see doc, get prescribed xanax, eat like an american
you weigh ~50kg and you're 188cm tall. that is not good i'm the same height and i'm 68kg and i think i'm to skinny
eat till your absolutely stuffed during breakfast
but yeh go for the doc, i got a mate who is 6'3 and about your weight and has started eating normally again recently because of a shrink and a doc, they know their stuff
but yeh go for the doc, i got a mate who is 6'3 and about your weight and has started eating normally again recently because of a shrink and a doc, they know their stuff
Blade4509 wrote:
You could stop being diagnosed on a gaming forum and go see a doctor. Just sayin.
You could start reading an op like you're meant to. Just sayinSEREVENT wrote:
I'm not asking anyone to diagnose me so inb4 bf2s is not your doctor... because i'm going see if theres anyone who can help at my college tomorrow and if not i'm going straight to the doctors.
And no i've never had any food related incidents in my life... i'm going to see one of the school counselors tomorrow so i guess i'll know whats wrong with me pretty soon.
I've tried that but i can't get around it like that because its exactly the same if i know i'm going out.belldawg wrote:
eat till your absolutely stuffed during breakfast
thanks for all the advice
Dude, before you go to see the counselors, try to remember as much as possible about those situations described.
Are there similarities?
Where are the differences?
What is the timeframe in which it happens?
What exactly happens?
Pay attention also to insignificant things.
All the best!
Are there similarities?
Where are the differences?
What is the timeframe in which it happens?
What exactly happens?
Pay attention also to insignificant things.
All the best!
Yeah, whenever i have to go out somewhere that i don't normally do (basically not college) where as long as i eat everything exactly the same so for lunch i have to eat an apple and a sausage roll (maybe one and a half if i'm feeling more comfortable. Whenever go out any other time (not often) i can eat fine during the day... if i'm at home that is. Then about 3 hours before (if its at night/i'm awake in the morning) i feel nervous about it, then when i went to a party last week i had dinner literally 10 minutes before i was leaving and i managed to force down 1 mouthful of pasta.Sisco10 wrote:
Are there similarities?
It doesn't didn't happen with family (like going to a resturant) but now it does (but not as bad)Where are the differences?
I feel sick/queasy and i can't let anything down and even though i'm so hungry i just feel as though i'm full, i can go an entire day without eating anything.What exactly happens?
And this is just the eating in public thing but then theres the other stuff. Thanks for you're help
I´m no expert, but it sounds stress related as someone mentioned earlier. The real problem would be to find the reason for that stress.SEREVENT wrote:
Yeah, whenever i have to go out somewhere that i don't normally do (basically not college) where as long as i eat everything exactly the same so for lunch i have to eat an apple and a sausage roll (maybe one and a half if i'm feeling more comfortable. Whenever go out any other time (not often) i can eat fine during the day... if i'm at home that is. Then about 3 hours before (if its at night/i'm awake in the morning) i feel nervous about it, then when i went to a party last week i had dinner literally 10 minutes before i was leaving and i managed to force down 1 mouthful of pasta.Sisco10 wrote:
Are there similarities?It doesn't didn't happen with family (like going to a resturant) but now it does (but not as bad)Where are the differences?I feel sick/queasy and i can't let anything down and even though i'm so hungry i just feel as though i'm full, i can go an entire day without eating anything.What exactly happens?
And this is just the eating in public thing but then theres the other stuff. Thanks for you're help
What might help is a regular eating schedule. Eating the same time every day. Routine brings security.
Anyways, I´m confident that you get a handle of the situation, you seem quite open and okay with it and you realised you had to do something.
Keep us updated if you´re comfortabel with it.
I eat in a routine right down to the same people. And for stress, i've got no idea what that means but thats what the counselors for i guess...
Good with the routine.SEREVENT wrote:
I eat in a routine right down to the same people. And for stress, i've got no idea what that means but thats what the counselors for i guess...
