I wouldnt know what to class my self as, but I find going out and talking to new peopl hard. How do you guys do it
Another obstacle put in the way of nothing. I get the feeling you DON'T want to change. I get the feeling you actually like having no life.
You keep shooting back with awful arguments against all our good suggestions.
I never for once suggested you go to the gym. I said SPORT, and what I meant by that is go out there and play some football, go biking, go swimming, play basketball. Do SOMETHING.
You keep shooting back with awful arguments against all our good suggestions.
I never for once suggested you go to the gym. I said SPORT, and what I meant by that is go out there and play some football, go biking, go swimming, play basketball. Do SOMETHING.
Get a job, it's a great way to meet people, also if they bully you (more than likely in your case) you can get them sacked.
But seriously, I met loads of new friends and that when I started at Tesco.
But seriously, I met loads of new friends and that when I started at Tesco.
It seems to me rather than taking peoples advice, your picking out the bad points. As Fusion says, you've gotta fall into a group (everyone does), so find out where other people with the same interests as you go. Gaming can't be your only interest, and if it is, I'm sure you've always wanted to try new stuff out.
Ok I will try, but how did you guys make your friends?Zimmer wrote:
Another obstacle put in the way of nothing. I get the feeling you DON'T want to change. I get the feeling you actually like having no life.
You keep shooting back with awful arguments against all our good suggestions.
I never for once suggested you go to the gym. I said SPORT, and what I meant by that is go out there and play some football, go biking, go swimming, play basketball. Do SOMETHING.
Excuses, frankly. I'm definetely not gym material. In fact, I'm the skinniest guy in my year by a long shot. But I still go, and I feel great afterwards. You should do the same.Dr.Red-Eye wrote:
Anyway, im not the right type of build to go to the gym.
Yes, a load of weirdosThe Sheriff wrote:
But seriously, I met loads of new friends and that when I started at Tesco.
QFTkptk92 wrote:
Yes, a load of weirdosThe Sheriff wrote:
But seriously, I met loads of new friends and that when I started at Tesco.
By your standards yes, they are weird, people that like to have fun, go out, get smashed etc.kptk92 wrote:
Yes, a load of weirdosThe Sheriff wrote:
But seriously, I met loads of new friends and that when I started at Tesco.
Gtfo nerd.
Go some place where you're pretty sure people will have the same interests. Talk to them about it. Then see if they have other interests the same as you. If they do great, if they don't, it's all cool. Confidence is a big part to making friends. If you lack confidence, you won't talk to anyone, but if you're over confident people will think your a prick.Dr.Red-Eye wrote:
Ok I will try, but how did you guys make your friends?Zimmer wrote:
Another obstacle put in the way of nothing. I get the feeling you DON'T want to change. I get the feeling you actually like having no life.
You keep shooting back with awful arguments against all our good suggestions.
I never for once suggested you go to the gym. I said SPORT, and what I meant by that is go out there and play some football, go biking, go swimming, play basketball. Do SOMETHING.
No your all one big family I bet your incest ewwwwwwThe Sheriff wrote:
By your standards yes, they are weird, people that like to have fun, go out, get smashed etc.kptk92 wrote:
Yes, a load of weirdosThe Sheriff wrote:
But seriously, I met loads of new friends and that when I started at Tesco.
Gtfo nerd.
How would I gain confidence, cuz i cant talk to anyone I dont already know.
Exactly man. That's why I was saying do some press ups or something too boost confidence.ShadowsStrike wrote:
Go some place where you're pretty sure people will have the same interests. Talk to them about it. Then see if they have other interests the same as you. If they do great, if they don't, it's all cool. Confidence is a big part to making friends. If you lack confidence, you won't talk to anyone, but if you're over confident people will think your a prick.Dr.Red-Eye wrote:
Ok I will try, but how did you guys make your friends?Zimmer wrote:
Another obstacle put in the way of nothing. I get the feeling you DON'T want to change. I get the feeling you actually like having no life.
You keep shooting back with awful arguments against all our good suggestions.
I never for once suggested you go to the gym. I said SPORT, and what I meant by that is go out there and play some football, go biking, go swimming, play basketball. Do SOMETHING.
What are your hobbys outside gaming?
More importantly what music are you into?
I skate a bit, but im not in the skater category, i dont wear gay baggy clothes or anything like that. I like techno
You ask how to make friends? Just talk to them, if they talk back and if this continuely happens you could consider them a friend, then ask for a phone number and maybe organise something, watch a film, play football at the park, ANYTHING!!!!
You say you aren't gym type, So what about Fat people, who want to loose weight, I don't think they think they can not go to the gym because they are not Gym material.
