I'm a convinced third generation atheist and one of my better friends is a rather fanatic Jehova witness who believes I'm being ruled by Satan. She also said at some point she basically wasn't allowed to talk to me. On elementary school I took bible lessons, I've been to a Jesuite high-school (chapel and priests included), went to a Greek Orthodox service in the monastery I was staying and last week attended a Russian liturgical concert.
The fact that we atheists are allowed to hate, doesn't mean we always do
konfusion wrote:
What the fuck? I'm an atheist, I don't hate anyone except my ex right now...
I actually thing it's pretty cool that you can believe in something - because I can't get myself to believe in any god/higher power.
-konfusion
True, religion can provide comfort in the most desperate situations. I believe in chivalry as a system, but rather than providing comfort it just drives you further to despair when at some point you'll find yourself having to act even though strongly against your own health
The reason I do not believe in God can perhaps be best discribed by an example. A friend of mine once told me he was Catholic,.. I laughed. Not because he said he was Catholic, but rather because he said HE was Catholic. Not a bad guy at all, but if you'd know you'd understand. I asked him why. He said because it was baptized. I said that it was folly to consider yourself to be following some religion for a choice your parents made before your brains had even properly developped. He told me that in the end it was just about living up to certain rules. I asked him if that was what he believed (not that I found him wrong though), he might just as well call himself a Muslim or practisioner of any other religion that proclaims roughly the same rules. He said yes.
So the reason I do not believe in God is that I do not need a God to be a "good person", that I should not need a God to prescribe me these rules and I demand of myself that I be able to adhere to an unwritten code under any situation. It's a personal thing and everyone should decide for him/herself how they want to reach that goal, through religion, discipline or whatever. I often find that my personal values coincide more with those of religious people than with those of "fellow atheists". Perhaps it is because many who you call atheists aren't atheists at all; the application of the term "atheist" to a person suggest he/she has thought about it. Many of the moral-less people simply have not thought about it. There are immorals among "atheists" as there are hypocrits amongst people of all religions.