Stress describes a state of arousal or anxiety, usually in a negative way. Stress isn´t necessarily a bad thing, but it can trigger a shitload of adverse effects, many of which manifest in ways often not directly correlated.
All gibberish aside, your problems with eating are most likely caused by an overreaction that is rooted in something else. But you´re right, that´s what the counselors are for, no good use doing an evaluation over the internet.
Hope I helped a bit though
sounds like anxiety? comfort at home, alien food in publix. lack of food means less nutients. so a multivitamin would help
you deserve the food ..you neeeed the food eat eat. mebbe it's time to change up what foods you are eating.. mebbe this food you try to eat has gotten boring and you need to spice up the palate mebbe mebbe mebbe?
need the juice to power the battery. juicez.
you deserve the food ..you neeeed the food eat eat. mebbe it's time to change up what foods you are eating.. mebbe this food you try to eat has gotten boring and you need to spice up the palate mebbe mebbe mebbe?
need the juice to power the battery. juicez.
what the hell did i just readKimmmmmmmmmmmm wrote:
sounds like anxiety? comfort at home, alien food in publix. lack of food means less nutients. so a multivitamin would help
you deserve the food ..you neeeed the food eat eat. mebbe it's time to change up what foods you are eating.. mebbe this food you try to eat has gotten boring and you need to spice up the palate mebbe mebbe mebbe?
need the juice to power the battery. juicez.
what the fuckKimmmmmmmmmmmm wrote:
sounds like anxiety? comfort at home, alien food in publix. lack of food means less nutients. so a multivitamin would help
you deserve the food ..you neeeed the food eat eat. mebbe it's time to change up what foods you are eating.. mebbe this food you try to eat has gotten boring and you need to spice up the palate mebbe mebbe mebbe?
need the juice to power the battery. juicez.
Someones been drinking it.I'm Jamesey wrote:
what the fuckKimmmmmmmmmmmm wrote:
battery. juicez.
I'd type my pc specs out all fancy again but teh mods would remove it. Again.
<3 much love to you all lol
thank you for your patience
thank you for your patience
http://forums.bf2s.com/viewtopic.php?pi … 6#p3034986Kimmmmmmmmmmmm wrote:
<3 much love to you all lol
thank you for your patience
I'd type my pc specs out all fancy again but teh mods would remove it. Again.
I've heard of this before, to varying degrees. Some people have trouble swallowing their food. Sometimes you get gnarly anxiety when eating in public and can't go through the act of eating. It's most likely either a psychological disorder or an anxiety disorder. If you eat at home, can you eat in front of your family? Does it only happen (you not being able to eat) when you are about to go out (ie. you have something else on your mind)? If it's a psychological disorder there is a trigger that is setting you off, if it's an anxiety problem it's an event or anticipation of something...you have to narrow down the conditions/triggers that are causing the problem. Good luck, tell us what your counselers recommend. And eat your veggies!
I think its best to listen to the classic words of nate dogg in this situation...
hay hay hay hay, smoke weed everyday
I went to the counselor today and she said it was an anxiety problem because its alright to eat at home but before/during going out it happens. And yeah, it does happen with family although not as bad as with friends... but not at home, like at a restaurant or something.
She said i should definitely go to the doctor (when i feel up to it) and he might prescribe me some anti depressents or something like that. And if i want i can have something called "Cognitive behavioural therapy" i think she said. But i didn't feel comfortable at all in the counselors office and im not sure i want to go again it was the most embarassing 40 minutes of my life.
She said i should definitely go to the doctor (when i feel up to it) and he might prescribe me some anti depressents or something like that. And if i want i can have something called "Cognitive behavioural therapy" i think she said. But i didn't feel comfortable at all in the counselors office and im not sure i want to go again it was the most embarassing 40 minutes of my life.
To be honest, I would wait with the anti-depressants. They are handed out too quickly nowadays and many times you can work around them.SEREVENT wrote:
I went to the counselor today and she said it was an anxiety problem because its alright to eat at home but before/during going out it happens. And yeah, it does happen with family although not as bad as with friends... but not at home, like at a restaurant or something.
