....i couldnt sleep at nights, couldnt focus in class, almost didnt get my Bachlors degree......i was going crazy...all i could do was think about her with her past boyfriends...and all the devious things they had done together.... Im not judging, i dont care what people do, but it just bothered the hell out of me......any advice?


eventually we broke up.....understandably

I felt so messed up, i dont know whats wrong with me!!!!! This was a few months back....


I just want to know how people feel about their girlfriends pasts.
Its calle dsharing the roster. DOn't ask don't tell. YOu don't want to find out how many more dudes she slept with than you have girls.

Live in the present dude.
Kung Jew
That one mod
+331|7196|Houston, TX

DeZwarteMaan wrote:

Obsession, fear, jealousy.... Ahh the Human mind isn't hard to ponder.

Tell a woman that you aren't a Virgin. It's fine. Tell her exactly who... it's fine If it was years ago and not last month... She finds out that person was one of her social buds back in her old Jr high..... Good night Sally...

It's all the same boat. We are raised with preconceptions. We live in a social circle that teaches us the level of our morality. The types of relationships that we want. Some people want June Cleaver (old tv show Leave it to beaver) in social scenes but they want a Phreak when the doors close.

Most men want wild rides and sew their wild oats before they settle down. It's genetics. Deal with it. Most men want to settle down and marry a virgin. It's inherent. Many cant ponder to think that another Male has been there first and he's up for sloppy seconds.

When it comes down to it. Figure out who you are and what you're able to live with. I personally think that if you can see yourself doing it, then find a woman who's your equal. If you like to try Kama Sutra and 1000 different positions... don't marry a straight laced virgin who only wants to ever be...just..one..way. THAT will drive you freaking insane. Trust me.

If you find that you cant handle the truth and that the past history "Drives you crazy".... Live the Creed. <<WHAT HAPPENS BEHIND THE DOOR...STAYS BEHIND THE DOOR>>

Never ask a question you aren't prepared to hear the answer.  Say "honey, I know you may be a virgin.. or you may not. I don't care. Just be with me and what happened... happened."

If not.. you have a long crazy road before you. Consider that only 2% of the people out there remain virgins after high school. Not that bad.. but damn close. If you cant handle the situation... be a Monk.

I can handle it.  I was in a few.... odd situations where I cant deny that I was Buck wild. I explored the beast and it was good. I settled down and changed my ways. I can't cheat on my wife.  Against my nature.

She can't handle my past, so I don't mention it. It's all about the Silver Tongue. Speak with wisdom. Never spew a word you will regret and never lay seed on infertile ground.

It will drive you to bad fruits and crops. What I mean to say, if I've lost you, is that you need to learn how to be a carpenter and build a mighty house. Find the bricks that will best work for you and your house will be good for you. If you go looking for bricks that you cant handle... You are bound to build a wall with bad stability and it will crash around you.

Good luck. I'll guess that you are mid-20's or younger.  This is a common issue for the younger crowds.
This post speaks wisdom from beyond, pay heed to him.

@ Bubbalo and usmarine2007 - You two keep that shit outta this.  This post won't be derailed by your back an forth.  You've been warned.

KJ
Jenkinsbball
Banned
+149|6999|USA bitches!
As long as she doesn't have anything and doesn't spread it on you, just forget it all.
Toilet Sex
one love, one pig
+1,775|7023

I can't help it, but I don't think I could date a girl who wasn't a virgin. Just how I am... believe me, I wish I didn't think like that.
[pt] KEIOS
srs bsns
+231|7104|pimelteror.de

jackdreaper wrote:

To tell you what made me "crazy"   imagine meeting the guy whos genitals ur wife gave a oral message to....
keep one thing in mind:

who´s dick is she sucking NOW. you can´t change her past, but you can enjoy the moment and build your future together.

if not, set her free and become a taliban...
SmkenRez
Member
+10|6815|The other side of world
If you are crying over one woman then just think of this, 5:1 that 5 ladies to 1 guy {Alaska don't count}
This might be higher or lower ratio depends where you live.  Young,dumb and full of cum.
There is one out there you'll just have to fish for her.
jamesb
Joined BF2s in November 2005
+133|7175|Doncaster, England
The more experience she has the more she can do now.
The past is the past.
bigdroo
Member
+7|6878|Yooahss-ayy!
Yeah, this is definitely something you'll grow out of.

I thought along your lines up until I was in my mid 20's or so. What happened? Make-up sex. Sex when you're still angry with her evolves your attitude towards it. Now, it's almost hot thinking about some of the things she's done. lol

Seriously though, eventually, you'll all but stop thinking of sex in pure emotional terms. You'll start thinking of it more as entertainment.

Believe me, if you're really into her, you should base your relationship more on actually getting along with her as a friend/companion, than on sex. She'll respect you more, and will probably want more sex from you!

Besides, if she's "the one" (lol) when you're both in your 80's, will you still be together when neither of you want sex anymore? Be her friend, then have as much fun sex as you can! lol

Last edited by bigdroo (2006-12-22 10:45:35)

jackdreaper
Member
+5|6975

[pt] KEIOS wrote:

jackdreaper wrote:

To tell you what made me "crazy"   imagine meeting the guy whos genitals ur wife gave a oral message to....
keep one thing in mind:

if not, set her free and become a taliban...
What the heck is a taliban? is that even a noun? oooo u meant become a member of an extremist islamic terrorist group.....

Thats just ignorant!

  Because i dont want to picture my wife sucking another guys penis, doesnt mean im a member of extremest, terrorist group.....   i know that women have the freedom to do whatever they wish and i am for that as do men, my feelings are not based on religious beliefs....this isnt a matter of morals............  its a matter of coping with someones past actions.......

the question could have easily been.......can u tollerate ur loved ones past. but because my case involved her having lots of sex we are talking about it in particular.

Its amazing how you can estimate a persons age, by their posts......just amazing   I dont like it when people simplify this topic to .... "who cares?" or the "past is the past"   if you love the person you're with you should care to some degree....the problem is we all draw the line in different places, I unfortunatly had a very low tollarance, and now im single... eh! at least im a snapy dresser with a good job. (I kid)
smtt686
this is the best we can do?
+95|7082|USA
become a monk, or quit asking questions you don't want the answers to!
Kmar
Truth is my Bitch
+5,695|7052|132 and Bush

usmarine2007 wrote:

Kmarion wrote:

You will find that it's life. Become Mormon and you might have a chance.
Will you people stop saying Mormon.  I have had the most wildest nights of my life with Mormons.
I'm sure he was the exception...lol
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