Poll

How many kids should a couple be allowed to have?

Not more than 328%28% - 46
Not more than 235%35% - 57
Only 18%8% - 14
Other number (specify)26%26% - 42
Total: 159
Snorkelfarsan
Soup Boy
+32|7036|Stockholm, Sweden

xBlackPantherx wrote:

You are joking right? Please tell me that you are because otherwise, that it the least intelligent question/statement I've heard in a while. How do you expect to move forward in technology, and pure human limits if you are moving backwards. Also, you are suggesting that you are 100% all for abortion, not at all welcome to the possibility of human cloning or space colonization. Also, what happens if a couple is only allowed to have one kid and they accidentally have another? You are saying that the said couple would be forced to get an abortion/kill he kid once born/give it to another couple and go to jail.
I asked the question because I was not sure if that would indeed shrink the size of the population in half.
And I never said anything about what would happen to you if you'd have more than one child. Of course you can't kill someones child or make them have an abortion. There would have to be somekind of taxincrease, just like in China. Although I dont think I have a good answer to that problem, which is why I asked you guys what you think.
And why would I be against space exploration/colonization? Just because the population on this planet decreases to 3 or 4 billion instead of 6 doesnt mean that the only humans left are gonna be a bunch whackos.. Or is that not what you meant?
xBlackPantherx
Grow up, or die
+142|6773|California

Snorkelfarsan wrote:

xBlackPantherx wrote:

You are joking right? Please tell me that you are because otherwise, that it the least intelligent question/statement I've heard in a while. How do you expect to move forward in technology, and pure human limits if you are moving backwards. Also, you are suggesting that you are 100% all for abortion, not at all welcome to the possibility of human cloning or space colonization. Also, what happens if a couple is only allowed to have one kid and they accidentally have another? You are saying that the said couple would be forced to get an abortion/kill he kid once born/give it to another couple and go to jail.
And why would I be against space exploration/colonization? Just because the population on this planet decreases to 3 or 4 billion instead of 6 doesnt mean that the only humans left are gonna be a bunch whackos.. Or is that not what you meant?
Because a main big reason that we look for space colonization and go through all the effort is because we have an increasing population and a increasing depletion of resources and if half of our population there would be no more need for that. Actually, since you brought it up, there would also be less smart minds as the population decreased: especially if you decrease it in certain areas of the world.
CommieChipmunk
Member
+488|7000|Portland, OR, USA

xBlackPantherx wrote:

HITNRUNXX wrote:

1) Then I guess you better start figuring out how to colonize mars...

2) And replace the things that are exhaustible..

3) And my parents only had 2 kids and couldn't afford to put either of us through college... By your rules I shouldn't exist... But I worked my ass off and got scholarships and put myself through a very expensive private college... And then got a 2nd degree from a state college... And needed only about $2,000 in loans for 5 years of school...
1) They already have started to and, for the most part, have figured out how to colonize mars within the next decade or two.

2) They already have, are, and will be replacing exhaustible resources

3) Thats very true. Nothing says the amount of kids you have limits their potential.
1) said the same thing about the moon years and years ago.

2) Still using gasoline.  If this "global warming" farce ends up being true, there goes massive amounts of freshwater.  Forests take a long time to regrow.

3) I've got $300,000 dollars worth of scholarship offers so far from 7 different colleges, I'm still working my ass off looking for more little scholarships and I still will end up with student loans.. and I'm not bragging or anything, but I'm not really an "average" kid.  I've worked for 4 years at an eye clinic, I volunteer at a hospital every sunday, I have over a 4.0 GPA got a 1970 on the SAT.. my point being, if I'm still going to end up with student loans, your average kid will probably end up with some student loans too..  But beyond college, there aren't a ton of people who can support 2 kids and retire successfully.  Throw five kids into the equation and you'll be working until your 90.
unnamednewbie13
Moderator
+2,072|7202|PNW

What an absurd government intrusion. People should be thinking of ways to support an increased population, not how whittle it down to the nubs.
Snorkelfarsan
Soup Boy
+32|7036|Stockholm, Sweden

