her problem, she's just seeking attention, don't give it to her.Little BaBy JESUS wrote:
Ergh stupid fucking exes... My ex tried to fuck me last night... Like she lead me away from the party and started making out with me and taking off my pants. Seriously wtf, I dumped her years ago, we've been friendly enough since then (except when she fucking tried to get me expelled from school by claiming I assaulted her..WTf???), and she is dating one of my best friends (who was at the fucking party). She goes on about how "I was the only one she ever loved, and that the others didn't matter blah blah" and i'm just like "No way, we live 14hrs away from each other, you're dating one of my best mates and I distinctly remember why the fuck I dumped you in the first place"
So I had to drag her off me and we wen't back to the party and I could tell my mate knew something was up. So I took him aside and told him what happened and he was all cool with it and said he was sick of her and wanted her to break up with him.
But now I dunno what she is gonna do. She's pretty unstable so after he breaks up with her I think she will probably try to cut herself or take pills or something (she's done it before).... So is there anything I should do? or should I just say its her fucking problem??
Anyway I just had to get that out... thanks for listening bf2s
TLDR: Bro's before Hoes... Exes are shit... don't date psycho chicks
Well, like I said, I don't have any workable contact info for her since her phone got taken away, and therefore had no way of getting in touch with her this week(spring break). It would've kind of been all up to her, even though she wants me now, she's just weird when I show interest so I don't want to come into the room that I know she's in next week just to have her act like she's blowing me off or whatever. It's like I'm not allowed to seem any bit eager at all or something. I'm really tired of that always happening with her.ghettoperson wrote:
How old are you? In college asking someone to come to your room is pretty much an invite to fuck, but I guess high school is different. She's definitely in to you though, or she wouldn't ask. Quit being a pussy and do something! Hesitation doesn't get you anywhere._j5689_ wrote:
So that girl I was pressed over for like two years was in a classroom that I had to fix YouTube on while running my errands for the tech guy at my school a week ago. I hadn't talked to her extensively since like before 2010 because I didn't really know what I was doing so I just stopped bothering.
Basically I walked into the room and then I saw her in there, and I thought whatever, I'll just do my job and gtfo, not like she matters anyway.
And then while I was sitting there trying to get it to work, she asking like if I had to disable something to get it to work as a quick opener and then she started asking me about how to get MS Office for free and stuff and then, I don't know if I heard her right or what, but I think she asked if I could come over and show her how and then she asked me for my number because she got her phone taken and can only text through Yahoo.
Just wondering if that means anything or what. She could just as easily bring her laptop in and then I could show her and be done with it but if she wants me to come over, that's obviously more personal. Plus, with her phone gone, she's the only person that can make the moves, I couldn't contact her even if I wanted to. Although I've overanalyzed it, I'm not pressed like I was before, it's just how I deal with any of this stuff, logic is all I've got. Needless to say, I've learned to not to invest all or even any of my eggs in that basket until she's proven some kind of interest, even if there aren't any other opportunities and haven't been for a while.
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Yeah, she can go fuck herself I'm to busy with my own life to worry about her lust for attention.
lol, we all learn that the hard way... i certainly didLittle BaBy JESUS wrote:
don't date psycho chicks
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But I'm stubbornPoseidon wrote:
lol, we all learn that the hard way... i certainly didLittle BaBy JESUS wrote:
don't date psycho chicks
I still suck at talking to girls. Please advise.
Be normal.nukchebi0 wrote:
I still suck at talking to girls. Please advise.
open mouth, make noisesnukchebi0 wrote:
I still suck at talking to girls. Please advise.
I have that part down.Adams_BJ wrote:
open mouth, make noisesnukchebi0 wrote:
I still suck at talking to girls. Please advise.
Start a conversation about the negative aspects of Harvard, and why you are fortunate you went to Yale instead.
and your longest academic workghettoperson wrote:
Start a conversation about the negative aspects of Harvard, and why you are fortunate you went to Yale instead.
Thank you for all the constructive input.
