cowami
OY, BITCHTITS!
+1,106|6761|Noo Yawk, Noo Yawk

Ryan wrote:

But thats another thing, would she wanna go out with me if I asked her?
I shouldn't be one to say this, but you'll never know if you don't try.

From what I understand, things are still going between you two. Give it a shot, see what comes of it.
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Miller
IT'S MILLER TIME!
+271|7227|United States of America

Ryan wrote:

GunSlinger OIF II wrote:

what ever you do man, dont try to be the one to save her from the error of her ways.  I personally think thats the wrong direction.
If she likes doing it, so be it, I'll let her do it. I'll just tell her how bad it is for her and maybe she'll stop. Who knows.
That's what I tried to do with the girl I liked. Except her problem was sex. It didn't turn out well... I'm still cutting due to it, and that was a year ago... Dude, just back away from her.

EDIT: It's probably not what you wanted to hear, but trust me. It's the better option. I only wish someone would have told me.

Last edited by Miller (2007-05-17 19:21:04)

Harmor
Error_Name_Not_Found
+605|7019|San Diego, CA, USA
Unless there's no chance you can get busy with her, then forget it.
san4
The Mas
+311|7159|NYC, a place to live
If you feel like you want to go out with her (and it sounds like you do), then go out with her. It really is as simple as that. The fact that she has these "habits" may cause the relationship to fail or it may not, but there's no harm in spending some time together.
~FuzZz~
.yag era uoy fi siht deaR
+422|6793|Orrstrayleea
Smokes: BAD
Pot: USUALLY BAD
Drinks: DEFINATLY A GOOD THING!!!
Des.Kmal
Member
+917|7089|Atlanta, Georgia, USA

Ryan wrote:

I'm in a bit of a dilemma here.

3 things to say:

1. I've went out with this girl for 2 months last year, and we broke up in December.
2. I still like her alot, and we still flirt, which doesn't seem normal.
3. She smokes, drinks, and does pot, which turns me off completely.

But I still think she is a great person aside from her 'habits'.

Is this odd to still like her and want to start dating again? Or should I let off and find some other girl?
I want good suggestions, no bullshit like "get her drunk and rape her."

Thanks guys.
ok, what you do, is say, "hey baby, i got a bowl packed for us later. after that, lets fuck."

surefire.

if she likes the penis, u can make her stop, if not, then u fail

edit: if u get some good weed, and shes SUPER high, surprise buttsecks her.

edit2: shit, i forgot, if she isnt hot, scratch all that.

Last edited by Des.Kmal (2007-05-18 13:24:51)

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-Gunsmoke-
Member
+165|7106|South Jersey

Des.Kmal wrote:

Ryan wrote:

I'm in a bit of a dilemma here.

3 things to say:

1. I've went out with this girl for 2 months last year, and we broke up in December.
2. I still like her alot, and we still flirt, which doesn't seem normal.
3. She smokes, drinks, and does pot, which turns me off completely.

But I still think she is a great person aside from her 'habits'.

Is this odd to still like her and want to start dating again? Or should I let off and find some other girl?
I want good suggestions, no bullshit like "get her drunk and rape her."

Thanks guys.
ok, what you do, is say, "hey baby, i got a bowl packed for us later. after that, lets fuck."

surefire.

if she likes the penis, u can make her stop, if not, then u fail

edit: if u get some good weed, and shes SUPER high, surprise buttsecks her.

edit2: shit, i forgot, if she isnt hot, scratch all that.
kmal, I thought you were leaving?  Or just done with bf2...?

Last edited by -Gunsmoke- (2007-05-18 13:33:12)

Ryan
Member
+1,230|7314|Alberta, Canada

Des.Kmal wrote:

Ryan wrote:

I'm in a bit of a dilemma here.

3 things to say:

1. I've went out with this girl for 2 months last year, and we broke up in December.
2. I still like her alot, and we still flirt, which doesn't seem normal.
3. She smokes, drinks, and does pot, which turns me off completely.

But I still think she is a great person aside from her 'habits'.

Is this odd to still like her and want to start dating again? Or should I let off and find some other girl?
I want good suggestions, no bullshit like "get her drunk and rape her."

