No/Yes wrote:
I call shenaninginsGodFather wrote:
Eh, parents see it as a bullshit argument to get permission to fuck eachother whilst at the young age of 15OrangeHound wrote:
Advice from me, the wise dad of a young girl: Host a dinner ... all parents and girlfriend in attendance. Talk this out.
Us dads know what the deal is, and we are just looking for (a) reasonable boundaries and (b) trust. Doing this, by the way, demonstrates your maturity and trustworthiness (which is what is ESSENTIAL in this situation). But, continuing to sneak around and bypass the parental units speaks of immaturity and untrustworthiness.
I really need to start that "Dear OrangeHound" column to help you guys out with life issues.
If they "Banned" them from the house, the parents obviously feel strongly about this
And my plan:
Get a friar to secretly marry you whilst you tell your parents your at confession.
Get a close friend to help you sneak in her room to have crazy passionate sex.
Leave the next morning, and go chill with your friends, and get in a fight and kill her cousin
Then when you get perma banned from the city, have your gf fake her death, and then make a plan to sneak off and live the rest of your lives in happiness.
...
profit.
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Kill the parents.
Yeah, well obviously you have tons of experience at the parental level so your insight is more valuable than mine.GodFather wrote:
Eh, parents see it as a bullshit argument to get permission to fuck eachother whilst at the young age of 15
If they "Banned" them from the house, the parents obviously feel strongly about this
The bottom line is that what teens imagine is going on in adult's heads is ABSOLUTELY wrong ...
Mattress store.
please continueJaMrulezass wrote:
One on top of another, on the bed. : ) Mom walks in, shall I continue? XDceslayer23 wrote:
How did you get banned?
hax?
people are all assuming you were having sex. but you havent even said if you were naked or not
moar story please
Yes I speak from experience, from the kids POV though.OrangeHound wrote:
Yeah, well obviously you have tons of experience at the parental level so your insight is more valuable than mine.GodFather wrote:
Eh, parents see it as a bullshit argument to get permission to fuck eachother whilst at the young age of 15
If they "Banned" them from the house, the parents obviously feel strongly about this
The bottom line is that what teens imagine is going on in adult's heads is ABSOLUTELY wrong ...
Seriously though, if you were phoned by another kids parents, that your daughter was caught, on his bed, with him on-top fervently involved in shenanigans of the sexual type... Now, you felt strong enough to bar the kid from your house, and accept your daughters ban from his house.
A while after, the boy invites all parents to a dinner meeting (talk about awkward tbh) and the main discussion, why you are gathered, is a debate as to why this kid should be allowed to be at your house, and why she should be allowed at his
Would you really take him seriously? (From the point of view of the parents, im sure your a cool dad, but this girls/his parents BANNED them from each others house)
I mean from my pov, I wouldn't do the dinner meeting, wayy too awkward, and the whole being scared of her parents, since they're already pissed at me and think im just trying to get in their daughters pants
The simplest thing (from my POV, call me a stupid ignorant teenager or whatever) is to just continue to chill with her (chill doesnt = sex)at other locations (Party, function, park etc.)
Actually, im going to drive up to the park tomorrow to chill with my gf, her parents are really strict on her and wouldnt let us be together
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But, speaking on another level, from my experience, and my brothers experience, strict never works (well not never but you know)
If parents keep their kids from parties, boyfriends / girlfriends any "normal" experience (Drugs / alcohol exempt) once the kids break loose, get their own place, they tend to go wild. Sex, drugs, parties etc. Get what they never had tbh.
3 of my brothers friends (girls) who lived in million dollar homes, whos parents "bound" them died of drug overdoses (heroin)
If I ever have kids I wont restrict who they date unless its a cereal killer...
/end parent rant
my parents let me do whatever i wanted (for the most part). look how i turned out
yeh....Eye-GiZzLe wrote:
my parents let me do whatever i wanted (for the most part). look how i turned out
Im a cereal killerGodFather wrote:
If I ever have kids I wont restrict who they date unless its a cereal killer...
I Eat cereal FOR BREAKFAST
Im surprised no one has brought up the line about how he is trying to show off about secksy time at 15.
Meh.
Meh.
Condoms? Park?JaMrulezass wrote:
I'm 15 and haha yeah, I udnerstand why both of our moms did what they did so I'm not surpised.
