This.TheAussieReaper wrote:
Maybe she needs a friend now more than ever. Her life isn't over because of drug use.
She would need someone to talk to, 'cause all those feelings have to go somewhere...
She would need someone to talk to, 'cause all those feelings have to go somewhere...
Jesus man, your an idiot.
oh lolSir Schmoopy wrote:
Exactly my point.RDMC wrote:
No it doesnt. Period.Sir Schmoopy wrote:
Drugs: Ruins the life of anyone who trys them. No exceptions.
K........
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Its not really bragging in this case.Hurricane2k9 wrote:
the fact that you brag about that over the internet leads me to believe you're completely full of shitSealXo wrote:
your not going to be friends with a girl because she blazes? and youve never even done it?
PS
I hit it, I drink, i have a 3.8 and im amazing at sports.
youre jealous
hang yourself
edit: even if it's the truth, it simply shows your complete insecurity due to having to show off to people you'll never meet or know in real life
my order for you to hang yourself still stands though
Believe me, I hate people who brag about smoking weed as much as the next guy... But when there is a thread of people going on about how smoking weed will destroy your life its not really bragging to give an example of some one who is still successful and smokes weed.
I have a friend who smokes weed regularly and he's about to get his doctorate / PhD in chemistry with an A+. Just throwing it in for consideration
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There are honestly A LOT of people out there that smoke weed. You mostly only hear about the burn outs and sad stories because they are the only ones to flaunt it. The successful ones need to keep it quite and really wont advertise much.max wrote:
I have a friend who smokes weed regularly and he's about to get his doctorate / PhD in chemistry with an A+. Just throwing it in for consideration
Its amazing though as a pot smoker how many random people you find out also smoke pot...
Guys generally never hold grudges for long. You should go back to her. Life is a lesson, learn it and move onto the next. She doesn't really deserve to be fucked over like that. We were all young once, and many did it. Look how some potheads turned out - successful businessmen etc. Don't let that ruin a friendship. They are for life. Don't walk away when you might regret it.
i like smoking and booze
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What the fuck kind of Chicken-shit bullshit school do you go to where if you get into trouble off a teacher for smoking in the gym you lose all your friends? Even if you don't get more friends for it, you shouldn't lose you ones you had. What the fuck does it matter to them if SHE got into trouble? Lol.
Also, Whilst I'm not going to suggest you give smoking Cannabis a try (Parker will make me suffer), Alcohol? Cigarettes? We've all been through school and if you go to parties this is what you do to kick back and relax. Live a little for fuck sake.
Also if shes hot then just nail her and stop all this "lets be friends but on one condition live a health freak lifestyle" , "I'm not your friend anymore", "I wanna get back in with you" pussying around and tell her straight. If she smokes near you and it bother you that much as to not speak to her, move a few paces to the side...
Also, Whilst I'm not going to suggest you give smoking Cannabis a try (Parker will make me suffer), Alcohol? Cigarettes? We've all been through school and if you go to parties this is what you do to kick back and relax. Live a little for fuck sake.
Also if shes hot then just nail her and stop all this "lets be friends but on one condition live a health freak lifestyle" , "I'm not your friend anymore", "I wanna get back in with you" pussying around and tell her straight. If she smokes near you and it bother you that much as to not speak to her, move a few paces to the side...
Last edited by jord (2008-10-20 10:59:33)
Down here you don't get offered cigs or weed,that shit costs too much,kids spend their lunch money to buy a pack of cigarettes.Even if you ask for one cig,they'll just say to you:"Fuck off,buy your own,that shit costs too much!"So I've never had problems with that.
Everyone "2se's" each other up at my work. Disgusting tbh, sharing fags with strangers...
Be her only friend. She will get worse if she winds up having no friends like you said. The cigs, the drinking and smoking weed will all be her best friends since she is lonely. Do you want her to /wrists ? No you don't and I hope you wouldn't want her to do that. She needs moral support and not being someones friend because they have a drug habit is bad. It can make there problems a lot worse. "If your embaresed to be around her well then that's a different story."
Last edited by Obiwan (2008-10-20 11:49:51)
Why are people talking as if she's selling herself for crack on street corners...
If you can be responsible with it, alcohol and marijuana are hardly substances that will ruin someone's life. It's not like we're talking about meth or heroin here.
Also, if you're not willing to be her friend after she made a mistake and is apologizing for them, then what kind of friend are you in the first place? People make mistakes. She obviously learned from it. Sorry, but if you're acting too good for her now, it makes you come off as a dick and a fairweather friend.
Also, if you're not willing to be her friend after she made a mistake and is apologizing for them, then what kind of friend are you in the first place? People make mistakes. She obviously learned from it. Sorry, but if you're acting too good for her now, it makes you come off as a dick and a fairweather friend.
Don't lend her money
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To the people coming off as getting caught no friends etc. It's the extent to which she did it, how she changed, etc. I used to hang out with her a lot but just seeing her usually always afterschool with her new friends doing it and what it feels like someone getting destroyed isn't right.
I also always tried to help her get off it, she just didn't listen she'd stop maybe for a day or two then, back into old lifestyle.
I know people who do this shit but not afterschool everyday the occasional hit of the week, parties, and weekends. It's more of the bestfriend, seeing someone's life just disappear in front of you type. You could always tell she smoked all her clothes now smelled like shit, not the great shit she used to smell like.
