So back in August I dated this chick for no more than a month. I was never really interested in her to begin with, but she liked me, so I just went with it to see what would happen. She was really boring. All we ever did was see movies and went swimming once and hung out at her house for like 15 minutes. When I look back on it, I don't know why it lasted so long. I really only like her for one of the 4 weeks I was dating her. After that we hung out less and less and I told her I was busy with work and a summer class I was taking, when really I just wanted to sit in my room playing Playstation (hey, it was more fun than being with her).
I think what really did it is when I told her I think I have good taste in movies and I love seeing good movies, she said she did, too, and we wound up seeing Beer Fest because she said it was hilarious and it was a good movie. A few days after that she asked why we weren't hanging out as much and I told her basically "Yeah... about that.... I think we need to break up." She freaked out, called me an asshole and a jerk and a whole bunch of other crap that I don't remember because I wasn't listening.
I was so happy after that conversation it was unbelievable. I felt free. I felt great. I was glad she said those things because then she wouldn't talk to me ever again and I'd be safe!.... WRONG!!
A few days later she sends me a few IMs and I don't respond. Then she tells me I'm being really indecent by not talking to her. I tell her I really don't want to talk to someone who called me an ass, etc. Then she says she never said those things. I laugh my ass off and then she says "Yeah I did say those things, but I didn't mean them."
So I thought it was over. But apparently not. She keeps sending me texts on my phone, and her bitch friend always IMs and texts me asking why I'm not responding to my ex's shit. Then a few weeks ago she says she wants to hang out!!! "Yeah, so winter break is coming up, I think we should hang out, like you, me, and a bunch of other people." "Eh, maybe, I don't know." "But I was thinking probably just you and me." "Uh, no thanks."
Then tonight she sent me a text message telling me she was in town (note that I now live 40 miles away from where I did when I dated her) and asked what I was doing. I didn't respond. Then I get to my computer and her bitch friend starts IM'ing me asking why I didn't reply and I told her I have back-to-back-to-back finals this week and I'm studying non-stop. Then she says I'm just avoiding people, then says she's kidding, but we both know she's not.
This is getting really fucking ridiculous. This dumb broad doesn't know that we never really had a relationship to begin with, it only lasted a month at most. Plus, she can't fucking let go! I tell her no I don't like her and no I don't want to hang out with her, but she won't leave me alone! I think I'm gonna have to get a restraining order or something...
any advice? (besides kill her, I've already considered that )
I think what really did it is when I told her I think I have good taste in movies and I love seeing good movies, she said she did, too, and we wound up seeing Beer Fest because she said it was hilarious and it was a good movie. A few days after that she asked why we weren't hanging out as much and I told her basically "Yeah... about that.... I think we need to break up." She freaked out, called me an asshole and a jerk and a whole bunch of other crap that I don't remember because I wasn't listening.
I was so happy after that conversation it was unbelievable. I felt free. I felt great. I was glad she said those things because then she wouldn't talk to me ever again and I'd be safe!.... WRONG!!
A few days later she sends me a few IMs and I don't respond. Then she tells me I'm being really indecent by not talking to her. I tell her I really don't want to talk to someone who called me an ass, etc. Then she says she never said those things. I laugh my ass off and then she says "Yeah I did say those things, but I didn't mean them."
So I thought it was over. But apparently not. She keeps sending me texts on my phone, and her bitch friend always IMs and texts me asking why I'm not responding to my ex's shit. Then a few weeks ago she says she wants to hang out!!! "Yeah, so winter break is coming up, I think we should hang out, like you, me, and a bunch of other people." "Eh, maybe, I don't know." "But I was thinking probably just you and me." "Uh, no thanks."
Then tonight she sent me a text message telling me she was in town (note that I now live 40 miles away from where I did when I dated her) and asked what I was doing. I didn't respond. Then I get to my computer and her bitch friend starts IM'ing me asking why I didn't reply and I told her I have back-to-back-to-back finals this week and I'm studying non-stop. Then she says I'm just avoiding people, then says she's kidding, but we both know she's not.
This is getting really fucking ridiculous. This dumb broad doesn't know that we never really had a relationship to begin with, it only lasted a month at most. Plus, she can't fucking let go! I tell her no I don't like her and no I don't want to hang out with her, but she won't leave me alone! I think I'm gonna have to get a restraining order or something...
any advice? (besides kill her, I've already considered that )