Eifa wrote:
1927 wrote:
Eif - Im the same as him Im afraid so Im going to contradict myself. I will ask next week how you were after last weeks injury (for eg) but you wont get too much out of me on the day. I reckon this is rude, but I have warned the kids and the women thats how I am and Im not going to change now. It makes me seem uncaring but I have loads of other Kids, Women or even blokes I have to keep an eye on, so I tend to let the bad one sit over there on its own. If this makes any sence.
Id sack him off tbh, I dont know what stuff it is you have to do for him or your relationship with him but from here with what you have told us it looks like he wants to 'use' you.
Ie, he couldnt give a flying fuck last week.
Tell him your finger is fucked and you cant help him, if you think thats for the best? You dont want to jepordise your place in the team, from what I gather there isnt another GK lined up waiting to take your place, so he needs you, more than you need him.
Hell yeah he needs me, not the other way around.
Yeah I get it if he don't ask about it in a day or two, but even when i tell him that i won't be coming on ice this week all he does is go "mm" and fucking walks away. that's pretty much everything he has said to me since the game on tuesday. as if it was my fault that i got injured in the game and can't play. ffs.
don't think he's using me as i've helped him out because i wanted to and he has always asked if i can/want to/have the time to help.
i can say "fuck you i'm not doing shit" if i want to but i wont. feeek.
i'm telling you if he's not talking to me next weekend when i go to practice i'm going to go fucking apeshit
Im more sympathetic towards the Ladies than I am the Kids. I have absolutley none towards the men other than If I see proper blood or hear someones broke their ankle, I feel like a right twat for calling them a girl then.
I know why he's 'on one' as he knows how valueble you are, not only is it a 'specialist' posistion your also the best in the league at it, so yeah Id have the shits with you aswell
but it would last 10 mins. Id concentrate my efforts into finding a temporary replacement for the time your out injured.
It does smell of rudeness but I cant be critical as thats me all over.
If he wasnt talking to me by next week Id deffo bring it up and ask him what his problem is.
In British football the most successful managers/coaches have been the hardest, most un sympathetic. And thinking about it probably the rudest with the biggest ego's. Shiiiiiiit, sounds just like me.