I was born to do this and have officially been doing it for 17 years, unofficially 20-22 years. We have been in business since 1900 but were Established in 1912. I was on £10 a day for the first year and it has taken me 17 years to get to the stage of being able to afford a mortgage and a car. That dosen't mean I'm minted but it was only when I became a director that I started paying people a fair wage along with myself.
The way I see employment/work is this. Money comes first.... However, I work 5 days a week, 9-5 (40 hours) 47 weeks a year (without being on the sick, 1-2 weeks on average) thats now 45 weeks a year. 47 (hours) x 45 (weeks) = 2115 Hours a year (approx). I started at 16, will finish when I'm 65 (on saying that my Dad is 76 and still working full time for us, my Grandad was the same, he got to 82 I think) Thats 59 years in total x 2115 Hours, thats 124,785 Hours of your life. Ignore the calculation and common sense will tell you that you work for approx 2/3rds of your living life. You only get one life, you MUST make the most of it.
If you don't have the financial committments of others for eg, Wife, Kids, Car, House etc etc and find yourself unhappy in your work regardless of how much you take home, switch jobs, start looking straight away. Don't kid yourself with "Oh I'll stop this and do that" as it won't happen, a bit like a 16 year old who starts smoking and kids him/herself with "Ohh I like this cos my mates smoke but I'll stop in 4 years time" by then your hooked.
I got guys here who have been with us for 40 years already, poor bastards got another 15/20 to go, and its not even prison. There on shit pay, we as a company don't swallow the profit from their labour up so why they with us? They love working for us, they get great satisfaction from their work. They come here in the morning every day stuck in their routine Happy, they remain happy most of the time here and then leave in the evening happy. When they go home to the important part of their life (their commitments) they remain happy and thats what is most important HAPPYNESS. Trust me, it's something that money does not guarantee, but can help bring happyness; I appriciate that.
You can tell what I'm trying to say but without sounding like "Ol 27" a lot of the people here were being made by their parents as I started working here so I really do know what I'm on about. Work out what is most important to you at the age/stage of your life and make your career decision based on that. There is no golden rule because we are all differnet with different circumstances but the following remains the same YOU GET ONE LIFE AND MUST BE HAPPY IN IT, if you get good money aswell, well thats a bonus.