Oh gawd man.SharkyMcshark wrote:
Well new developments abounds.
She has a boyfriend. She has had a boyfriend for 2 months. When I met him last month at a party she introduced him as "my friend *name*" (as opposed to 'my boyfriend').
She neglected to tell me this for two months, despite us being by her own admittance very close friends. Shit, she still hasn't actually told me (I found out from a mutual friend). Not only did she not mention it in passing conversation (which has been plentiful for the last few months), she neglected to mention it before the first time she stayed over (or the second), she neglected to mention it while I was telling her how I felt, or after even.
She was on the phone to him on Friday night. After saying she was on the phone to about 3 other people (ie she said it was a different friend first, and then another, and then another) she said she was actually talking to *boyfriends name*. I asked her why she didn't just say. She said, (and i quote directly) "I didn't want you presuming that we were going out, because we aren't. He's gay infact".
Don't mistake me, I do not begrudge her for having a boyfriend whatsoever. But I'm not being irrational in that I'm slightly pissed that she didn't at least mention it am I?
That was the difference with my experience. She told me in a conversation about feelings and what-not that she started ("Umm, we need to talk..."), when she figured out that I liked her. Haha, and to think that I was going to ask her out that night...
