swing and a missSharkyMcshark wrote:
I was asleep for a bit too but now I can't sleep. I'm sitting in my bed trying to sleep and then I thought 'hey I'll consult bf2s before the morning'SEREMAKER wrote:
so shes asleep and you're here
she's asleep and you're on the internet
she's passed out and you're typing away on your keyboard and writing notes
have you caught on yet
Watch the film Kids.kptk92 wrote:
QFTSamTheMan:D wrote:
stick your willy in her while shes sleeping
BTW: TAKE THE NOTE OUT NOW!
Go lay next to her and let her see you when she wakes up.
i agreeSuperior Mind wrote:
BTW: TAKE THE NOTE OUT NOW!
Go lay next to her and let her see you when she wakes up.
as do Ikrazed wrote:
i agreeSuperior Mind wrote:
BTW: TAKE THE NOTE OUT NOW!
Go lay next to her and let her see you when she wakes up.
Meh she had already woken up by the time you guys came up with that.
So she's gone now. I left the note in there.
I envisage that the next time I talk to her it's either going to be really good or really bad...
Anyway thanks guys
So she's gone now. I left the note in there.
I envisage that the next time I talk to her it's either going to be really good or really bad...
Anyway thanks guys
Leave it there.
Ah, that conversation... totally honest time. I had one of those conversations month and a half or so ago. They never go how you'd think. ** Good luck mate!SharkyMcshark wrote:
I envisage that the next time I talk to her it's either going to be really good or really bad...
** Turns out she has a boyfriend. Never really mentioned him in the year or so I'd gotten to known her. Yep... ouch.
What the...Mcminty's here?
Lol, how is that a surprise?
I certainly read the forums a lot, (especially at uni on my laptop when the lectures are boring ), I just don't post all that often...
I certainly read the forums a lot, (especially at uni on my laptop when the lectures are boring ), I just don't post all that often...
notes suck, just tell her yourself dude if she asks or remembers anything. Notes show lack of confidence. It's a b*tch way out.
Should've laid down next to her.
So are texts, phone calls and having a friend do it. Seriously, those are high-school antics. I say a note is the best thing to do next to telling her face to face. It at least shows her that you took the time to write what you felt.Obiwan wrote:
notes suck, just tell her yourself dude if she asks or remembers anything. Notes show lack of confidence. It's a b*tch way out.
QFT{M5}Sniper3 wrote:
It at least shows her that you took the time to write what you felt.
Agreed. Infact even old Mek here ruined a perfect chance because I took the bitch way out at the start of Uni. Oh fucking Mek you wanker{M5}Sniper3 wrote:
So are texts, phone calls and having a friend do it. Seriously, those are high-school antics. I say a note is the best thing to do next to telling her face to face. It at least shows her that you took the time to write what you felt.Obiwan wrote:
notes suck, just tell her yourself dude if she asks or remembers anything. Notes show lack of confidence. It's a b*tch way out.
Well new developments abounds.
She has a boyfriend. She has had a boyfriend for 2 months. When I met him last month at a party she introduced him as "my friend *name*" (as opposed to 'my boyfriend').
She neglected to tell me this for two months, despite us being by her own admittance very close friends. Shit, she still hasn't actually told me (I found out from a mutual friend). Not only did she not mention it in passing conversation (which has been plentiful for the last few months), she neglected to mention it before the first time she stayed over (or the second), she neglected to mention it while I was telling her how I felt, or after even.
She was on the phone to him on Friday night. After saying she was on the phone to about 3 other people (ie she said it was a different friend first, and then another, and then another) she said she was actually talking to *boyfriends name*. I asked her why she didn't just say. She said, (and i quote directly) "I didn't want you presuming that we were going out, because we aren't. He's gay infact".
Don't mistake me, I do not begrudge her for having a boyfriend whatsoever. But I'm not being irrational in that I'm slightly pissed that she didn't at least mention it am I?
She has a boyfriend. She has had a boyfriend for 2 months. When I met him last month at a party she introduced him as "my friend *name*" (as opposed to 'my boyfriend').