She said i should definitely go to the doctor (when i feel up to it) and he might prescribe me some anti depressents or something like that. And if i want i can have something called "Cognitive behavioural therapy" i think she said. But i didn't feel comfortable at all in the counselors office and im not sure i want to go again it was the most embarassing 40 minutes of my life.
Try to find the Psychology Department at your local university or the office of some local psychologists association. They can direct you to counselors who might work better for you. It is really important that you feel cmofortable in the company of the one helping you.
Did she give you an estimate of how much sessions the therapy would take?
She didn't say he would prescribe me anything and yeah i'd rather not be taking anti-depressents because whats the point anyway if i don't like speaking to people. She recommended a charity thing called "Camms" or CAMS i haven't looked it up yet and thats where i'll speak to a psychologist who can give me more help. She's just there to talk about it with someone but i don't want to talk about something as embarrassing as this with someone i do know let alone someone i've never met. She's nice enough and everything but i don't like talking about it and she didn't say how long therapy would be, just go whenever i want to.
I can understand you being uncomfortable. It´s always tricky to talk about intimate things. Try out the Cams thing, you might find someone to open up to. Often it is easier to talk to someone unrelated than to someone close to you like family.SEREVENT wrote:
She didn't say he would prescribe me anything and yeah i'd rather not be taking anti-depressents because whats the point anyway if i don't like speaking to people. She recommended a charity thing called "Camms" or CAMS i haven't looked it up yet and thats where i'll speak to a psychologist who can give me more help. She's just there to talk about it with someone but i don't want to talk about something as embarrassing as this with someone i do know let alone someone i've never met. She's nice enough and everything but i don't like talking about it and she didn't say how long therapy would be, just go whenever i want to.
By the way, on the first talk, a good psychologist will understand if you decide not to share everything and that you just want to find out whether you two are "compatible". Take the time and liberty to try a few if possible, cause in the end it´s about you feeling good with it.
I think i said its been getting "better" somewhere here but today i went out most of the day and i could eat breakfast fine (toast and a couple of eggs) and then about 2 hours later right beore i went out i started to feel sick but that went away within 10 minutes as soon as i started thinking about it. Then all the time i was there i had the feeling i was going to be sick still, but no where near as strong or painful as when it started and i even managed to eat there as well (only 2 sausage rolls) and it got worse as i was eating but no where near as bad as before like i said.
If it's just getting better normally then that will mean i don't need to have this therapy thing? I'll have to go and see a counselor next week again since i haven't been back for a second time. I've got to say i'm quite angry and upset about this... i've practically lost 2 years living like this and now its suddenly getting better over a few weeks.
If it's just getting better normally then that will mean i don't need to have this therapy thing? I'll have to go and see a counselor next week again since i haven't been back for a second time. I've got to say i'm quite angry and upset about this... i've practically lost 2 years living like this and now its suddenly getting better over a few weeks.
Don´t take a slight getting better as a clue for overall improvement. There will be ups and downs and they might come very quick.SEREVENT wrote:
I think i said its been getting "better" somewhere here but today i went out most of the day and i could eat breakfast fine (toast and a couple of eggs) and then about 2 hours later right beore i went out i started to feel sick but that went away within 10 minutes as soon as i started thinking about it. Then all the time i was there i had the feeling i was going to be sick still, but no where near as strong or painful as when it started and i even managed to eat there as well (only 2 sausage rolls) and it got worse as i was eating but no where near as bad as before like i said.
If it's just getting better normally then that will mean i don't need to have this therapy thing? I'll have to go and see a counselor next week again since i haven't been back for a second time. I've got to say i'm quite angry and upset about this... i've practically lost 2 years living like this and now its suddenly getting better over a few weeks.
That being said, an improvement is always good, so don´t give up hope. You should keep an eye on your development in that matter though, whether you take a therapy or not.
In case you don´t take the therapy, I recommend you to at least get checked on every few months, be by your trusted doctor or the counselor.