I'm yet to be married and divorced, though I'm interestedStingray24 wrote:
So, why all you guys getting divorced?
Lets see here, My EX left me in January and moved to Washington State. She's been "dating" (fucking) a friend since then. She stated she wanted a break from us and that she'd be back with in a few weeks.. well its been 5 months. It took a Judge to say that I as a father have equal rights as she does a the mother.Stingray24 wrote:
So, why all you guys getting divorced?
....and she still wants us to try again... AHAHAHAHAHAHA
The worst part of it all, I'm a Cop and a Vol. Firefighter, (lets say i make a healthy paycheck) she left me for a guy that is a convicted Felon, he can't get a driver's license (EVER) nor join the military. He is also a druggy whom I've arrested before.
Weird.
Owned. Dont that feel good? To own a bitch like that?S3v3N wrote:
Lets see here, My EX left me in January and moved to Washington State. She's been "dating" (fucking) a friend since then. She stated she wanted a break from us and that she'd be back with in a few weeks.. well its been 5 months. It took a Judge to say that I as a father have equal rights as she does a the mother.Stingray24 wrote:
So, why all you guys getting divorced?
....and she still wants us to try again... AHAHAHAHAHAHA
The worst part of it all, I'm a Cop and a Vol. Firefighter, (lets say i make a healthy paycheck) she left me for a guy that is a convicted Felon, he can't get a driver's license (EVER) nor join the military. He is also a druggy whom I've arrested before.
Weird.
Ironic truely, guess the saying bout women wanted the bad guys is true from a certain point of view lolS3v3N wrote:
The worst part of it all, I'm a Cop and a Vol. Firefighter, (lets say i make a healthy paycheck) she left me for a guy that is a convicted Felon, he can't get a driver's license (EVER) nor join the military. He is also a druggy whom I've arrested before.
Weird.
new thread: "Photoshop my ex"
Oh yesjsnipy wrote:
new thread: "Photoshop my ex"
I second the idea!
IndeedSimon wrote:
Oh yesjsnipy wrote:
new thread: "Photoshop my ex"
S.J.N.P.0717 wrote:
Give me her address and I will haha.
Schwarzelungen wrote:
this thread has reinforced my belief that getting married could possibly be a horribly idea.
this thread wins, it just wins
Sorry to hear that, man. I kinda understand where you're at, having been cheated on in the past. I could never get back with a woman that cheated on me. Some women apparently like the "bad boys" and then when they finally come to their senses, the good guy they left is looooong gone. Best of luck, being a father in this type of situation can't be easy.S3v3N wrote:
Lets see here, My EX left me in January and moved to Washington State. She's been "dating" (fucking) a friend since then. She stated she wanted a break from us and that she'd be back with in a few weeks.. well its been 5 months. It took a Judge to say that I as a father have equal rights as she does a the mother.Stingray24 wrote:
So, why all you guys getting divorced?
....and she still wants us to try again... AHAHAHAHAHAHA
The worst part of it all, I'm a Cop and a Vol. Firefighter, (lets say i make a healthy paycheck) she left me for a guy that is a convicted Felon, he can't get a driver's license (EVER) nor join the military. He is also a druggy whom I've arrested before.
Weird.
Its not easy, I finally got to see him for the first time in 4 months for about six hours.. now i've had him for 2 weeks, then in July i'll get to have him for 6 months.
Last edited by S3v3N (2007-06-11 14:49:41)
Divorce is a horrible, messy thing. My parents' one pretty much screwed up my life and played hell with my sanity.
Although if they had stayed together, I would probably be in prison right now due to not being able to stand being around them any longer.
I plan to think long and hard before getting married. And then keeping enough cash lying around seperate from her entirely so I don't end up destitute when she takes half my stuff and a percentage of my income for life.
Although if they had stayed together, I would probably be in prison right now due to not being able to stand being around them any longer.
I plan to think long and hard before getting married. And then keeping enough cash lying around seperate from her entirely so I don't end up destitute when she takes half my stuff and a percentage of my income for life.
Hey my girl is Bi so we both check out chicks LOL!tiptopT wrote:
And all those accusations of cheating!! Her: "You were eyeing up all those women" - aimbotSFCCDailey wrote:
Getting married is like using an AimBot. It might be fun at first but you end up loosing your account and having to start all over!
Believe it or not, though I laid in bed praying my ex-wife's plane would go down in a ball of flames, and not even considering the other 200+ lives that would be lost, just last month I bought some products I neither needed nor wanted from her struggling company. We were married in 1992, divorced in 1994, and these days I just feel damned near nothing other than maybe sad for her.