NantanCochise wrote:

In actual fact many countries in the west need more couples to have more children in order to maintain a steady growth in the population. For anyone to suggest we follow China's example is just plain rediculous. Yes, something must be done to curb high birth rates in China, India and most of Africa because of those countires inabillities to deal with such high populations (through education that is...). But to suggeat that anywhere else puts a legal limit to the amount of children a couple can have is unfair and in the case of a free society, highly undemocratic and an infingement of civil liberties.
Why do we need to maintain a steady growth in population? We dont need growth in population anymore, anywhere on this planet. And of course not in Asia and Africa.

And I know it is not democratic, it's not something a free society should have to do. But when it comes down to the question of our species survival then one must oversee these freedoms and we must all understand that we can't have as many children as we are having today. Call it unfair, unjust, but that doesn't take away the fact that it is necessary.

Colonizing Mars is definatley something that is possible. But moving big chunks of our population there is very unlikely to happen within this century, maybe not even the next. Makin mars a livable planet can take hundreds of years. And by that point our population would have reached double digits a long time ago. Plus, you can't just rely on technology to solve all your problems. You can't just assume that scientists are gonna invent some magic fuel so we never have to use oil again within the next few years, you can't assume that 1 billion people are gonna be living on Mars in 50 years, you can't assume that we're gonna find some pill that will feed a Somalian family for a week. You just need grab the fucking bull by its horns and deal with the problems hands on.
xBlackPantherx
Grow up, or die
+142|6773|California

CommieChipmunk wrote:

xBlackPantherx wrote:

HITNRUNXX wrote:

1) Then I guess you better start figuring out how to colonize mars...

2) And replace the things that are exhaustible..

3) And my parents only had 2 kids and couldn't afford to put either of us through college... By your rules I shouldn't exist... But I worked my ass off and got scholarships and put myself through a very expensive private college... And then got a 2nd degree from a state college... And needed only about $2,000 in loans for 5 years of school...
1) They already have started to and, for the most part, have figured out how to colonize mars within the next decade or two.

2) They already have, are, and will be replacing exhaustible resources

3) Thats very true. Nothing says the amount of kids you have limits their potential.
1) said the same thing about the moon years and years ago.

2) Still using gasoline.  If this "global warming" farce ends up being true, there goes massive amounts of freshwater.  Forests take a long time to regrow.

3) I've got $300,000 dollars worth of scholarship offers so far from 7 different colleges, I'm still working my ass off looking for more little scholarships and I still will end up with student loans.. and I'm not bragging or anything, but I'm not really an "average" kid.  I've worked for 4 years at an eye clinic, I volunteer at a hospital every sunday, I have over a 4.0 GPA got a 1970 on the SAT.. my point being, if I'm still going to end up with student loans, your average kid will probably end up with some student loans too..  But beyond college, there aren't a ton of people who can support 2 kids and retire successfully.  Throw five kids into the equation and you'll be working until your 90.
1) Just because they figured out how to doesn't mean they will. The moon is small, and has no beneficial value.

2) Using gasoline is your own fault. Its very easy to convert any diesel car to use vegetable oil or ethenal(? on spelling). Hell, they already have perfectly working hydrogen (water) fueled cars and "pumps" in Germany.

3) Also depends what college you are trying to go, where it is, how many years you'll be there/what degrees you are working to get.

4) I'm sorry that you're very high standards for college/work are keeping you back/distorting your view but you don't have to be a neuro-surgeon from Yale to be successful.
unnamednewbie13
Moderator
+2,072|7202|PNW

xBlackPantherx wrote:

1) They already have started to and, for the most part, have figured out how to colonize mars within the next decade or two.
Really? Except that they're still trying to figure out how to exactly replicate Earth conditions so that people can live for long periods of time off-planet without coming down with some sort of oddball disorder or disease? Or how to keep a large population supplied without going bankrupt?

