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2007-02-03 01:09:56
Mr.Dooomed
Find your center.
+752|6799

Maybe its because I don't pay close enough attention? Or I am thinking about playing BF2? But I seem to ALWAYS miss hints from girls. For example tonight, two friends and I went over to a girls house who was home alone, we watched a movie, stayed up to chat for awhile, had some tea...I went outside to get fresh air and when I come back in this delightful girl and I start talking about how damn cold it is, and she says "Ya, its so cold you might have to just stay over!"  I couldn't think of what to say...I just smiled and asked her a question completely unrelated to the offer she proposed....

Around 2 am my friends and I go home, because they have to be up at 9 am. But me? Not at all. I can sleep in as late as I want...I just got home, and thought to myself how fuckin dumb am I? All I had to say to her, with a sly voice, sexy stare and in a deep baritone voice was "Ohh, so...Is that an invitation?"  And I would have had a 90% success rating of sleeping with her! This has been about the third time this has happened this year with a chick. In the heat of the moment, I can never come up with the right line...I am sure this happens to alot of us, perhaps we don't watch enough movies? Or don't study enough on how to pick up chicks? Or maybe my brain is just in this mental slumber, and I still get nervous around girls I find attractive, even in my 20's...

So here I am again, where I go to bed alone...But I have grown used to it, not much of a bother anymore. Just wanted to rant I guess Please share any advice, or stories of yours. Maybe we can learn from our mistakes!?
Nature is a powerful force. Those who seek to subdue nature, never do so permanently.
2007-02-03 01:13:27
TigerXtrm
Death by Indecency
+51|6839|Netherlands

Be sharp! Be focused! Be ready or you will miss it in the blink of an eye! And lacking all that just pay some bitch 100 dollars and be done with it...

Tiger
2007-02-03 01:14:59
Stealth42o
She looked 18 to me officer
+175|7143
You didn't miss a thing, you were to taken back by the comment and didn't want to embarrassed yourself just in case you mis read her.

The answer is simple, you have to believe your the shit and act accordingly.  Saying goes "Fortune favors the bull", which means you will never know unless you hang yourself out there and try.

Go for it, whatever it may be.

P.S. I am sure she is still interested, ask her out to dinner and a movie tomorrow.
2007-02-03 01:20:29
TigerXtrm
Death by Indecency
+51|6839|Netherlands

Generally my experience is that girls don't make comments for no reason like guys tend to do. If a girl hints you with 'you might have to stay over' and you don't know if she's being serious about it or not, reply in a manner which will leave the decision up to her again by saying something like; 'I would but I wouldn't want to intrude.' or 'Nah I'd only get in your way.'
That way she has to act on it again and if she says 'No no thats fine!' then you know you hit the jackpot .
Of course, the 'Oh is that an invitation' phrase always works well but you have to make sure your say it with a humored tone so it won't be to obvious you're serious, just in case she's messing with you.

Tiger
2007-02-03 01:22:22
Vub
The Power of Two
+188|6965|Sydney, Australia
Get married, then you don't have to worry about these things.
2007-02-03 01:42:46
ATG
Banned
+5,233|7000|Global Command

Im_Dooomed wrote:

Maybe its because I don't pay close enough attention? Or I am thinking about playing BF2? But I seem to ALWAYS miss hints from girls. For example tonight, two friends and I went over to a girls house who was home alone, we watched a movie, stayed up to chat for awhile, had some tea...I went outside to get fresh air and when I come back in this delightful girl and I start talking about how damn cold it is, and she says "Ya, its so cold you might have to just stay over!"  I couldn't think of what to say...I just smiled and asked her a question completely unrelated to the offer she proposed....

Around 2 am my friends and I go home, because they have to be up at 9 am. But me? Not at all. I can sleep in as late as I want...I just got home, and thought to myself how fuckin dumb am I? All I had to say to her, with a sly voice, sexy stare and in a deep baritone voice was "Ohh, so...Is that an invitation?"  And I would have had a 90% success rating of sleeping with her! This has been about the third time this has happened this year with a chick. In the heat of the moment, I can never come up with the right line...I am sure this happens to alot of us, perhaps we don't watch enough movies? Or don't study enough on how to pick up chicks? Or maybe my brain is just in this mental slumber, and I still get nervous around girls I find attractive, even in my 20's...