About a year ago, when I was on my annual week long pilgrimage to wine country, she hunted down my email address and sent me an apology. Apparently it's one of the 12 steps for alcoholics. Said she had to apologize to everyone she screwed over.
At some point you'll look back on the whole deal and think "ah, fuck it, we were kids."
I was an insane ball of love, hate, despair, and loathing when we got divorced, and I went through periods of staying away from women entirely, or fucking any chick that would slow down long enough to be caught, but after a while your give a shit level about the marriage/divorce/person just plummets. At this point, 15 years later, it's like it never even happened. We I hear from her it's like hearing from a salesman or a vendor. It's not good or bad, it just doesn't much count one way or the other.
About a year ago, when I was on my annual week long pilgrimage to wine country, she hunted down my email address and sent me an apology. Apparently it's one of the 12 steps for alcoholics. Said she had to apologize to everyone she screwed over.
At some point you'll look back on the whole deal and think "ah, fuck it, we were kids."
I was an insane ball of love, hate, despair, and loathing when we got divorced, and I went through periods of staying away from women entirely, or fucking any chick that would slow down long enough to be caught, but after a while your give a shit level about the marriage/divorce/person just plummets. At this point, 15 years later, it's like it never even happened. We I hear from her it's like hearing from a salesman or a vendor. It's not good or bad, it just doesn't much count one way or the other.
Ooorah!
talk to me in ten years.too_money2007 wrote:
Marriage is great. Those who get divorced are fucking idiots for getting married in the first place.
Divorce is an act of selfishness, either in itself, of a symptom of chronic selfishness for either one, or more likely, both spouses.too_money2007 wrote:
Marriage is great. Those who get divorced are fucking idiots for getting married in the first place.
If you loved each other enough to get married, you should be able to love each other to get over your differences. If two people are both self-sacrficial for each other, than neither needs to worry about themselves because they know they're already taken care of.
It's all selfishness, folks...
ya man don't you lost half?Hurricane wrote:
Usually divorce is a somewhat serious occassion, not a "woohoo I won the lottery" thing.
Congrats I guess?
edit: because if i have to give half i afraid i have to kill her like oj.
Last edited by agent146 (2007-06-11 22:23:12)
That's what a fucking prenup is for. I wouldn't dare marry a woman who thinks that she gets to stop being a viable member of society (able to hold a job and life of their own) and become a leech off my success and hard word. Let's take a hard look at those equality marches and make sure that it's a fair game all around, not just the fun parts the feminists want.Skorpy-chan wrote:
And then keeping enough cash lying around seperate from her entirely so I don't end up destitute when she takes half my stuff and a percentage of my income for life.
still married but, you know why divorce is so expensive?........because its WORTH IT!!!
Next there will be girls wanting to drive cars and vote, man, whats that about???
I don't have any Kids!!!!! Thts the best part!!!!!Skorpy-chan wrote:
Divorce is a horrible, messy thing. My parents' one pretty much screwed up my life and played hell with my sanity.
Although if they had stayed together, I would probably be in prison right now due to not being able to stand being around them any longer.
I plan to think long and hard before getting married. And then keeping enough cash lying around seperate from her entirely so I don't end up destitute when she takes half my stuff and a percentage of my income for life.
Last edited by dark110 (2007-06-21 08:27:01)
Chivalry my ass. If a gal wants a door opened for her then she damn well better be prepared to do the same. I clean, I cook because i love it but the point is I don't consider anything a woman's job (but neither a mans!). I would take this principle to almost any extreme. I'm not saying go and wear a dress because unless you have man tits, its not going to fit your shape, but I am saying play netball (rofl my dad broke his ankle playing netball). Girls play football. But only if you want to. Just don't NOT do it because you think it's not appropriate.chuyskywalker wrote:
That's what a fucking prenup is for. I wouldn't dare marry a woman who thinks that she gets to stop being a viable member of society (able to hold a job and life of their own) and become a leech off my success and hard word. Let's take a hard look at those equality marches and make sure that it's a fair game all around, not just the fun parts the feminists want.Skorpy-chan wrote:
And then keeping enough cash lying around seperate from her entirely so I don't end up destitute when she takes half my stuff and a percentage of my income for life.
My mum hammered me with feminism when I was younger and as soon as I became old enough and my logic kicked in, it was just like "wtf? Why would you fight for any races right separately?". Egalitarianism needs to be across the board, gender, race, height or weight. [/DS&T] [/off topic]