hey guys before i get down to it here are some notes
- this is a thread asking for advice about my relationship with my gf
so all you pre pubesent fuktards have enuf respect to just leave rather then post your bs i realy cbf with it tonight
-please excuse my bad grammar i am trying realy hard to improve (hopefully you can read it) =]
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Ok so i am 16 so is my girlfriend. we have been togather almost 2 months yes i know it isent that long but is the only real relationship either of us have had
i love her and have told her that (about a week ago)
so we are laying on my bed (just kissing an stuff nothing seriouse) and she tells me that she loves me i was very happy about it the night was just getting better and better
but all good things must come to a end and she had to go home. when she left i jumped on msn and 5 - 10 mins later she loged on we just talked for a while about random shit anyways we talked about these new ultra thin condoms i seen o nthe tv she said when we have sex (which wont be for a very long time) she wouldnet want me using one of those because they looked very unsafe so i joked around and said "ok ill just get a vasectomy for ya then" to which she replied "well that might be a problem when you want kids" i got a little curious as to why she said "me" and not "we" (she had told me before she would like kids) i asked "why did you say me and not us unless you dont plan on being with me when kids actully become a possibility" then she said "well no i dont ..sorry babe"
WHAT... THE ... FUCK we agreed to have a serious slow relationship she said she loved me i love her and she doesent even wanna be with me?
ok now you guys might think im taking this way overboard i am well aware the chances we are togather when kids become a factor are extremly slim but i would very much love to have kids with her i love her so much and i thought thats what love was about how can you love someone and not want to be with them this realy botherd me i just said "cya" and loged .. i think she is aware of what prompted me to leave like that but she has been avoiding it and going on like everything is all peaches.. i want to tell her "listen if you dont want a seriouse relationship i realy dont want to be with you because that is what i want and if we keep goin like this i will just end up getting hurt" but im afraid of breaking up with her because i would be realy realy heartbroken .. i wont lie guys i was just in the shower in fuken tears.. its 2:47am and im writing this i cannot get to sleep i dont know what to do =[ PLEASE HELP
- this is a thread asking for advice about my relationship with my gf
so all you pre pubesent fuktards have enuf respect to just leave rather then post your bs i realy cbf with it tonight
-please excuse my bad grammar i am trying realy hard to improve (hopefully you can read it) =]
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Ok so i am 16 so is my girlfriend. we have been togather almost 2 months yes i know it isent that long but is the only real relationship either of us have had
i love her and have told her that (about a week ago)
so we are laying on my bed (just kissing an stuff nothing seriouse) and she tells me that she loves me i was very happy about it the night was just getting better and better
but all good things must come to a end and she had to go home. when she left i jumped on msn and 5 - 10 mins later she loged on we just talked for a while about random shit anyways we talked about these new ultra thin condoms i seen o nthe tv she said when we have sex (which wont be for a very long time) she wouldnet want me using one of those because they looked very unsafe so i joked around and said "ok ill just get a vasectomy for ya then" to which she replied "well that might be a problem when you want kids" i got a little curious as to why she said "me" and not "we" (she had told me before she would like kids) i asked "why did you say me and not us unless you dont plan on being with me when kids actully become a possibility" then she said "well no i dont ..sorry babe"
WHAT... THE ... FUCK we agreed to have a serious slow relationship she said she loved me i love her and she doesent even wanna be with me?
ok now you guys might think im taking this way overboard i am well aware the chances we are togather when kids become a factor are extremly slim but i would very much love to have kids with her i love her so much and i thought thats what love was about how can you love someone and not want to be with them this realy botherd me i just said "cya" and loged .. i think she is aware of what prompted me to leave like that but she has been avoiding it and going on like everything is all peaches.. i want to tell her "listen if you dont want a seriouse relationship i realy dont want to be with you because that is what i want and if we keep goin like this i will just end up getting hurt" but im afraid of breaking up with her because i would be realy realy heartbroken .. i wont lie guys i was just in the shower in fuken tears.. its 2:47am and im writing this i cannot get to sleep i dont know what to do =[ PLEASE HELP