Thanks guys.
ok, what you do, is say, "hey baby, i got a bowl packed for us later. after that, lets fuck."

surefire.

if she likes the penis, u can make her stop, if not, then u fail

edit: if u get some good weed, and shes SUPER high, surprise buttsecks her.

edit2: shit, i forgot, if she isnt hot, scratch all that.
If all else fails, then sure

Thanks alot guys.
M.O.A.B
'Light 'em up!'
+1,220|6694|Escea

Hope it works out nice for ya. Its what's inside that counts........unless she was a monstrosity.
RedTwizzler
I do it for the lulz.
+124|7008|Chicago

M.O.A.B wrote:

Its what's inside that counts
Especially when "what's inside" is your penis. (I'm punbelievable.)

Last edited by RedTwizzler (2007-05-18 14:08:46)

M.O.A.B
'Light 'em up!'
+1,220|6694|Escea

RedTwizzler wrote:

M.O.A.B wrote:

Its what's inside that counts
Especially when "what's inside" is your penis. (I'm punbelievable.)
haha,

Last edited by M.O.A.B (2007-05-18 14:15:36)

Drunken_Tankdriver
Member
+81|7123

Ryan wrote:

I'm in a bit of a dilemma here.

3 things to say:

1. I've went out with this girl for 2 months last year, and we broke up in December.
2. I still like her alot, and we still flirt, which doesn't seem normal.
3. She smokes, drinks, and does pot, which turns me off completely.

But I still think she is a great person aside from her 'habits'.

Is this odd to still like her and want to start dating again? Or should I let off and find some other girl?
I want good suggestions, no bullshit like "get her drunk and rape her."

Thanks guys.
Smoke a joint with her and then fuck her, it will be the best you've ever had.
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bennisboy
Member
+829|7117|Poundland

Ryan wrote:

I'm in a bit of a dilemma here.

3 things to say:

1. I've went out with this girl for 2 months last year, and we broke up in December.
2. I still like her alot, and we still flirt, which doesn't seem normal.
3. She smokes, drinks, and does pot, which turns me off completely.

But I still think she is a great person aside from her 'habits'.

Is this odd to still like her and want to start dating again? Or should I let off and find some other girl?
I want good suggestions, no bullshit like "get her drunk and rape her."

Thanks guys.
If she shares the feelings for you, she'll be willing to try to change for you, or at least not do it around you. Jus talk to her about it
Des.Kmal
Member
+917|7089|Atlanta, Georgia, USA

Drunken_Tankdriver wrote:

Ryan wrote:

I'm in a bit of a dilemma here.

3 things to say:

1. I've went out with this girl for 2 months last year, and we broke up in December.
2. I still like her alot, and we still flirt, which doesn't seem normal.
3. She smokes, drinks, and does pot, which turns me off completely.

But I still think she is a great person aside from her 'habits'.

Is this odd to still like her and want to start dating again? Or should I let off and find some other girl?
I want good suggestions, no bullshit like "get her drunk and rape her."

Thanks guys.
Smoke a joint with her and then fuck her, it will be the best you've ever had.
joints are gay.
Add me on Origin for Battlefield 4 fun: DesKmal
Zimmer
Un Moderador
+1,688|7227|Scotland

What a ruined young girl she is.
Tell her that what she is doing is pathetic and that she is ruining her life minute by minute.
Some people need fucking life checks.

15 and smoking, drinking and pot? Sheesh. Drinking, fine most 15 year-olds do. Smoking, I don't like them because they kill other people because of their pathetic addiction ( don't any smoker take this personally, you know it is true, and I know it is hard to stop ). Pot? Fuck sake, she is off her head. Harmless? Bullshit, it harmful. Fact.

People like that have gotta be told straight. She wont live long if she keeps on going like that.

But if you really like her Ryan, it doesn't hurt to try ( or maybe it does ). You could always try, even if she puts you off, because if the liking is very strong, then nothing will stop you.
FFLink
There is.
+1,380|7162|Devon, England

Des.Kmal wrote:

Drunken_Tankdriver wrote:

Ryan wrote:

I'm in a bit of a dilemma here.