I have a fucking rant at you. I think tis utter BS that you have gone to school for 5 years, and you say you only have 3 friends. They why the fuck do you not try to do something with them? Are you too scared to go into the sunlight incase you get sun burnt or to cross the road because you can get run over. ok you choice. You have had more than enough advice on your lack of "life." And you reject them all.
Stop sitting here on a forum and moaning, get out and change your life if you are not happy about it!
You say you aren't gym type, So what about Fat people, who want to loose weight, I don't think they think they can not go to the gym because they are not Gym material.
I have a fucking rant at you. I think tis utter BS that you have gone to school for 5 years, and you say you only have 3 friends. They why the fuck do you not try to do something with them? Are you too scared to go into the sunlight incase you get sun burnt or to cross the road because you can get run over. ok you choice. You have had more than enough advice on your lack of "life." And you reject them all.
Stop sitting here on a forum and moaning, get out and change your life if you are not happy about it!
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Learn English, motherfucker.kptk92 wrote:
No your all one big family I bet your incest ewwwwwwThe Sheriff wrote:
By your standards yes, they are weird, people that like to have fun, go out, get smashed etc.kptk92 wrote:
Yes, a load of weirdos
Gtfo nerd.
And no, unfortunately I am not the product of an incestual relationship.
Go join a swim team. Preferably a summer league, as there are more noobs there. Usually doesnt matter if youre slow, youll get better if you stick with it. On the bright side of being slow, in the teams Ive been in, the girls were slow, so if you were just a tad slower than them, you get a great view for the entire practice . If you dont like racing, you could also try water polo; it is harder though.
Doesn't matter if you don't wear the same clothes. Take your skateboard into town, find a skate park. Hang out there, talk to people, give them a smile and ask what's up.Dr.Red-Eye wrote:
I skate a bit, but im not in the skater category, i dont wear gay baggy clothes or anything like that. I like techno
Just FORCE yourself to do it. You will be so happy... these are the most important years of your life. Don't throw them away.
Go to the gym. It really doesn't matter what build you are...Learn to play an instrument! Fucking hell, starting/joining a band is a great way to meet new people. Get a job as Sheriff said. Pretty much anything outside of your room playing games all day is going to require INTERACTION. If you can't interact, your gonna have a shit life and die lonely. Simple as that.Dr.Red-Eye wrote:
How would I gain confidence, cuz i cant talk to anyone I dont already know.
Just saw your post at how I wish I had a GF.
Just GTFO of your house, talk to god damn people at school. From the sounds of it you are one of those people who do not talk to anyone at school and wonder why you have no friends. Well if that is the case I am not surprised.
Or you are an attention seeking bastard who just wants attention.
Just GTFO of your house, talk to god damn people at school. From the sounds of it you are one of those people who do not talk to anyone at school and wonder why you have no friends. Well if that is the case I am not surprised.
Or you are an attention seeking bastard who just wants attention.
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Well here is what I can gather from this thread:
You don't have any of hardly any self confidence. To get this you need to do something.
You have a list of things to do to do this. Press ups before bed. Go running. Go to the gym (If you tell the doctor you are really in fit and want to go to the gym, he can sign a form to get your a free gym pass) go to where people with similar intrests as you hang out and talk to them (aka a skate park)
You sound like you have alot of free time if you wake up and game all day?... have you left school yeah?
Get a job even if it's really shitty like Tesco... you will meet really cool people your age.
Just get out there and do it. Don't think about it... Just do it and you will be glad.
You don't have any of hardly any self confidence. To get this you need to do something.
You have a list of things to do to do this. Press ups before bed. Go running. Go to the gym (If you tell the doctor you are really in fit and want to go to the gym, he can sign a form to get your a free gym pass) go to where people with similar intrests as you hang out and talk to them (aka a skate park)
You sound like you have alot of free time if you wake up and game all day?... have you left school yeah?
Get a job even if it's really shitty like Tesco... you will meet really cool people your age.
Just get out there and do it. Don't think about it... Just do it and you will be glad.
I cant help that I cant talk to poepl, I can say hey whats up but after the about 3 mins the convo dies and ends, and then I have to make an excuse to leave before we sit together in hours of awkwarness.
Anyway thanks for the advice, which I clearly dont know how to use. im a fuckin cunt whos wasting the best fucking years of my life in a fucking chair.
Thnaks Fusion. I might try some of your ideas when i gain the confidence.
Anyway thanks for the advice, which I clearly dont know how to use. im a fuckin cunt whos wasting the best fucking years of my life in a fucking chair.
Thnaks Fusion. I might try some of your ideas when i gain the confidence.
Fuck you.White-Fusion wrote:
Get a job even if it's really shitty like Tesco...
Define the term "having a life".