unnamednewbie13 wrote:
Jay wrote:
The real question is "Why are you reading cafemom.com?"
First thing that popped up on google search after I heard about it on the radio, and the writing style was pissy enough for me to dump all over. I'm confident enough not to have to find reference to something on BBC to sound more sophisticated.
But I kind of agree with your line of thinking in regards to the article. It was clearly written by a kids should be kids idealist. What if the parents were broke and her idea spawned a business that provided for the rest of the family? Does that necessarily make the situation wrong? I don't think so.
Why is it we allow children to take and take and take without ever expecting anything in return? When did that change? Used to be that you had kids because they were supposed to care for you when you became too old to work. Now they take and take and bitch when they have to pay for your retirement home. Now, I'm not saying that we should be shipping our kids off to work in factories to provide for the family. I just don't see why the author of that blog seemed so personally offended by the setup that family has. Like it would be abject cruelty on the part of the parents if they ever dared touch a dime of their kids money.
Maybe I have a different perspective because I grew up poor but my mom used to raid my savings account full of birthday money and the savings bonds given to me by my grandparents. When I found out about it later in life I was understandably upset but my mom wasn't taking that money to buy a new pair of shoes for herself or a manicure. If she took it it was to put food on the table and to keep the electricity on. What's a few hundred dollars when she spent hundreds of thousands of dollars caring for me over the years?
Anyway, I dismissed the article because I thought the blog was making much ado about nothing and it wasn't really worthy of comment. But you as a poster here at DST deserve more than me dismissing your source with a sarcastic comment so there ya go