BF2S Forums Gay couples adopting kids from poor countries

madmurre wrote:

FallenMorgan wrote:

madmurre wrote:

Yes IF the biological parents approve you have to respect their cultural view even if you don´t agree on it in allot of development countries gay couples are denied adoptions.

If a black couple adopts a white baby they don't need the permission of the biological parents.  Usually if parents put their kid up for adoption, they wouldn't care if the adoptive parents are gay.  What if the couple is really caring and whatnot, they get refused, and the next couple that comes around is abusive, but it's a man and a woman?

Look from their perspective basicly hey we are the sons from satan and gonna take "care" of your child you would´nt want your kids to be raised by demons from hell would you?

the example is a tad bit bisarre but i think you see my point and the scenario your using could be used the other way around.

Drakef wrote:

S.Lythberg wrote:

FallenMorgan wrote:

Um...so fucking what?

The only reason people want kids to know what "real family life" is like is so they grow up to get married and have a bunch of kids in a suburban house with a white picket fence and all that other bullshit.

not the point, kids will find out that they have gay adoptive parents, and they'll get hell for it.

and FYI, your anti-society bias is showing.

Kids will always be bullied and harassed. If they wear a yellow shirt, if they are brown, if they are left handed. if they eat a different lunch- Kids will always find a reason to pick on certain other kids. Unless you wish to legislate complete conformity, I don't believe that one different aspect will be radically different.

Last edited by FallenMorgan (2008-05-06 22:38:42)

Missionless wrote:

If the adopted kid gets bullied, the bully need fucking parenting and he probable has that "american mom&dad" and look how well they raise their bully. If your kid does not have the maturity to accept an adopted kid with gay parents then thats their problem. I bet you could ask any starving african kid if he wants to be adopted by a normal living gay family the could wouldn't give a crap about them being gay.

You guys really want a kid to starve to death instead of him being adopted by gay couples, fucking sick I tell ya.

madmurre wrote:

FallenMorgan wrote:

madmurre wrote:

Look from their perspective basicly hey we are the sons from satan and gonna take "care" of your child you would´nt want your kids to be raised by demons from hell would you?

the example is a tad bit bisarre but i think you see my point and the scenario your using could be used the other way around.

WHO GIVES A FUCK?

They put their kid up for adoption why should we all fucking care what their completely biggoted asses think?  Sure, I'd hate it if a hypothetical offspring of mine was adopted by conservatives, but beliefs are different from sexual orientation.  Usually homosexual couples who adopt are in stable, loving relationships, and treat eachother, as well as others, with love and respect.

The way you put "care" in quotations seems to imply that you think a gay couple would molest a young child.

Who gives a fuck? Funny you put it that way reading your other posts about so called forced marriages i´m happy to tell you the exact same. Besides that i´m sure their parents would care then there´s laws preventing gay adoptions from happening in certain countries as well, and try to think outside your box for an exchange everyone does´nt agree/think like you i would say most people don´t. You can´t influence someone unless you understand them.

And please calling the mothers who choose to adopt their babies biggoted asses is laughable, There´s a shitload of reasons why someone would choose to give up their kid i won´t name any i´m sure your a smart kid and could imagine how the life could look for a single mother in Etiopia or Bangladesh for example.

Btw i would´nt mind gay adoptions at all.

Dilbert_X wrote:

Aussiereaper wrote:

I wouldn't have a problem with it, however: the gay couples would still have to be as stable as any other couple and would have to go through just as much red tape and background checks, etc.

I don't think they should get special consideration either discriminatory or by quicker access through the adoption process.

And of course, I'd want there to be checkups from whichever adoption agency is running the program to ensure the child's safety and well being. Mental as well as physical.

Kind of agree, but still find it a bit too strange to accept it.
Gays do seem to treat pets, children etc as symbols, accessories, playthings (can't find the right word) much more so than straight people however.

FEOS wrote:

Missionless wrote:

If the adopted kid gets bullied, the bully need fucking parenting and he probable has that "american mom&dad" and look how well they raise their bully. If your kid does not have the maturity to accept an adopted kid with gay parents then thats their problem. I bet you could ask any starving african kid if he wants to be adopted by a normal living gay family the could wouldn't give a crap about them being gay.

You guys really want a kid to starve to death instead of him being adopted by gay couples, fucking sick I tell ya.

My God...you people even have to turn this type of thread into a "bash America" thread, ffs.

FEOS wrote:

Missionless wrote:

FEOS wrote:

My God...you people even have to turn this type of thread into a "bash America" thread, ffs.

I said american parents cause this site is american. If this site was Italian or something I'd say "Italian Parents"

Paranoid american.

Riiiggghhhhtttt. Because you couldn't have just said "parents" (or, more accurately, "mom&dad")? The thread OP wasn't country-specific, nor is this site.

FEOS wrote:

Missionless wrote:

FEOS wrote:

My God...you people even have to turn this type of thread into a "bash America" thread, ffs.

I said american parents cause this site is american. If this site was Italian or something I'd say "Italian Parents"

Paranoid american.

Riiiggghhhhtttt. Because you couldn't have just said "parents" (or, more accurately, "mom&dad")? The thread OP wasn't country-specific, nor is this site.

LividBovine wrote:

FallenMorgan wrote:

Usually if parents put their kid up for adoption, they wouldn't care if the adoptive parents are gay.

You think they wouldn't care?  Ignorant kid.

If they didn't care about their child or what kind of environment they grew up in they wouldn't put them up for adoption.  In most 3rd world countries it is illegal to abandon your child.  They have to go through a lot just to get them to a safe place where they will be discovered.  If they didn't care they would just kill them for being inconvenient or the wrong gender.

I believe biological parents care very much if the new parents are heterosexual or not.

Missionless wrote:

^^^

You need to go to a orphans home where kids give you stuff worth loads to them just so you give them attention. Fight to play football with you and tell you that your their best friend after knowing them for 2 days. Then maybe you wouldn't really be such a picky person if a homosexual or a heterosexual adopts the kid. As long as it has mentally sane parenting I think kids should be offered a better life.

LividBovine wrote:

The conditions that these children are coming from far outweighs any feelings I have about homosexuality.

Turquoise wrote:

Schittloaf wrote:

Great camp....  It shows you how people back then (and even today) seem to confuse homosexuality with pedophilia.