how ironic, ppl braggin over the e-net about how much pussy they get...
Lol I'm a jock in the football (soccer) team, it does help with making friends, and all of them are decent guys, so I would recommend joining a team.trippy982 wrote:
You're 19 right? Don't worry, most people at that age are trying to figure out who they are and focusing on themselves to actually care about others, so finding meaningful people to really bond with will be really limited. Add in the mix of teenager hormones, the willingness to be cool and popular (aka "rep") and all fake, selfishness, etc.. will make forming any real relationship a lot harder. Good thing is, most people you see at your highschool, you'll never see them again. However, if you're having this issue later in college, then there's something wrong with you because by that time most people got life all figure out and instead of focusing inward, there actually focusing outward and looking for meaningful relationship. you just happen to be ahead of the curve me thinks. Just chill, be patient, those meaningful relationship you're talking about will come.
In highschool, the quickest way to form those "deep" relationship, would probably be joining a football team. Those jocks tend to have "meaningful" relationships...(although I think its pretty shallow, but its a good quick fix for now)
I fail to see how its ironic, you dont have to be doing both at the same time. Also no-one was actually braggingkajukenbo_kid wrote:
how ironic, ppl braggin over the e-net about how much pussy they get...
E-penor will become a valuable commodity in a few years.kajukenbo_kid wrote:
how ironic, ppl braggin over the e-net about how much pussy they get...
Try working in smaller numbers rather than groups, its easier to remember names and things that THEY enjoy thus making conversations easier.2tuff wrote:
I need some help in deepening the relationships in my life. (I know, I know, internet forum not the place to be asking...blah blah blah. GTFO if thats your mentality.)
So here's me: I'm real outgoing, decently popular, have good people skills, and talk with lots of people every day. I have plenty of "friends" and know loads of people and have no problem making friends with new people...the thing I lack is the ability to deepen my relationships.
Whether it be with girls or just guy friends I cant seem to really elevate any of my relationships into anything more than just school/work buddies. Dont get me wrong, I do go out on weekends, but those I wanna chill with already have their "groups" and I often feel slighted and somewhat left out.
I have the ability to know and chat with many people, just its tough for me to get those "close friends" or that "special girlfriend".
Just looking for some tips or insight on how to strengthen/deepen my relationships.
And no, this is not a girly pussy post...im looking for serious answers
Have a bit of self confidence aswell otherwise you won't get anywhere.
I do, I play soccer and basketball.bennisboy wrote:
Lol I'm a jock in the football (soccer) team, it does help with making friends, and all of them are decent guys, so I would recommend joining a team.
And some really great replys here
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But we're talking about popularity and being popular I'm basing this off my life of how it runs. I'm not saying to follow it just live life how you want.Varegg wrote:
I hope you meant that ironic Flaming cause those statements was way too shallow.
You hang out with people you feel comfortable with aka having the same interests not how cool or popular they are, a common teenager misconception, like Hurricat said seldom does one evolve into a deeper relationship with friends from high school.
It was in complete and utter jest, and it saddens me that more than one people had such a low opinion of me to take it seriously.Varegg wrote:
I hope you meant that ironic Flaming cause those statements was way too shallow.Flaming_Maniac wrote:
Listen to this guy. He's freakin' smart.sportsman11-2cool4u wrote:
Hmm with popularity you gotta keep your rep. I've ruined my rep by stupid things before but got it back easily. Keeping rep is a lot of key things.
1. Friends - Don't hang out with "nerds" or "geeks" w/e. Keep with the medium to high popular kids.
2. Talking - Try and talk with people a lot in school but be careful what you say. Talk on the phone is also good.
3. Hangout places - Try and hang out with lots of people keep it mixed up. Like the movies, mall, or any other place is good.
4. Girls - Now this is KEY for boys. Me personally I have more girl friends then I have boys that are my friends (Hah, sorry for the wording but you should get my point). You have to learn to flirt--make girls laugh.
There are way more. But I'm too lazy. Now if you need player tips or girlfriend tips shoot me an email with $9.95 enclosed. Haha jk, but seriously if you need more info hit me up.
You hang out with people you feel comfortable with aka having the same interests not how cool or popular they are, a common teenager misconception, like Hurricat said seldom does one evolve into a deeper relationship with friends from high school.
The post I was quoting is incredibly immature and from someone who has very, very little (if any) real world experience.
Ok I'm in 8th grade. I'm just giving tips to popularity easy ones of the top of my head. Idc, seriously this doesn't look as great typed as it does in real lfie.Flaming_Maniac wrote:
It was in complete and utter jest, and it saddens me that more than one people had such a low opinion of me to take it seriously.
The post I was quoting is incredibly immature and from someone who has very, very little (if any) real world experience.
talk about less shallow things
this thread isn't about popularity since most people above 8th grade having infinitely many cares more important than popularitysportsman11-2cool4u wrote:
Ok I'm in 8th grade. I'm just giving tips to popularity easy ones of the top of my head. Idc, seriously this doesn't look as great typed as it does in real lfie.Flaming_Maniac wrote:
It was in complete and utter jest, and it saddens me that more than one people had such a low opinion of me to take it seriously.
The post I was quoting is incredibly immature and from someone who has very, very little (if any) real world experience.
He's asking for relationships giving my insight..Now I look back at my post it does look pretty gay tbh XD. Sure I have many more cares, but it's pretty hard going through school without a lot of friends.clogar wrote:
this thread isn't about popularity since most people above 8th grade having infinitely many cares more important than popularity