Next decade my arse.
Snorkelfarsan
Soup Boy
+32|7036|Stockholm, Sweden

xBlackPantherx wrote:

Snorkelfarsan wrote:

xBlackPantherx wrote:

You are joking right? Please tell me that you are because otherwise, that it the least intelligent question/statement I've heard in a while. How do you expect to move forward in technology, and pure human limits if you are moving backwards. Also, you are suggesting that you are 100% all for abortion, not at all welcome to the possibility of human cloning or space colonization. Also, what happens if a couple is only allowed to have one kid and they accidentally have another? You are saying that the said couple would be forced to get an abortion/kill he kid once born/give it to another couple and go to jail.
And why would I be against space exploration/colonization? Just because the population on this planet decreases to 3 or 4 billion instead of 6 doesnt mean that the only humans left are gonna be a bunch whackos.. Or is that not what you meant?
Because a main big reason that we look for space colonization and go through all the effort is because we have an increasing population and a increasing depletion of resources and if half of our population there would be no more need for that. Actually, since you brought it up, there would also be less smart minds as the population decreased: especially if you decrease it in certain areas of the world.
There would most likely be the same percentage of "smart people" as there is today. And since the population would be smaller, then the demand for these "smart peoples" ideas and inventions will be as big or as small as they are today.
If there are 100 people in a room and 20 out of those 100 are considered "smart", then when you decrease the amount of people in that room to 50, there will be only 10 smart people (statistically). There would indeed be fewer smart people, but also fewer people in total, so the demand would stay the same.
HITNRUNXX
Member
+220|7140|Oklahoma City

CommieChipmunk wrote:

3) I've got $300,000 dollars worth of scholarship offers so far from 7 different colleges, I'm still working my ass off looking for more little scholarships and I still will end up with student loans.. and I'm not bragging or anything, but I'm not really an "average" kid.  I've worked for 4 years at an eye clinic, I volunteer at a hospital every sunday, I have over a 4.0 GPA got a 1970 on the SAT.. my point being, if I'm still going to end up with student loans, your average kid will probably end up with some student loans too..  But beyond college, there aren't a ton of people who can support 2 kids and retire successfully.  Throw five kids into the equation and you'll be working until your 90.
I agree with you to the fact that I won't be having 5 kids. But I still wouldn't want the government to say I COULDN'T have 5 kids. If I were to win some $247 Million powerball lottery, I might change my mind... As it stands, finance has been a very strict regulator on my own children. With the low cost of living in Oklahoma, the average salary is between $36,000 and $40,000 a year. I made about $25K when my first daughter was born, about $39K when my second daughter was born, and now make about $60K in a job that guarantees me $80K within 5 years. And we found out today my wife is probably pregnant with our 3rd (and final unless I win that lottery, which is hard without buying tickets, mind you) kid...

We started college funds for both girls on the week they were born. I still intend on them working their asses off to pay for most of it. I think we are going to be just fine. Nice 1800 square foot brick home. Lots of extras and fun things. Yes we have debt left over from before I started working, but have it consolidated to be gone in about 3 more years. (Minus the house). Have 6 years in on the house, and have the 30 year mortgage paid down to 17 years.

I think we are doing just fine. I don't think a 3rd kid is going to take food out of anyone's mouth.

I do think, as I said before, that limiting welfare payments and tax credits at a certain number of kids is more than fair and would solve a lot of the problems you mention. It drives me crazy to feel limited (responsible or not) to a certain number of kids while I personally know people with 8 kids and no job, living on food stamps and welfare... But for them, that works, because the government pays them SO much money for having SO MANY kids, they have nicer stuff than we do, in an equivalent house, with equivalent vehicles, and eat steak and lobster on a regular occasion because, hey, the government picks up their food bill...

So in summary:
Limited kids = Bad.
Fixing Welfare and similar programs = Good.
CommieChipmunk
Member
+488|7000|Portland, OR, USA

xBlackPantherx wrote:

CommieChipmunk wrote:

xBlackPantherx wrote:


1) They already have started to and, for the most part, have figured out how to colonize mars within the next decade or two.