But thanks for the advice guys, condoms no.1, and the park seems like a good idea right now.
Do you plan on fucking her in the puddle of piss at the bottom of the slide?
self quote. Don't you have a friend that will loan you his room for an hour or so?max wrote:
friends house?
once upon a midnight dreary, while i pron surfed, weak and weary, over many a strange and spurious site of ' hot xxx galore'. While i clicked my fav'rite bookmark, suddenly there came a warning, and my heart was filled with mourning, mourning for my dear amour, " 'Tis not possible!", i muttered, " give me back my free hardcore!"..... quoth the server, 404.
Pics of GF or no advice tbh.
#rekt
I eat brocoli for breakfastNappy wrote:
Im a cereal killerGodFather wrote:
If I ever have kids I wont restrict who they date unless its a cereal killer...
I Eat cereal FOR BREAKFAST
Magpie, you're so hardcore.
Clothes on but give us another quarter of an hour or so then yeah clothes would be off.Nappy wrote:
please continueJaMrulezass wrote:
One on top of another, on the bed. : ) Mom walks in, shall I continue? XDceslayer23 wrote:
How did you get banned?
hax?
people are all assuming you were having sex. but you havent even said if you were naked or not
moar story please
But speaking of showing off, I'm not, I'm just trying hard to find some private area, plus, e-show off is for people with no life, I mean come on.
My brother told me about back of cinema though, hes had multiple blowjobs there and a movie no-one watches always work.
I'm not ready for 3 years of underage, Maybe give it half a year and I will. I sure do want it, but I'm not ready to live with negative consequences.
And guys, grow up, pics or didnt happen is what you say in kindergarten.
Again, your comments underscore my point. Yes, I would take him seriously. Why? Let me put this in perspective. First, my little girl is not going to marry this hormone-enraged guy. She is just learning the ins and outs of dating and male-female relationships. (Yeah, I know ... it's all "real" love and serious ... please, you won't understand this until you are at least 19). So, second, I don't want her to screw up her life with either a pregnancy or a persistent STD ... what's more, if I have some religious bent on this, I want her to preserve her innocence and virginity (yeah, I know the reality).GodFather wrote:
Yes I speak from experience, from the kids POV though.OrangeHound wrote:
The bottom line is that what teens imagine is going on in adult's heads is ABSOLUTELY wrong ...
Would you really take him seriously? (From the point of view of the parents, im sure your a cool dad, but this girls/his parents BANNED them from each others house)
I mean from my pov, I wouldn't do the dinner meeting, wayy too awkward, and the whole being scared of her parents, since they're already pissed at me and think im just trying to get in their daughters pants
This means I'm looking for her to date guys that are mature and trustworthy, and hopefully know how to set some boundaries - some meeting with the parents develops this sort of respect for the kid (even an apology would go a long way toward changing the situation). Discussions about sex are not awkward and uncomfortable for adults ... we are way beyond "Oh look, a titty." while we salivate like Homer Simpson over a doughnut.
The absolute OPPOSITE of what I'm looking for is an immature, disrespectful, and conniving guy.
I know that there is going to be an attempt to sneak out and have the secret rendezvous. If my daughter likes danger and the bad boys - or if she has a bad relationship with her father - then this might work. Otherwise, she'll probably move on.
Strict is a short-term solution to a parenting crisis ... but, yeah, in the long run it will usually backfire.GodFather wrote:
strict never works (well not never but you know)
If you're anywhere near Kent, I'll rent you my flat for £15 a day while I'm at work.
Not even kidding
Not even kidding
+Nappy wrote:
please continueJaMrulezass wrote:
One on top of another, on the bed. : ) Mom walks in, shall I continue? XDceslayer23 wrote:
How did you get banned?
hax?
people are all assuming you were having sex. but you havent even said if you were naked or not
moar story please
Pics or it didn't happen
Not totally wrong. I got kicked out of my ex's house after her parents caught us having sex (worst sex ever, imo). They calmed down later, but were too proud to invite me back (I was in Sweden - was kicked out to a friend's place).OrangeHound wrote:
Yeah, well obviously you have tons of experience at the parental level so your insight is more valuable than mine.