The easiest way is to get her talking. Ask questions. You just have to listen enough to have a follow up question. Wait for an opening when you know you won't say something retarded, which should be easy once you know where the conversation is going after having listened to her answer.nukchebi0 wrote:
Thank you for all the constructive input.
Do not ask "come here often?", or "do you like meat?".
The shape of an eye in front of the ocean, digging for stones and throwing them against its window pane. Take it down dreamer, take it down deep. - Other Families
Well dude, how do you talk to guys? Women are different than men, but not so different that they speak an entirely different language (unless she's a foreigner).
Ask her how her weekend was, where she's from, what her major is, etc. Make small talk. Complain about a test or something. As you build more rapport with her, ask if she wants to get some coffee after class.
edit: If you're wondering "but how do I do THAT" well like telling someone they have cancer or breaking up, there's no easy way to do it. You just gotta figure that if you end up making a fool of yourself you likely won't see the woman after the semester's over (at worst after your time at school is over).
Ask her how her weekend was, where she's from, what her major is, etc. Make small talk. Complain about a test or something. As you build more rapport with her, ask if she wants to get some coffee after class.
edit: If you're wondering "but how do I do THAT" well like telling someone they have cancer or breaking up, there's no easy way to do it. You just gotta figure that if you end up making a fool of yourself you likely won't see the woman after the semester's over (at worst after your time at school is over).
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experience is the best teacher. Get out there and make a couple mistakes, who knows what could happen.
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/thread.seymorebutts443 wrote:
experience is the best teacher.
text tonight from the girl I was talking about a bunch of pages back:
"worst night ever. more importantly I love you and you're my favorite. Just wanted to say goodnight before I fell asleep and that you're perfect. Kthanksbyesweetdreams!".
I got game, yo.
"worst night ever. more importantly I love you and you're my favorite. Just wanted to say goodnight before I fell asleep and that you're perfect. Kthanksbyesweetdreams!".
I got game, yo.
Sounded like she just hopped off a different dick and regretted it.Poseidon wrote:
text tonight from the girl I was talking about a bunch of pages back:
"worst night ever. more importantly I love you and you're my favorite. Just wanted to say goodnight before I fell asleep and that you're perfect. Kthanksbyesweetdreams!".
I got game, yo.
COME AT ME BRO
She was with her family today, so god I hope not.Marlo Stanfield wrote:
Sounded like she just hopped off a different dick and regretted it.Poseidon wrote:
text tonight from the girl I was talking about a bunch of pages back:
"worst night ever. more importantly I love you and you're my favorite. Just wanted to say goodnight before I fell asleep and that you're perfect. Kthanksbyesweetdreams!".
I got game, yo.
COME AT ME BRO
I don't.Poseidon wrote:
She was with her family today, so god I hope not.Marlo Stanfield wrote:
Sounded like she just hopped off a different dick and regretted it.Poseidon wrote:
text tonight from the girl I was talking about a bunch of pages back:
"worst night ever. more importantly I love you and you're my favorite. Just wanted to say goodnight before I fell asleep and that you're perfect. Kthanksbyesweetdreams!".
I got game, yo.
COME AT ME BRO
Sounds like she's clingy as hell and probably a closet nutjob.
99 problems etc
Small hourglass island
Always raining and foggy
Use an umbrella
Always raining and foggy
Use an umbrella
Stop it.
It's their thought process that makes them hard to deal with, you can't say this or that or you're completely written off. It's like you have to say precisely the right thing or you're written off, or the girls I talked to just didn't like me, in which case only 3 girls that I talked to ever did.Hurricane2k9 wrote:
Well dude, how do you talk to guys? Women are different than men, but not so different that they speak an entirely different language.
Don't trust anything that bleeds for a week and doesn't die
But that's just not true. Girls are just as easy to talk to as guys._j5689_ wrote:
It's their thought process that makes them hard to deal with, you can't say this or that or you're completely written off. It's like you have to say precisely the right thing or you're written off, or the girls I talked to just didn't like me, in which case only 3 girls that I talked to ever did.Hurricane2k9 wrote:
Well dude, how do you talk to guys? Women are different than men, but not so different that they speak an entirely different language.
Don't trust anything that bleeds for a week and doesn't die