About the frame thing... I notice the difference between 60 and 65 frames per second. Because of autistic i can see every frame as if its played like a slide-show. Not that it really matters during gaming if i have 60 or even 80, i do see the difference (Only on (fast) moving things).
Besides, many 'gamers' i know, don't even notice what happens at the edge of their screen, so like its a big deal for 99.8% of the 'gamers'. The 0.2% real gamers sees more then the pixels on his/her screen.
.Sup, be proud of being an elitist. Just for the fact that it means you have some thinking power
I can stick my monitor at 43 or 56Hz and display a game or render VSynced to 43 or 56Hz, and it'll still look smooth. I bet, that if someone was to display a video to you of a render at 60FPS and 200FPS, you wouldn't notice any differance at all.
Dude, get your eyes AND brain tested for this. One of them has a big problem with 'seeing' things.
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The eye detects light, natural light has no refresh rate, and thats why many people prefer that lightsource. If you send out light X times per second, it won't be the same. Even with a refresh rate of 1000, its not the same. Pulsing != Constant