The bottom line is that what teens imagine is going on in adult's heads is ABSOLUTELY wrong ...
First they grounded her, then they calmed down and let her come see me. I think parents have a tendency to panic in those situations. They gave me a chance, and found I was not that guy who tallies every girl he sleeps with, and were relieved. It's over protection, a lot of times, because you want to know what's going on in your kid's life. In most cases, parents will leave you alone if they trust you enough (which you already said).
-konfusion
Not awkward to adults, no, but talking to your Girlfriends parents about sex, with their daughter? Yes, awkward.OrangeHound wrote:
Again, your comments underscore my point. Yes, I would take him seriously. Why? Let me put this in perspective. First, my little girl is not going to marry this hormone-enraged guy. She is just learning the ins and outs of dating and male-female relationships. (Yeah, I know ... it's all "real" love and serious ... please, you won't understand this until you are at least 19). So, second, I don't want her to screw up her life with either a pregnancy or a persistent STD ... what's more, if I have some religious bent on this, I want her to preserve her innocence and virginity (yeah, I know the reality).GodFather wrote:
Yes I speak from experience, from the kids POV though.OrangeHound wrote:
The bottom line is that what teens imagine is going on in adult's heads is ABSOLUTELY wrong ...
Would you really take him seriously? (From the point of view of the parents, im sure your a cool dad, but this girls/his parents BANNED them from each others house)
I mean from my pov, I wouldn't do the dinner meeting, wayy too awkward, and the whole being scared of her parents, since they're already pissed at me and think im just trying to get in their daughters pants
This means I'm looking for her to date guys that are mature and trustworthy, and hopefully know how to set some boundaries - some meeting with the parents develops this sort of respect for the kid (even an apology would go a long way toward changing the situation). Discussions about sex are not awkward and uncomfortable for adults ... we are way beyond "Oh look, a titty." while we salivate like Homer Simpson over a doughnut.
The absolute OPPOSITE of what I'm looking for is an immature, disrespectful, and conniving guy.
I know that there is going to be an attempt to sneak out and have the secret rendezvous. If my daughter likes danger and the bad boys - or if she has a bad relationship with her father - then this might work. Otherwise, she'll probably move on.Strict is a short-term solution to a parenting crisis ... but, yeah, in the long run it will usually backfire.GodFather wrote:
strict never works (well not never but you know)
But where your coming from, the understanding and all, but most parents (to me at least) arent like that, most parents disregard whatever I say and dont take me seriously because of the age.
I mean again, your looking at it from your POV, if they were using, "strict" as a temporary fix to the problem, they would have probably said something like, "You guys cant be together until I talk to his/her parents" but what im hearing is, "You two are to never see each other again."
I think i might have to back out of our discussion though Orange, because really its straying from the main topic...
self quote
GodFather wrote:
Park
So I guess he's banned from Walmart too now?
Nobody should really have sex b4 marriage, things get so fucked up if you don't. But I'm also having trouble with the wait...TBH so long as it's not penatrative it's...."Ok" in a way.JaMrulezass wrote:
Clothes on but give us another quarter of an hour or so then yeah clothes would be off.
But speaking of showing off, I'm not, I'm just trying hard to find some private area, plus, e-show off is for people with no life, I mean come on.
My brother told me about back of cinema though, hes had multiple blowjobs there and a movie no-one watches always work.
I'm not ready for 3 years of underage, Maybe give it half a year and I will. I sure do want it, but I'm not ready to live with negative consequences.
And guys, grow up, pics or didnt happen is what you say in kindergarten.
Aside the fact that a cop will walk in on you or an angry parent.JaMrulezass wrote:
I'm 15 and haha yeah, I udnerstand why both of our moms did what they did so I'm not surpised.
But thanks for the advice guys, condoms no.1, and the park seems like a good idea right now.
You were banned and you weren't enen having sex with her? Overly strict parents imo.
If you want to start seeing her again, you might want to sort things out with her parents first. Talking to them is better than lying to them imo.
I like Orangehounds suggestion, It sounds like a good plan. Honesty always prevails.
If you want to start seeing her again, you might want to sort things out with her parents first. Talking to them is better than lying to them imo.
I like Orangehounds suggestion, It sounds like a good plan. Honesty always prevails.
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