So here I am again, where I go to bed alone...But I have grown used to it, not much of a bother anymore. Just wanted to rant I guess Please share any advice, or stories of yours. Maybe we can learn from our mistakes!?
Girls want to have sex as much as or even more than you do.
Remember that.
2007-02-03 01:43:09
Mr.Dooomed
Find your center.
+752|6799

Yah, Well what do you guys do when your trying to hit on a girl with two other guys around doing the same? Then it goes to the bull who is stronger, wiser, and smoother then the other bulls I think your right, I should just ask her out tomorrow, it is the weekend, she will still be home alone. Like its always been said before, there are so very many women out there, your never gonna hit with all of them, you just have to try. Although, if I miss a que, I wish I had the ability to re-address the offer. You know, like say something that gives her the hint I recieved her message from before. I don't want to come on to strong and make myself look like a horny hound dog.
Nature is a powerful force. Those who seek to subdue nature, never do so permanently.
2007-02-03 01:47:02
Mr.Dooomed
Find your center.
+752|6799

ATG wrote:

Girls want to have sex as much as or even more than you do.
Remember that.
Ha! You know whats funny? I've never just, out-right asked a girl, "So, you want to have sex?" But if nothing else I do works....Hell I should just throw that one out there. My brother and I threw a house party last weekend, and there were about 10 girls here. If I would have asked everyone of them that question...With my good looks (But not very successful personality)  I'd have had at least two hits!
Nature is a powerful force. Those who seek to subdue nature, never do so permanently.
2007-02-03 01:47:46
B00MH3ADSH0T
Fresh NoobCaeks Here
+118|6861|Penrith,Nsw, Aus

Im_Dooomed wrote:

Maybe its because I don't pay close enough attention? Or I am thinking about playing BF2? But I seem to ALWAYS miss hints from girls. For example tonight, two friends and I went over to a girls house who was home alone, we watched a movie, stayed up to chat for awhile, had some tea...I went outside to get fresh air and when I come back in this delightful girl and I start talking about how damn cold it is, and she says "Ya, its so cold you might have to just stay over!"  I couldn't think of what to say...I just smiled and asked her a question completely unrelated to the offer she proposed....

Around 2 am my friends and I go home, because they have to be up at 9 am. But me? Not at all. I can sleep in as late as I want...I just got home, and thought to myself how fuckin dumb am I? All I had to say to her, with a sly voice, sexy stare and in a deep baritone voice was "Ohh, so...Is that an invitation?"  And I would have had a 90% success rating of sleeping with her! This has been about the third time this has happened this year with a chick. In the heat of the moment, I can never come up with the right line...I am sure this happens to alot of us, perhaps we don't watch enough movies? Or don't study enough on how to pick up chicks? Or maybe my brain is just in this mental slumber, and I still get nervous around girls I find attractive, even in my 20's...

So here I am again, where I go to bed alone...But I have grown used to it, not much of a bother anymore. Just wanted to rant I guess Please share any advice, or stories of yours. Maybe we can learn from our mistakes!?
Rofl if it took you that long to get it you should consider being gay.... Really
2007-02-03 01:51:13
Catbox
forgiveness
+505|7187
wallflowers dont get laid... Tell her you think her wooden leg is cool...

seriously... take it from and old bartender...  fuck em all...  then when that gets old... find one cool one
and stick with her...
Love is the answer
2007-02-03 01:56:49
henno13
A generally unremarkable member
+230|6819|Belfast
unlucky mano!
just forget bf2 for that little while, ur in the real world!
what age r u?
2007-02-03 02:01:07
~FuzZz~
.yag era uoy fi siht deaR
+422|6793|Orrstrayleea
I gave up that game a long time ago, in my hood if a chik wants to fuck she'll fuck, if a chik wants to suck she'll suck, its as easy as that
2007-02-03 02:04:48
Vub
The Power of Two
+188|6965|Sydney, Australia

Im_Dooomed wrote:

ATG wrote:

Girls want to have sex as much as or even more than you do.
Remember that.
Ha! You know whats funny? I've never just, out-right asked a girl, "So, you want to have sex?" But if nothing else I do works....Hell I should just throw that one out there. My brother and I threw a house party last weekend, and there were about 10 girls here. If I would have asked everyone of them that question...With my good looks (But not very successful personality)  I'd have had at least two hits!
To ATG, I beg to differ. Usually the sex drive of males is much stronger than that of females.

