every time i create a lobby, when i attempt to start the game, it always hosts my game locally. i don't have very good upload, so it's pretty bad for all the other players. i tried asking on the steam forums, but i can't break through the massive levels of retard over there so no one understands what i'm trying to say. they keep telling me to forward ports from the router, but i DONT want to host the server. i want my game to only pick dedicated public hosts... is there a way to force it?