If anything I'm more comfortable with someone doing the occasional hit idk bout you guys, smoking cigs is just disgusting, it's real addictive and you smell horrible etc. Alcohol isn't too bad (yet) so thank god.
I'm starting to hang with her in school more with my other friends. She seems to be almost the same when we're all together again, still a bit strange but that will cahnge.
But thanks to the guys who actually helped. I owe you guys one.
I also always tried to help her get off it, she just didn't listen she'd stop maybe for a day or two then, back into old lifestyle.
I know people who do this shit but not afterschool everyday the occasional hit of the week, parties, and weekends. It's more of the bestfriend, seeing someone's life just disappear in front of you type. You could always tell she smoked all her clothes now smelled like shit, not the great shit she used to smell like.
If anything I'm more comfortable with someone doing the occasional hit idk bout you guys, smoking cigs is just disgusting, it's real addictive and you smell horrible etc. Alcohol isn't too bad (yet) so thank god.
I'm starting to hang with her in school more with my other friends. She seems to be almost the same when we're all together again, still a bit strange but that will cahnge.
But thanks to the guys who actually helped. I owe you guys one.
Yes, I'm glad you think you know my situation all so well.DesertFox- wrote:
When my dad had a heart attack, I visited him. When my dad nearly died during surgery a few years later, I worked on a puzzle. When my maternal grandmother was hospitalized with cancer and died shortly thereafter, I visited her and carried on as best I could; drugs aren't even an option. I'd say that's quite uncalled for (especially the dog part).Poseidon wrote:
This thread (not the OP, just the replies to it) just makes me fucking sick.
I've smoked weed a couple of times in my life. First time was after my dad's heart attack, second time was when my dog died (which happened within 2 months of each other). I don't think those were uncalled for considering I was stressed out beyond belief, and simply needed something to calm me down and relax me. Hardly doing it for fun, hardly doing it to look cool...just doing it to chill myself out so that I wouldn't end up having a nervous breakdown. If you see anything wrong with that, you're a very twisted individual.
In order for me to even start smoking---never even mind any other drug---I'd have to be like one of those guys in WWII movies where they grab a cig and someone inquires "I thought you don't smoke" ushering in the reply "I don't" who take up smoking as a result of actual stress.
Short fact is, you don't, and fuck you for trying to compare. I'm sorry about what happened to your family as well, but don't try to relate and act like you're some superior person because you got through without something to help. Last year was probably, if not the worst year of my entire life, and my dad having his heart attack was just added onto it. I needed something to calm me down since God knows I couldn't get any help elsewhere, and wanted to prevent myself from doing anything drastic. It worked.
Especially the dog part? Yes, when a faithful companion of 8 years who never left my side while I was home dies in front of my very own eyes, it's "quite uncalled for". Wow. Reeeeeeeally?
It's not these events alone, it's them combined together. If these had happened on their own, I'd be okay most likely and wouldn't have to resort to smoking weed, but they didn't.
Fucking hell.
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Yeah smoking weed is a serious addiction problem, watch out you might overdose.MadKatter wrote:
Mmmmkay. Rationalize however you please.Shaguart wrote:
OH sorry i guess i cant attepmt to make people laugh at my picture... It was one of my more interesting pictrues and i figured it would be funny to post... BUT apperantly its not very funny because smoking is sooo bad, and i only do it becasue im mr cool right?
and next time take a bit of a closer look, and notice its not weed, but its infact a ciggarette that my brother gave me.
But don't go into a thread with a girl with a serious addiction problem and agree with potheads saying "it's no big deal".
You really can't
your lungs will quit on you before you can even pass out.
your lungs will quit on you before you can even pass out.
I know people that have changed because of weed and shit. Generally speaking I would never hold it against someone and start hating them/telling them to get off it unless it was really fucking them up. Even then, I'd be reluctant to step in unless I knew them well. For the most part, people have changed and turned against me on their own. I didn't even do shit. So fuck them.
Shitty existence? That's a pretty bold comment.Ty wrote:
Another not-so-serious suggestion that you can choose to ignore is this: widen your horizons. No alcohol? No nothing? You're going to have a pretty shitty existance if you avoid everything that could possibly be bad for you. Live a little dude!
I don't smoke, never have. I don't drink, never have. I don't do drugs and I never have. I never will do any of that shit.
My existence isn't shitty. I have a girlfriend who I'm so in love with, and who loves me back the same. I'm doing well education wise, and I will have a great career as of it. I go out clubbing with my friends and have great fun. I go to parties and have just as much fun as anyone else there.
If you honestly think life is shitty without any of that crap infesting your body, you're deluded.
Last edited by FFLink13 (2008-10-20 14:54:31)
If I could go out and have as much fun whilst being completely sober/not high as I would be if I was wasted/high, I'd actually like that quite alot. So in that sense, maybe I envy you, Link. On the other hand, it's still awesome.
People feel they need to be drunk to have fun, as being drunk "let's you loose" so to say (Not that I'd know, just from what others tell me).Mek-Stizzle wrote:
If I could go out and have as much fun whilst being completely sober/not high as I would be if I was wasted/high, I'd actually like that quite alot. So in that sense, maybe I envy you, Link. On the other hand, it's still awesome.
Honestly, I wouldn't be able to let loose and have fun too if everyone around me wasn't drunk, though