3 things to say:

1. I've went out with this girl for 2 months last year, and we broke up in December.
2. I still like her alot, and we still flirt, which doesn't seem normal.
3. She smokes, drinks, and does pot, which turns me off completely.

But I still think she is a great person aside from her 'habits'.

Is this odd to still like her and want to start dating again? Or should I let off and find some other girl?
I want good suggestions, no bullshit like "get her drunk and rape her."

Thanks guys.
Smoke a joint with her and then fuck her, it will be the best you've ever had.
joints are gay.
gene_pool
Banned
+519|7092|Gold coast, Aus.
Use it to your advantage? When shes off her head its easy to get in her pants.
Poseidon
Fudgepack DeQueef
+3,253|7009|Long Island, New York

Ryan wrote:

Poseidon wrote:

stick it in her p---okay i'm not going to bring /b/ onto BF2s

Dude, there's PLENTY of other people. If she does that shit that turns you off it's not worth it. Find the right one.
Well not in my case.
She was my first real girlfriend, and the other girl I really liked moved away. I really can't find anyone else. Seriously.
I thought the same about my neighbor, this girl Jamie. Then it turns out that she...well she's an asshole to put it simply. I really thought there was nobody else. But I'm learning to see there are SO many people out there. Give it time.
ghettoperson
Member
+1,943|7120

Zimmer wrote:

Pot? Fuck sake, she is off her head. Harmless? Bullshit, it harmful. Fact.
You're wrong, that's not a fact at all, but I would agree that in this case and at that age it is a bad idea.
Zimmer
Un Moderador
+1,688|7227|Scotland

ghettoperson wrote:

Zimmer wrote:

Pot? Fuck sake, she is off her head. Harmless? Bullshit, it harmful. Fact.
You're wrong, that's not a fact at all, but I would agree that in this case and at that age it is a bad idea.
No. You are.

http://alcoholism.about.com/cs/pot/f/mjp_faq12.htm
http://www.committment.com/jamison.html
http://www.well.com/user/woa/fspot.htm
http://www.dfaf.org/marijuana/whyharmful.php
http://www.teenhealthfx.com/answers/Alcohol/2310.html
http://www.mentalhealth.com/book/p45-mari.html


I could go on. It is a fact. Don't try and make an excuse. PEOPLE DON'T THINK IT IS HARMFUL. That doesn't mean it isn't. It very much is, although some people refuse to believe it because they feel fine.
Denial, is what it is called.
Since when did you think it wasn't harmful?
ghettoperson
Member
+1,943|7120

Zimmer wrote:

ghettoperson wrote:

Zimmer wrote:

Pot? Fuck sake, she is off her head. Harmless? Bullshit, it harmful. Fact.
You're wrong, that's not a fact at all, but I would agree that in this case and at that age it is a bad idea.
No. You are.

http://alcoholism.about.com/cs/pot/f/mjp_faq12.htm
http://www.committment.com/jamison.html
http://www.well.com/user/woa/fspot.htm
http://www.dfaf.org/marijuana/whyharmful.php
http://www.teenhealthfx.com/answers/Alcohol/2310.html
http://www.mentalhealth.com/book/p45-mari.html


I could go on. It is a fact. Don't try and make an excuse. PEOPLE DON'T THINK IT IS HARMFUL. That doesn't mean it isn't. It very much is, although some people refuse to believe it because they feel fine.
Denial, is what it is called.
Since when did you think it wasn't harmful?
Ok, I'm not saying it's not bad for you; most things are, it's just they way you phrased that made it sound like she was going to drop dead from touching it. But at that age, yes it's very stupid to do it. I trust you don't drink though, or do anything like that?
Zimmer
Un Moderador
+1,688|7227|Scotland

ghettoperson wrote:

Zimmer wrote:

ghettoperson wrote:


You're wrong, that's not a fact at all, but I would agree that in this case and at that age it is a bad idea.
No. You are.

http://alcoholism.about.com/cs/pot/f/mjp_faq12.htm
http://www.committment.com/jamison.html
http://www.well.com/user/woa/fspot.htm
http://www.dfaf.org/marijuana/whyharmful.php
http://www.teenhealthfx.com/answers/Alcohol/2310.html
http://www.mentalhealth.com/book/p45-mari.html