2) They already have, are, and will be replacing exhaustible resources

3) Thats very true. Nothing says the amount of kids you have limits their potential.
1) said the same thing about the moon years and years ago.

2) Still using gasoline.  If this "global warming" farce ends up being true, there goes massive amounts of freshwater.  Forests take a long time to regrow.

3) I've got $300,000 dollars worth of scholarship offers so far from 7 different colleges, I'm still working my ass off looking for more little scholarships and I still will end up with student loans.. and I'm not bragging or anything, but I'm not really an "average" kid.  I've worked for 4 years at an eye clinic, I volunteer at a hospital every sunday, I have over a 4.0 GPA got a 1970 on the SAT.. my point being, if I'm still going to end up with student loans, your average kid will probably end up with some student loans too..  But beyond college, there aren't a ton of people who can support 2 kids and retire successfully.  Throw five kids into the equation and you'll be working until your 90.
1) Just because they figured out how to doesn't mean they will. The moon is small, and has no beneficial value.

2) Using gasoline is your own fault. Its very easy to convert any diesel car to use vegetable oil or ethenal(? on spelling). Hell, they already have perfectly working hydrogen (water) fueled cars and "pumps" in Germany.

3) Also depends what college you are trying to go, where it is, how many years you'll be there/what degrees you are working to get.

4) I'm sorry that you're very high standards for college/work are keeping you back/distorting your view but you don't have to be a neuro-surgeon from Yale to be successful.
1) Don't count on it in the near future.

2) Actually I do run on E85 (ethanol).  $2.69 a gallon.

3) College isn't the only factor... but what if they want to go to a nice college?  Tough luck I guess.  It's no easy task getting into a med-school with a degree from a state school these days to be honest.  And yes, I know there are other careers outside of medicine...

4) True.  But most private colleges cost upwards of $30,000 a year (plus room and board)
clogar
damn ain't it great to be a laxer
+32|6386|Minnesota
i'm in a family of three kids, i have a sister in college and a brother with down syndrome; it's not unlike being an only child, i vote for no limit to how many kids people can have.
HITNRUNXX
Member
+220|7140|Oklahoma City

Snorkelfarsan wrote:

Call it unfair, unjust, but that doesn't take away the fact that it is necessary.
Necessary where and according to who? The United States population growth is less than 1% per year. The average family in the United States has less than 2 children per the 2000 Census and 2002 IRS figures. That is a DECLINING population when you take immigration out of the picture. Lock down the borders and hey, problem solved for us!
HITNRUNXX
Member
+220|7140|Oklahoma City

CommieChipmunk wrote:

3) College isn't the only factor... but what if they want to go to a nice college?  Tough luck I guess.  It's no easy task getting into a med-school with a degree from a state school these days to be honest.  And yes, I know there are other careers outside of medicine...

4) True.  But most private colleges cost upwards of $30,000 a year (plus room and board)
So worry more about fixing education and less about fixing population?
Snorkelfarsan
Soup Boy
+32|7036|Stockholm, Sweden
It might not be a big problem right now for us in the western world. But in time, it will be. And just think about the amount of resources that we use up as well. America, compared to population with other countries in the world, uses way more resources than it should. Oil is only one example. And of course, America isn't the only country gulity of this, most western countries are. So if we reduce our population as well, and not only demand that Asia and Africa does it, we will be setting an example and helping the world in many ways.
HITNRUNXX
Member
+220|7140|Oklahoma City

Snorkelfarsan wrote:

It might not be a big problem right now for us in the western world. But in time, it will be. And just think about the amount of resources that we use up as well. America, compared to population with other countries in the world, uses way more resources than it should. Oil is only one example. And of course, America isn't the only country gulity of this, most western countries are. So if we reduce our population as well, and not only demand that Asia and Africa does it, we will be setting an example and helping the world in many ways.
So let's not worry about fixing the problems and just worry about limiting ourselves?

