I have a gf but we're long distance by a couple of states and we've been dating for over 2 years....and I just made out with this one girl that I recently became really close to that lives close to me. Is this cheating? I think I really screwed up but I cant control my feelings for the girl that I made out with. I was her first kiss ever. But yeah, I need help. I feel guilty for my gf.
yes that is cheating.
either you break up with your girlfriend really quick or you just go on break her heart, smart move.
either you break up with your girlfriend really quick or you just go on break her heart, smart move.
inane little opines
Well, if you don't get togheter with the close-by girl again, and don't tell your girlfriend, you're clear.m4s3rchi3f wrote:
I have a gf but we're long distance by a couple of states and we've been dating for over 2 years....and I just made out with this one girl that I recently became really close to that lives close to me. Is this cheating? I think I really screwed up but I cant control my feelings for the girl that I made out with. I was her first kiss ever. But yeah, I need help. I feel guilty for my gf.
The idea of any hi-fi system is to reproduce the source material as faithfully as possible, and to deliberately add distortion to everything you hear (due to amplifier deficiencies) because it sounds 'nice' is simply not high fidelity. If that is what you want to hear then there is no problem with that, but by adding so much additional material (by way of harmonics and intermodulation) you have a tailored sound system, not a hi-fi. - Rod Elliot, ESP
I think he's still a cheat. The question to ask is that if the situation was reversed, and she made out with a guy, would the OP call that cheating?Freezer7Pro wrote:
Well, if you don't get togheter with the close-by girl again, and don't tell your girlfriend, you're clear.
thanks...now im the scum of the earth. Should i tell my gf?
I dunno if it would be the best but I would and break up. Or, if you love her more than the other girl try and get another shotm4s3rchi3f wrote:
thanks...now im the scum of the earth. Should i tell my gf?
inane little opines
thanks...i told her, and now she wants to break up...after much tears..im emotionless.
Good, then fuck the other girl! :S Kidding. But seriously, do it.m4s3rchi3f wrote:
thanks...i told her, and now she wants to break up...after much tears..im emotionless.
Yes, it is cheating...and breaking up is the right thing to do. It's bad to live with a guilty conscience.
You deserve it man, seriously. And that is why it is so hard to have long distance relationships, it actually ends up in a 3 or 4 person circle . I hope everything ends up "fine" with her and you.m4s3rchi3f wrote:
thanks...i told her, and now she wants to break up...after much tears..im emotionless.
Cheating is generally when you modify the game to give you an advantage you can't get with skill alone.
Oh, wait, relationship crap.
Yeah, that's cheating alright. From her reaction, I'd say your GF was considering a similar point.
Oh, wait, relationship crap.
Yeah, that's cheating alright. From her reaction, I'd say your GF was considering a similar point.
Yea.... 4 person circle? How can it be that? How odd. But thanks for the encouragement.Yaocelotl wrote:
You deserve it man, seriously. And that is why it is so hard to have long distance relationships, it actually ends up in a 3 or 4 person circle . I hope everything ends up "fine" with her and you.m4s3rchi3f wrote:
thanks...i told her, and now she wants to break up...after much tears..im emotionless.
uhhhh, why would you tell her lol?
i told her becuz its the right thing to do. But yeai know...cheating on her isnt the right thing. Most ppl in these forums dun even have a gf or old enuff to date.
According to who, now?m4s3rchi3f wrote:
i told her becuz its the right thing to do. But yeai know...cheating on her isnt the right thing. Most ppl in these forums dun even have a gf or old enuff to date.
have you ever met the other girl?
sent you a pm if u wanna talk. ...
sent you a pm if u wanna talk. ...
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obviously according to himRedTwizzler wrote:
According to who, now?m4s3rchi3f wrote:
i told her becuz its the right thing to do. But yeai know...cheating on her isnt the right thing. Most ppl in these forums dun even have a gf or old enuff to date.
LOL ITS A GAMING FORUM OBV. NO1 HAZ GFS AND R UNDER 14 YRS OLD! LOL IDOT!!Qrite wrote:
obviously according to himRedTwizzler wrote:
According to who, now?m4s3rchi3f wrote:
i told her becuz its the right thing to do. But yeai know...cheating on her isnt the right thing. Most ppl in these forums dun even have a gf or old enuff to date.
/sarcasm
Life lesson learned... imagine her making out with someone else or worse... sucks doesnt it...
Love is the answer
He's just spreading his love.
become an hero
or never do it again
make your choice...
or never do it again
make your choice...
wait wait wait. a key question has not been asked, thus the puzzle can not be solved.
is she hot? post pix
is she hot? post pix
lol do you want me to post a pic?
Yes. post a pic. Pictures make personal story's more intimate.
And quit the generalizations with the girlfriends. most people on this forum already have wifes. lol.
And quit the generalizations with the girlfriends. most people on this forum already have wifes. lol.
naked ones if you can.
pics of gf or the one he cheated on the gf with
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