She neglected to tell me this for two months, despite us being by her own admittance very close friends. Shit, she still hasn't actually told me (I found out from a mutual friend). Not only did she not mention it in passing conversation (which has been plentiful for the last few months), she neglected to mention it before the first time she stayed over (or the second), she neglected to mention it while I was telling her how I felt, or after even.
She was on the phone to him on Friday night. After saying she was on the phone to about 3 other people (ie she said it was a different friend first, and then another, and then another) she said she was actually talking to *boyfriends name*. I asked her why she didn't just say. She said, (and i quote directly) "I didn't want you presuming that we were going out, because we aren't. He's gay infact".
Don't mistake me, I do not begrudge her for having a boyfriend whatsoever. But I'm not being irrational in that I'm slightly pissed that she didn't at least mention it am I?
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mcminty wrote:
** Turns out she has a boyfriend. Never really mentioned him in the year or so I'd gotten to known her. Yep... ouch. doh
...coincidence?SharkyMcshark wrote:
She has a boyfriend. She has had a boyfriend for 2 months.
I really can't concentrate for some reason so just explain really simply.
Her boyfriend is gay? How does that work out then..?
Her boyfriend is gay? How does that work out then..?
OK so she called someone on friday. After I kept bugging her she said it was *boyfriends name* ( i didnt know at this point that they were going out). But she said that he was gay and that she didn't want me to think that they were going out (ie she lied).jord wrote:
I really can't concentrate for some reason so just explain really simply.
Her boyfriend is gay? How does that work out then..?
I find out a day and a bit later from an acquaintance that he is infact very much not gay and they are infact quite going out.
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OH SHI-SharkyMcshark wrote:
(I found out from a mutual fiend)

Mmm.SharkyMcshark wrote:
OK so she called someone on friday. After I kept bugging her she said it was *boyfriends name*. But she said that he was gay and that she didn't want me to think that they were going out (ie she lied).jord wrote:
I really can't concentrate for some reason so just explain really simply.
Her boyfriend is gay? How does that work out then..?
I find out a day and a bit later from an acquaintance that he is infact very much not gay and they are infact quite going out.
So you talked about the note then, was it awkward?
No that's the thing! I still haven't talked to her!jord wrote:
Mmm.SharkyMcshark wrote:
OK so she called someone on friday. After I kept bugging her she said it was *boyfriends name*. But she said that he was gay and that she didn't want me to think that they were going out (ie she lied).jord wrote:
I really can't concentrate for some reason so just explain really simply.
Her boyfriend is gay? How does that work out then..?
I find out a day and a bit later from an acquaintance that he is infact very much not gay and they are infact quite going out.
So you talked about the note then, was it awkward?
She told our mutual friend last night at a party about the note and all that. Mutual friend comes on msn, tells me that she got the note, and that she needs to talk to me and tell me something only she can. I pressure mutual friend, who says she has a boyfriend. Still don't know what I'm going to say when she does call...
She'll probably lead the conversation. As they say, the balls in her court.SharkyMcshark wrote:
Still don't know what I'm going to say when she does call...
Wow, what bad luck. :S
Oooo, I know where this is heading (similar thing happened to me). Unless you really cant force yourself to move on, give up. Or jus ignore your feelings for a bit n make sure the friendship survivesSharkyMcshark wrote:
No that's the thing! I still haven't talked to her!jord wrote:
Mmm.SharkyMcshark wrote:
OK so she called someone on friday. After I kept bugging her she said it was *boyfriends name*. But she said that he was gay and that she didn't want me to think that they were going out (ie she lied).
I find out a day and a bit later from an acquaintance that he is infact very much not gay and they are infact quite going out.
So you talked about the note then, was it awkward?
She told our mutual friend last night at a party about the note and all that. Mutual friend comes on msn, tells me that she got the note, and that she needs to talk to me and tell me something only she can. I pressure mutual friend, who says she has a boyfriend. Still don't know what I'm going to say when she does call...