I could go on. It is a fact. Don't try and make an excuse. PEOPLE DON'T THINK IT IS HARMFUL. That doesn't mean it isn't. It very much is, although some people refuse to believe it because they feel fine.
Denial, is what it is called.
Since when did you think it wasn't harmful?
Ok, I'm not saying it's not bad for you; most things are, it's just they way you phrased that made it sound like she was going to drop dead from touching it. But at that age, yes it's very stupid to do it. I trust you don't drink though, or do anything like that?
After living ins Scotland. No thank you.
Don't drink.
Don't smoke.
Don't do drugs.

I don't need to to enjoy my life. Or have fun.
ghettoperson
Member
+1,943|7120

Zimmer wrote:

ghettoperson wrote:

Zimmer wrote:


No. You are.

http://alcoholism.about.com/cs/pot/f/mjp_faq12.htm
http://www.committment.com/jamison.html
http://www.well.com/user/woa/fspot.htm
http://www.dfaf.org/marijuana/whyharmful.php
http://www.teenhealthfx.com/answers/Alcohol/2310.html
http://www.mentalhealth.com/book/p45-mari.html


I could go on. It is a fact. Don't try and make an excuse. PEOPLE DON'T THINK IT IS HARMFUL. That doesn't mean it isn't. It very much is, although some people refuse to believe it because they feel fine.
Denial, is what it is called.
Since when did you think it wasn't harmful?
Ok, I'm not saying it's not bad for you; most things are, it's just they way you phrased that made it sound like she was going to drop dead from touching it. But at that age, yes it's very stupid to do it. I trust you don't drink though, or do anything like that?
After living ins Scotland. No thank you.
Don't drink.
Don't smoke.
Don't do drugs.

I don't need to to enjoy my life. Or have fun.
Ok that's fine, I just get sick of the usual hypocrites that jabber on about how bad marijuana is for you, but then still think alcohol is perfectly fine for you.
FFLink
There is.
+1,380|7162|Devon, England

Zimmer wrote:

ghettoperson wrote:

Zimmer wrote:


No. You are.

http://alcoholism.about.com/cs/pot/f/mjp_faq12.htm
http://www.committment.com/jamison.html
http://www.well.com/user/woa/fspot.htm
http://www.dfaf.org/marijuana/whyharmful.php
http://www.teenhealthfx.com/answers/Alcohol/2310.html
http://www.mentalhealth.com/book/p45-mari.html


I could go on. It is a fact. Don't try and make an excuse. PEOPLE DON'T THINK IT IS HARMFUL. That doesn't mean it isn't. It very much is, although some people refuse to believe it because they feel fine.
Denial, is what it is called.
Since when did you think it wasn't harmful?
Ok, I'm not saying it's not bad for you; most things are, it's just they way you phrased that made it sound like she was going to drop dead from touching it. But at that age, yes it's very stupid to do it. I trust you don't drink though, or do anything like that?
After living ins Scotland. No thank you.
Don't drink.
Don't smoke.
Don't do drugs.

I don't need to to enjoy my life. Or have fun.
Well I don't drink, smoke or do drugs (never have, never will) either, and I have still have a shit load of fun.
Villain{NY}
Banned
+44|6815|New York

Ryan wrote:

I'm in a bit of a dilemma here.

3 things to say:

1. I've went out with this girl for 2 months last year, and we broke up in December.
2. I still like her alot, and we still flirt, which doesn't seem normal.
3. She smokes, drinks, and does pot, which turns me off completely.

But I still think she is a great person aside from her 'habits'.

Is this odd to still like her and want to start dating again? Or should I let off and find some other girl?
I want good suggestions, no bullshit like "get her drunk and rape her."

Thanks guys.
That's a tough situation you're in my friend and there is no easy answers other than you should follow your heart.

You sound like two completely different people and you need to ask yourself are your differences going to lead to another break up or are they something that you can compromise on.  Talk to her about your feelings and if she's not willing to give up at least her drug habit then you're probably better off finding another girl and sparing yourself future grief.

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