Ok, here's the situation. There's this girl that I like at school, but I'm not sure how to ask here out because she went out with my CO (Commanding Officer) and I'm not sure if they're still going out. And she's moving in a little while. Also she's one of the few people that I like hanging out with that calls me by my first name instead of my last. lastly, there was recently a dance at my school and we were dancing and we were having a good time with her head against mine (not sure if it was on pouruse or not) or it was on my shoulder. so any help would be appricated. thanks in advance.
Well I would say the first thing you do is find out if she is still seeing your CO. You don't mow another mans lawn.. yada yada yada.
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Women are all about the little gestures. If the head thing at the dance really happened, and wasn't just a drunken stupor kind of think, I'd say it's a good hint that she digs you.
how do i do that nonchalentlyKmarion wrote:
Well I would say the first thing you do is find out if she is still seeing your CO. You don't mow another mans lawn.. yada yada yada.
just do it. confidence is key, so keep your voice in control, and don't tremble or look visibly shaken. just be normal and ask if she wants to hang out or go do something some time, and if she's interested, she'll say yes.theit57 wrote:
Ok, here's the situation. There's this girl that I like at school, but I'm not sure how to ask here out because she went out with my CO (Commanding Officer) and I'm not sure if they're still going out. And she's moving in a little while. Also she's one of the few people that I like hanging out with that calls me by my first name instead of my last. lastly, there was recently a dance at my school and we were dancing and we were having a good time with her head against mine (not sure if it was on pouruse or not) or it was on my shoulder. so any help would be appricated. thanks in advance.
I've already asked if she wants to go to lunch and she said yes, so we went to lunch. I also don't want to look like a stalker by asking some guys GF out cause he is a good friend of mine (the CO)Ender2309 wrote:
just do it. confidence is key, so keep your voice in control, and don't tremble or look visibly shaken. just be normal and ask if she wants to hang out or go do something some time, and if she's interested, she'll say yes.theit57 wrote:
Ok, here's the situation. There's this girl that I like at school, but I'm not sure how to ask here out because she went out with my CO (Commanding Officer) and I'm not sure if they're still going out. And she's moving in a little while. Also she's one of the few people that I like hanging out with that calls me by my first name instead of my last. lastly, there was recently a dance at my school and we were dancing and we were having a good time with her head against mine (not sure if it was on pouruse or not) or it was on my shoulder. so any help would be appricated. thanks in advance.
he's your CO and a good friend. You might wanna just steer clear, or give it some time. That kind of thing can ruin a relationship.theit57 wrote:
I've already asked if she wants to go to lunch and she said yes, so we went to lunch. I also don't want to look like a stalker by asking some guys GF out cause he is a good friend of mine (the CO)
I know, but her time here is limited and I really like her and want to ask her out, but don't want to look like an a$$ especially if they're still going out. So, how do I ask nonchalently if they are still going out?Reciprocity wrote:
he's your CO and a good friend. You might wanna just steer clear, or give it some time. That kind of thing can ruin a relationship.theit57 wrote:
I've already asked if she wants to go to lunch and she said yes, so we went to lunch. I also don't want to look like a stalker by asking some guys GF out cause he is a good friend of mine (the CO)
yes that happened and no none of us drink so she was not in a drunken stuporReciprocity wrote:
Women are all about the little gestures. If the head thing at the dance really happened, and wasn't just a drunken stupor kind of think, I'd say it's a good hint that she digs you.
Ask her to dinner and or a movie, she can either say yes, or, if she's cool, she'll say thanks, but I'm seeing someone right now.
Kill your CO. It would be irresponsible not to.
I don't have a car or any money. any other ideas since i live in a small town.Reciprocity wrote:
Ask her to dinner and or a movie, she can either say yes, or, if she's cool, she'll say thanks, but I'm seeing someone right now.
EDIT: I'm very light on money
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sounds like you're SOL.
yep, please any ideas anybody?Reciprocity wrote:
sounds like you're SOL.
Ok, after thinking about it for a little while, I may just ask one of my friends if they are going out and if they arn't then ask her. Any suggestions?
and if the wrong people hear about your inquary, it can get weird. If you like her that much, just ask her. and dont ask her about how she feels about someone else, ask her how she feels about you.theit57 wrote:
Ok, after thinking about it for a little while, I may just ask one of my friends if they are going out and if they arn't then ask her. Any suggestions?
If you're low on money, you could see if she'll go in for a murder suicide pact. It worked for Hitler.
lol, are you facinated with death/murder or what?Bubbalo wrote:
If you're low on money, you could see if she'll go in for a murder suicide pact. It worked for Hitler.
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Turn gay and make a pass at your CO?
Trust me, I tried it, and look how happy I am!theit57 wrote:
lol, are you facinated with death/murder or what?Bubbalo wrote:
If you're low on money, you could see if she'll go in for a murder suicide pact. It worked for Hitler.
so you were that guy on the news last monthBubbalo wrote:
Trust me, I tried it, and look how happy I am!theit57 wrote:
lol, are you facinated with death/murder or what?Bubbalo wrote:
If you're low on money, you could see if she'll go in for a murder suicide pact. It worked for Hitler.
jk
getting back to the topic at hand. are there any other suggestions.
I'm thinking about saying
"If I were to ask you ot right now what yould you say?"
Good idea?
Last edited by theit57 (2007-04-19 12:16:57)
chicks dig confidence. be confident and ask her out. much like Reciprocity said, she will let you know it a polite and timely manner.
Ok, here's what she said:
"Because I'm done with boyfriends right now"
she then said
"I just cant commit lol, I suck at it"
any other ideas?
"Because I'm done with boyfriends right now"
she then said
"I just cant commit lol, I suck at it"
any other ideas?
Last edited by theit57 (2007-04-19 17:20:20)
I just figured out what song it was:Reciprocity wrote:
Women are all about the little gestures. If the head thing at the dance really happened, and wasn't just a drunken stupor kind of think, I'd say it's a good hint that she digs you.
Iris by the Goo Goo Dolls