Oh man, those words are pure wisdom.Parker wrote:
sometimes life isnt fair, thats just how it works.
May you do well and get tru all that shit like the strong man you are.Parker wrote:
sometimes life isnt fair, thats just how it works.
Well, if this is ghey i guess we gotta be ghey together because it did the same to me, not the first thing Parker post that make me thing and feel all weird.ShadowsStrike wrote:
I may sound gay but Parker man, that brought a lump to my the back of my throat. I can only imagine how that must have felt. I think your a clever guy, and judging you soley on these forums, I reckon everything will work out for your. Good luck buddy
what it comes down to at the end of the day?iNeedUrFace4Soup wrote:
The question is, why won't they let you be together? What would make them so stubborn that they can't accept it?
Holy Fucking shit man. What a couple of assholes. I'm really sorry to hear that Parker. That sad. Not just the situation, but her parents... Wow, what a bunch of miserable people. Glad you didn't kick daddy's ass. Hang in there, man. Time heals.Parker wrote:
what it comes down to at the end of the day?iNeedUrFace4Soup wrote:
The question is, why won't they let you be together? What would make them so stubborn that they can't accept it?
a difference in social class.
she came from money. i came from a single mother who worked two jobs to get me what i needed.
her parents showed love and validation through items...fendi, coach, gucci, dolce etc.
they disliked the fact that i was "blue collar". the fact that i own two businesses at 26 years old means nothing.
they attacked our very existence. when her parents found out we were back together, her mother punched her in the fucking ear....her brother told her that she was no longer considered part of the family. her father wouldnt even give her the courtesy of a conversation.
i cant even begin to express the amount of turmoil they put her through. it got to the point where i had to take the phone from her, cause her mother was making her ball by the nasty things she was saying. that only compounded the problem, as any time i got involved her father would try to "man up", and threaten to kick my ass.
i dont fear an ass whooping, but i do fear the ramifications of me beating her father.
it just wasnt a way to raise a family. people should not have to work so hard to be happy.....so we arent.
they win. shes moving to new york to focus on her career. she could give half a fuck about a family now......so im sure they feel fucking awesome.
anyway...thanks guys.
it helps to not only spew my shit on here, but to know that i can get advice as well.
They may have money, but they are seriously lacking class.Parker wrote:
what it comes down to at the end of the day?
a difference in social class.
she came from money. i came from a single mother who worked two jobs to get me what i needed.
her parents showed love and validation through items...fendi, coach, gucci, dolce etc.
they disliked the fact that i was "blue collar". the fact that i own two businesses at 26 years old means nothing.
they attacked our very existence. when her parents found out we were back together, her mother punched her in the fucking ear....her brother told her that she was no longer considered part of the family. her father wouldnt even give her the courtesy of a conversation.
i cant even begin to express the amount of turmoil they put her through. it got to the point where i had to take the phone from her, cause her mother was making her ball by the nasty things she was saying. that only compounded the problem, as any time i got involved her father would try to "man up", and threaten to kick my ass.
i dont fear an ass whooping, but i do fear the ramifications of me beating her father.
it just wasnt a way to raise a family. people should not have to work so hard to be happy.....so we arent.
they win. shes moving to new york to focus on her career. she could give half a fuck about a family now......so im sure they feel fucking awesome.
anyway...thanks guys.
it helps to not only spew my shit on here, but to know that i can get advice as well.
I don't think I've ever agreed with Zimmer more.Zimmer wrote:
Life is meant to be trudged over, not pranced over. It's hard most of the time, and when it isn't, those moments are moments of pure bliss.
I really do hope everything works out for the best.
Thats just pathetic, really sorry to hear about all that.what it comes down to at the end of the day?
a difference in social class.
Exactly. Their family sounds like a bunch of douchebags, as if this was like 15th century. While I do not know you much, you sound like a nice bloke from all the posts I read.Dilbert_X wrote:
Thats just pathetic, really sorry to hear about all that.what it comes down to at the end of the day?
a difference in social class.
Life is short, people should be free to enjoy it.
ya, and i guess i could cut the throats of everyone who made our lives difficult, as well.wensleydale8 wrote:
but honestly if your parents and her parents didnt like you being together why dont you go and live your life together somewhere else they cant stop you if you loved her and she loved you why didnt you consider that.