Limit America to 2 kids per family and guess what? You still run out of oil. Instead, eliminate the need for oil. Population is not a disease that has these other symptoms that will go away simply by "curing" it... Those other problems are already here. Cut our world population by what? 20%? 50%? We are still going to have these problems in one form or another, they just get postponed a while. If we have 100 years of oil left at the current rate, and we kill half the population, but nothing else changes, then we still just have 150-200 years of oil left... It still is going to be going away faster than it is created.

Instead, fix the real problems. Lose the dependency on exhaustible resources. Give us somewhere else to expand to. Lose the dependency on the government's money. Fix education. Fix medical care. Fix the economy. Now you have fixed the world without taking away rights, and made it a BETTER place for EVERYONE.
SenorToenails
Veritas et Scientia
+444|6560|North Tonawanda, NY

HITNRUNXX wrote:

So let's not worry about fixing the problems and just worry about limiting ourselves?

Limit America to 2 kids per family and guess what? You still run out of oil. Instead, eliminate the need for oil. Population is not a disease that has these other symptoms that will go away simply by "curing" it... Those other problems are already here. Cut our world population by what? 20%? 50%? We are still going to have these problems in one form or another, they just get postponed a while. If we have 100 years of oil left at the current rate, and we kill half the population, but nothing else changes, then we still just have 150-200 years of oil left... It still is going to be going away faster than it is created.

Instead, fix the real problems. Lose the dependency on exhaustible resources. Give us somewhere else to expand to. Lose the dependency on the government's money. Fix education. Fix medical care. Fix the economy. Now you have fixed the world without taking away rights, and made it a BETTER place for EVERYONE.
You're right.  Population is not the problem.

I would karma you again, but I can't.
Turquoise
O Canada
+1,596|6835|North Carolina
Um...  if population control really is your goal, then sterilization works best.

As for life in a free country, people should be able to raise however many kids they can handle, but they shouldn't expect everyone else to help them pay for them.
DrunkFace
Germans did 911
+427|7111|Disaster Free Zone
2 kids until we find a solution to the following things.
  • Pollution
  • Clean Fresh Water
  • Food
  • Over crowding
  • Resource depletion.


Pollution: The population size does not really matter, its only the raw amount of pollution which does. If we can reduce pollution per capita the population can theoretically grow with no further effect on the environment. And I'm not just talking air pollution or carbon emissions, I'm talking all kinds of pollution.

Clean fresh water: There is plenty of water on this planet, but most is salt (sea) water and undrinkable without distillation. And most of the fresh water on the planet is trapped in ice or underground rocks inaccessible at our current time. Future technologies will probably uncover theses sources of water but currently lots of countries have a large shortage of clean drinking water which must be addressed.

Food: Many places don't have the soil for decent farming land, and those that do, see urban sprawl competing for the best land, with the farmer almost always losing. And again water comes into this as much as anything. Growing crops or herding animals takes a lot of water and without a water source there is no possibility of growth. Also growing crops grazing animals take up huge amounts of land and are subject to weather conditions. Ocean fish are being caught much faster then they can reproduce so fish as a source of food is also going to decline without better more sustainable methods. With water comes irrigation and renewed lands suitable for farming.

Over crowding: There is plenty of physical space on the earth, the only problem is everyone wants to live in the same areas. Cities are over congested and are a great source of wasted time, resources and space, due logistical problems of so many people is so small a space. A lot of the time cities are built on the coast or river, which is also the best farming land. Time spent going anywhere in traffic is a huge waste of time and pollution and reduces ones standard of living. But the overcrowding of humans is not the only factor. Deforestation, mining, urban sprawl, farming lands, pollutions have continuously encroached and destroyed the natural environment and the ecosystems of native animals, upsetting the natural chain of events.

Resource depletion: The deepest mines today go 5 km into the Earths crust, which in terms of an apple is not even breaking the skin. There are plenty of resources in the earth to sustain a much bigger population, there's is just not the technology nor the cost/profit need to extract these resources. Future technologies to remove the human element to mining should enable us to mine to much deeper depths for lower costs.
clogar
damn ain't it great to be a laxer
+32|6386|Minnesota
and who is the government to deny children their lives?
David.P
Banned
+649|6704
Have as many as you want. It wont change the fact you're all scared of dying so you must leave a memorandum of yourself to make the pain easier.