And to Im_Dooomed, I'm sure there's nothing wrong with you. You don't need to feel nervous in front of girls because they're just as willing to make you their friend as you are to making them yours. Also, chances are that if she's a stranger to you, you're a stranger to her too, in which case if you act all nervous and clumsy you will invariably cause her to be nervous and reserved. Be yourself, don't pretend to be someone with smooth moves and slick comebacks if that's not you. I'm sure girls want to know the real you.

And the most important note of all, don't fall for these one night stands or anything like that. You'll find that getting to know a girl, working on building a relationship, dedicating your time and effort to her, and being loved in return, will far far far outweigh merely sleeping with her.

I hope this helped you.

Last edited by Vub (2007-02-03 02:06:42)

2007-02-03 02:21:47
Nessie09
I "fix" things
+107|7141|The Netherlands
Well, I don't know anything about those kind of hints, but hanging out with a few girls lately I noticed that most boys are oblivious to hints.
Or girls just give wrong hints. I don't know really.
2007-02-03 02:24:32
autopilot
banned
+115|6819

Just go back and say "Still up for buttsecks?"

Works every time.
2007-02-03 05:11:41
ilinear
Bigger. Better. ilinear.
+27|6916|Lisburn, NI

autopilot wrote:

Just go back and say "Still up for buttsecks?"

Works every time.
You sure that's not just you and your crack whores?

j/k

EDIT: Smilies again...

Last edited by ilinear (2007-02-03 05:12:14)

2007-02-03 05:33:46
Mr.Dooomed
Find your center.
+752|6799

Vub wrote:

And the most important note of all, don't fall for these one night stands or anything like that. You'll find that getting to know a girl, working on building a relationship, dedicating your time and effort to her, and being loved in return, will far far far outweigh merely sleeping with her.
I agree totally. I honestly am not that interested/horny enough to want to go and try to score with every chick I can. I do realize that its important to go out a few times, spend time with a girl, get to know her and become friends with her, that way she likes you a lot and wants to hang out a lot. And its fine to not be committed to her all the time, and listen to her bitch or whine about you dont call or come over, or not taking her out when she wants to. When you start off with a friendship, the outlook each person has is different then a relationship with sex. Also being friends, always can lead into a relationship if you want to go that route.  Also she will introduce you to a lot of her other girlfriends.  Its hard to not get jealous though when you see her with other guys...I do have a few girls that are really good 'friends' One of them is having troubles with her boyfriend, and wants to try a 'break up' with him for about 2 months...So she can date other guys (me )  She says she really likes me, and enjoyed the time we had togeather and wants to hang out again

So another plus having a girl 'friend' is when she breaks up with her boyfriend, I think you can be there for support, (wow, I immediately thought of BF2 and support kit) and like someone else said 'buttsecks' ....

I will wake up with a girl one morning and say... "Need Coffee? COFFEE RIGHT HERE!"
Nature is a powerful force. Those who seek to subdue nature, never do so permanently.
2007-02-03 06:01:10
_j5689_
Dreads & Bergers
+364|7188|Riva, MD
I hate doing that.  I don't know what to say when girls do that and rarely does a girl find me attractive.
2007-02-03 06:05:17
Adams_BJ
Russian warship, go fuck yourself
+2,058|7093|Little Bentcock
It has always just happened for me and I don't know why. I have never felt out of place around a girl that I liked and I have no problem attracting the girl I like. Confidence my friend.
2007-02-03 07:48:07
White-Fusion
Fuck
+616|7023|Scotland
Phone her up, or say to her, or send her an email. Say "alright if i come over tonight and watch another movie?" all you have to say, simple as, then say after the movie "Alright if i stay over? cant be arsed going home" then hey presto! BUTTSECKS! 2 simple lines and you wont be sleeping alone again. (After you do the first, all the rest are cake)
2007-02-03 07:51:15
SoC./Omega
Member
+122|7012|Omaha, Nebraska!

