BF2S Forums Can someone help me?

tthf wrote:

does she know you?

if she does then just go up to her after class and ask her if she would like to go have coffee and a movie the coming thursday.
if she says she's busy, then cooly say" not a problem, another time perhaps" and walk away. ask her again in a week or so.

sounds good to me.

don't sound desperate, take deep breaths, keep your hands busy like in your pockets or holding a book. and when you are talking to her look her in the eyes don't look away

good luck

don't worry if she says no. its not the end of the world. good luck again

when her back is toward you ........... smack her on the ass and say " You know you like it "






works every time

okay this is gonna sound kinda weird but maybe it'll help you:

I'm atheist and therefor I believe that when you die there is nothingness, nothingness for the rest of time, and all eternity and that bull. Therefor we must make the most of what we have now. I know from this that I must regret nothing. I don't want to be 80 on my death bed going, "damn I shoulda asked that one chick I liked when I was 15 (or whatever age) cause who knows what woulda happened. The worst that could've happened was she said 'no' and I woulda been like 'okay whatev'. But now I'll never no and I regret it."

So just go in thinking you don't want to be 80 and regret anything.

If that helps...

This is cool stuff.

I'm in the same situation as the OP, but I already know the girl some.

dang, she was absent today. I think I'll get her # and call her and ask if she's ok. sound good?

If confidence is your problem then you should only really ask her out when in a blitzing mood, but not a hyper mood. This will make you feel... happier and you're more likely to go through with it. Also, you'll come over better. Don't think about what you'll say too much before you say it, otherwise you'll mix it all up, and then you just look like a babbling bafoon.

Body language is important too, pick a bright spot, and keep your arms away from your other arms, with your palms turned generally in her direction. Smile, but not too much. Try to relax your face, so you don't crease up as much. Make it so that neither of you are looking into the sun, so you don't have to squint to see each other.

I find exercising helps me feel good, so maybe ask her after P.E, but then again, your hair'd be messed

Make sure you look as good as you can, without going over the top. Also, all these other tips are good, but yeah, a movie is a waste of time (Costs a bit too! )

How old are you? How much money do you have to spend on a first date?

More advice when these questions are answered

EDIT: Calling her may sound a bit desperate, just ask her when she's back in School.

Last edited by Funky_Finny (2007-12-14 12:56:49)

theit57 wrote:

NOTE: ONLY HELPFUL AND RELEVENT SUGGESTIONS PLEASE!

Ok, here's the situation:

I really like this girl at school and wanna ask her out, but I kinda got a confidence problem. any ideas on how to remedy this? anything at all would be helpful

Start talking to her often.....be a nice person towards her.....help out as often as possible.....buy lunch one day.......be a friend enough that SHE starts talking to you....then you go in for the kill !

james@alienware wrote:

This man....has the moves!   



Veteran I'm sensing?


(I also agree with everything he said, especially about calling her - well, not calling her!)

Believe it or not, I've been single for two years, but I have a 100% success rate for asking girls out

OR! find another girl.....and if she really likes you, she will be jealous, then you can ditch the bait and get with the real deal =P....but that would be mean of the other girl.........maybe it would be good if she is in with you on this

Funky_Finny wrote:

If confidence is your problem then you should only really ask her out when in a blitzing mood, but not a hyper mood. This will make you feel... happier and you're more likely to go through with it. Also, you'll come over better. Don't think about what you'll say too much before you say it, otherwise you'll mix it all up, and then you just look like a babbling bafoon.

Body language is important too, pick a bright spot, and keep your arms away from your other arms, with your palms turned generally in her direction. Smile, but not too much. Try to relax your face, so you don't crease up as much. Make it so that neither of you are looking into the sun, so you don't have to squint to see each other.

I find exercising helps me feel good, so maybe ask her after P.E, but then again, your hair'd be messed

Make sure you look as good as you can, without going over the top. Also, all these other tips are good, but yeah, a movie is a waste of time (Costs a bit too! )

How old are you? How much money do you have to spend on a first date?

More advice when these questions are answered

EDIT: Calling her may sound a bit desperate, just ask her when she's back in School.

Your right and ya you for sure don't want to ask a girl out over the phone/ aim ever! It makes you look weak so don't do that.

Funky_Finny wrote:

If confidence is your problem then you should only really ask her out when in a blitzing mood, but not a hyper mood. This will make you feel... happier and you're more likely to go through with it. Also, you'll come over better. Don't think about what you'll say too much before you say it, otherwise you'll mix it all up, and then you just look like a babbling bafoon.

Body language is important too, pick a bright spot, and keep your arms away from your other arms, with your palms turned generally in her direction. Smile, but not too much. Try to relax your face, so you don't crease up as much. Make it so that neither of you are looking into the sun, so you don't have to squint to see each other.

I find exercising helps me feel good, so maybe ask her after P.E, but then again, your hair'd be messed

Make sure you look as good as you can, without going over the top. Also, all these other tips are good, but yeah, a movie is a waste of time (Costs a bit too! )

How old are you? How much money do you have to spend on a first date?

More advice when these questions are answered

EDIT: Calling her may sound a bit desperate, just ask her when she's back in School.

Yes she does know me, and she started giving me a hug a day, then those got to a couple a day that soon got longer in time. I'm 18 and I'm pretty dang broke right now. although I do work at a pool, it hasn't opened yet, so I can't go to work yet