(Especially with a knife in your neck)
SenorToenails
Veritas et Scientia
+444|6560|North Tonawanda, NY

David.P wrote:

Have as many as you want. It wont change the fact you're all scared of dying so you must leave a memorandum of yourself to make the pain easier.

(Especially with a knife in your neck)
What?  Try to make some sense, will ya?

Edit:  Turquoise cleared that up...  Not sure about the knife in your neck part, but whatever.

Last edited by SenorToenails (2008-01-21 20:08:32)

Turquoise
O Canada
+1,596|6835|North Carolina
He means living vicariously through children...  which actually is a good point...
Turquoise
O Canada
+1,596|6835|North Carolina

clogar wrote:

and who is the government to deny children their lives?
On the one hand, I would suggest that the government should help make sure that children are not subjected to abuse or neglect.  On the other hand, we also shouldn't send the message that you can have as many kids as you want without financial consequences.  (In other words, the child credit tax deductions should be limited to the first 2 kids.)
xBlackPantherx
Grow up, or die
+142|6773|California

CommieChipmunk wrote:

xBlackPantherx wrote:

CommieChipmunk wrote:


1) said the same thing about the moon years and years ago.

2) Still using gasoline.  If this "global warming" farce ends up being true, there goes massive amounts of freshwater.  Forests take a long time to regrow.

3) I've got $300,000 dollars worth of scholarship offers so far from 7 different colleges, I'm still working my ass off looking for more little scholarships and I still will end up with student loans.. and I'm not bragging or anything, but I'm not really an "average" kid.  I've worked for 4 years at an eye clinic, I volunteer at a hospital every sunday, I have over a 4.0 GPA got a 1970 on the SAT.. my point being, if I'm still going to end up with student loans, your average kid will probably end up with some student loans too..  But beyond college, there aren't a ton of people who can support 2 kids and retire successfully.  Throw five kids into the equation and you'll be working until your 90.
1) Just because they figured out how to doesn't mean they will. The moon is small, and has no beneficial value.

2) Using gasoline is your own fault. Its very easy to convert any diesel car to use vegetable oil or ethenal(? on spelling). Hell, they already have perfectly working hydrogen (water) fueled cars and "pumps" in Germany.

3) Also depends what college you are trying to go, where it is, how many years you'll be there/what degrees you are working to get.

4) I'm sorry that you're very high standards for college/work are keeping you back/distorting your view but you don't have to be a neuro-surgeon from Yale to be successful.
1) Don't count on it in the near future.

2) Actually I do run on E85 (ethanol).  $2.69 a gallon.

3) College isn't the only factor... but what if they want to go to a nice college?  Tough luck I guess.  It's no easy task getting into a med-school with a degree from a state school these days to be honest.  And yes, I know there are other careers outside of medicine...

4) True.  But most private colleges cost upwards of $30,000 a year (plus room and board)
1) Define near future. Plus I said the next 10-20 years if you look back.

2) What percentage of it is Ethanol, most "ethanol" fuels rarely have more than 3-5%

3) There is not really "good and bad" colleges, persay. The best college is one that has what the individual needs/desires. So, therefor, the term "good college" is very very loose.

4) Exactly, you said you have $300,000 worth of scholarships when most really good private colleges even only cost $30,000 (according to you).

I have also been researching colleges a lot recently the last few weeks.
clogar
damn ain't it great to be a laxer
+32|6386|Minnesota

Turquoise wrote:

clogar wrote:

and who is the government to deny children their lives?
On the one hand, I would suggest that the government should help make sure that children are not subjected to abuse or neglect.  On the other hand, we also shouldn't send the message that you can have as many kids as you want without financial consequences.  (In other words, the child credit tax deductions should be limited to the first 2 kids.)
there are financial consequences for families that have 3 kids. also i know a family that has 12 kids and they are some amazingly happy people, they're not rich but they aren't burdening our country (america) so why does it matter how many kids one has.

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