Im_Dooomed wrote:

Maybe its because I don't pay close enough attention? Or I am thinking about playing BF2? But I seem to ALWAYS miss hints from girls. For example tonight, two friends and I went over to a girls house who was home alone, we watched a movie, stayed up to chat for awhile, had some tea...I went outside to get fresh air and when I come back in this delightful girl and I start talking about how damn cold it is, and she says "Ya, its so cold you might have to just stay over!"  I couldn't think of what to say...I just smiled and asked her a question completely unrelated to the offer she proposed....

Around 2 am my friends and I go home, because they have to be up at 9 am. But me? Not at all. I can sleep in as late as I want...I just got home, and thought to myself how fuckin dumb am I? All I had to say to her, with a sly voice, sexy stare and in a deep baritone voice was "Ohh, so...Is that an invitation?"  And I would have had a 90% success rating of sleeping with her! This has been about the third time this has happened this year with a chick. In the heat of the moment, I can never come up with the right line...I am sure this happens to alot of us, perhaps we don't watch enough movies? Or don't study enough on how to pick up chicks? Or maybe my brain is just in this mental slumber, and I still get nervous around girls I find attractive, even in my 20's...

So here I am again, where I go to bed alone...But I have grown used to it, not much of a bother anymore. Just wanted to rant I guess Please share any advice, or stories of yours. Maybe we can learn from our mistakes!?
Look her in the eye and say something...normal. Don't wonder what she looks like naked just yet.
2007-02-03 07:54:39
ATG
Banned
+5,233|7000|Global Command

Vub wrote:

Im_Dooomed wrote:

ATG wrote:

Girls want to have sex as much as or even more than you do.
Remember that.
Ha! You know whats funny? I've never just, out-right asked a girl, "So, you want to have sex?" But if nothing else I do works....Hell I should just throw that one out there. My brother and I threw a house party last weekend, and there were about 10 girls here. If I would have asked everyone of them that question...With my good looks (But not very successful personality)  I'd have had at least two hits!
To ATG, I beg to differ. Usually the sex drive of males is much stronger than that of females.
Maybe down under.
2007-02-03 20:13:36
Mr.Dooomed
Find your center.
+752|6799

I have noticed that women love it when you remember their names.  I bumped into a girl Friday night who was at our party last weekend. I said "Hello Alana." She didn't remember my name, but said "I do remember that you were very nice to me lolz." Then I said, ya thanks. Well I guess you can just call me Mr. Nice. (I have a dry sense of humor) And I didn't tell her my name until I left the Cafe. I saw her again at the same place tonight and said "Hello again Alana." And she forgot my name. "You have a very short attention span don't you? My names David, NICE to meet you."

I was kinda behind a jerk to her, but if she can't remember my name after I told her three times, either she doesn't like me, or is to dumb for me. So then I socialize with her in a manner of not caring about what she is saying. That was fun. When I left I said, "Well I gotta go, goodbye Ms. Nice."

edit: By the way I know this doesn't have any point, I am not trying to be interesting. I'm just bored.

Last edited by Im_Dooomed (2007-02-03 20:16:39)

Nature is a powerful force. Those who seek to subdue nature, never do so permanently.
2007-02-03 20:42:02
SplinterStrike
Roamer
+250|6882|Eskimo land. AKA Canada.
Its amazing how little things like remembering their names, telling them they look good and whatnot work. Its windows of opportunity...sometimes you get em, sometimes you don't. Just keep a lookout for signs.
2007-02-03 20:46:44
Vilham
Say wat!?
+580|7237|UK
Got exactly the same problem, accept this girl is my mates fuck buddy, so it aint ever gunna happen EVER. Sometimes that is like it is.

As to your problem just take it, just ask her in a sleazy manor if she wants to go to her room

 

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