See? She's an immature little twat.
I have a feeling that, after you break up with her, you might wanna alert her parents about how she's like this... I'm not going to tell you to stay with her to prevent her from doing something drastic. You should never be forced into that. But if she does try something... atleast her parents will be aware of the situation.Hurricane2k9 wrote:
Lord, she already is. We had one of those talks tonight, and it was getting bad so she decided she wanted to go to bed. Okay, fine. She texts me saying she loves me etc. Now she just texted:mtb0minime wrote:
Shitty now, but worth it in the long run.
Oh and of course she's gonna be pissed at you and be a bitch, so don't come crying to us when that happens, just expect it.
"God dammit, now I can't sleep."
I say I'm sorry.
She says "Why do you treat me like this? What did I do to deserve this?!?"
Christ. SHE was the one who asked me how I really feel and if I'm becoming more distant. What does she want? Does she want me to lie and drag this out even more? Does she want me to just say "no, I don't feel as strongly as I used to" over the phone?
god
edit: She texted "I just wanted you to love me" how the hell can one respond to that? If I say "I do love you" then it's a bit of a lie and just a continuation of the illusion that I still feel the same way about her. If I say "I don't love you anymore/as much as I did" then it's basically breaking up by text which is a major fail.
Also prepare for statutory rape charges.Poseidon wrote:
I have a feeling that, after you break up with her, you might wanna alert her parents about how she's like this... I'm not going to tell you to stay with her to prevent her from doing something drastic. You should never be forced into that. But if she does try something... atleast her parents will be aware of the situation.Hurricane2k9 wrote:
Lord, she already is. We had one of those talks tonight, and it was getting bad so she decided she wanted to go to bed. Okay, fine. She texts me saying she loves me etc. Now she just texted:mtb0minime wrote:
Shitty now, but worth it in the long run.
Oh and of course she's gonna be pissed at you and be a bitch, so don't come crying to us when that happens, just expect it.
"God dammit, now I can't sleep."
I say I'm sorry.
She says "Why do you treat me like this? What did I do to deserve this?!?"
Christ. SHE was the one who asked me how I really feel and if I'm becoming more distant. What does she want? Does she want me to lie and drag this out even more? Does she want me to just say "no, I don't feel as strongly as I used to" over the phone?
god
edit: She texted "I just wanted you to love me" how the hell can one respond to that? If I say "I do love you" then it's a bit of a lie and just a continuation of the illusion that I still feel the same way about her. If I say "I don't love you anymore/as much as I did" then it's basically breaking up by text which is a major fail.
Gotta love those young immature annoying self-centered overly-dramatic bitches
AoC is 16Marlo Stanfield wrote:
Also prepare for statutory rape charges.Poseidon wrote:
I have a feeling that, after you break up with her, you might wanna alert her parents about how she's like this... I'm not going to tell you to stay with her to prevent her from doing something drastic. You should never be forced into that. But if she does try something... atleast her parents will be aware of the situation.Hurricane2k9 wrote:
Lord, she already is. We had one of those talks tonight, and it was getting bad so she decided she wanted to go to bed. Okay, fine. She texts me saying she loves me etc. Now she just texted:
"God dammit, now I can't sleep."
I say I'm sorry.
She says "Why do you treat me like this? What did I do to deserve this?!?"
Christ. SHE was the one who asked me how I really feel and if I'm becoming more distant. What does she want? Does she want me to lie and drag this out even more? Does she want me to just say "no, I don't feel as strongly as I used to" over the phone?
god
edit: She texted "I just wanted you to love me" how the hell can one respond to that? If I say "I do love you" then it's a bit of a lie and just a continuation of the illusion that I still feel the same way about her. If I say "I don't love you anymore/as much as I did" then it's basically breaking up by text which is a major fail.
Plus you're not black or brownHurricane2k9 wrote:
AoC is 16Marlo Stanfield wrote:
Also prepare for statutory rape charges.
is she?!mtb0minime wrote:
Plus you're not black or brownHurricane2k9 wrote:
AoC is 16Marlo Stanfield wrote:
Also prepare for statutory rape charges.
inb4whitedevilrapesminoritynewsheadlines
for srs though, shitty situation
ugh, she called me and we had yet ANOTHER talk and then she said she wanted to go to bed, that we can talk about it tomorrow. But basically I told her exactly how I feel, and she still wants to try and make things work.
I really wish it wasn't considered an asshole move to break up by text and facebook. This is causing me way more of a headache than I imagined.
I really wish it wasn't considered an asshole move to break up by text and facebook. This is causing me way more of a headache than I imagined.
Trust me, you'll feel better about yourself in the long run when you do it face to face.Hurricane2k9 wrote:
ugh, she called me and we had yet ANOTHER talk and then she said she wanted to go to bed, that we can talk about it tomorrow. But basically I told her exactly how I feel, and she still wants to try and make things work.
I really wish it wasn't considered an asshole move to break up by text and facebook. This is causing me way more of a headache than I imagined.
Two things in a relationship I'll most likely never do (I can't say "never" because I'm only just 18):
1) Cheat/Date a cheater
2) Break up/get together via text/phone.
Call me old fashioned I guess.
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The thing is, I feel like I've basically already done it. I've told her how I feel, she's cycling through the five stages (didn't understand why it's happening, personal attacks, "just give me one more chance," "i should have killed myself," and then "at least give me some time to get used to it (wtf?)).
I wish I could just see her tomorrow and get this over with.
I wish I could just see her tomorrow and get this over with.
Best to shoot a dying horse now rather than let it suffer.
Good luck.
Good luck.
I mean... I do know how she feels, but she will get over it in time.Hurricane2k9 wrote:
The thing is, I feel like I've basically already done it. I've told her how I feel, she's cycling through the five stages (didn't understand why it's happening, personal attacks, "just give me one more chance," "i should have killed myself," and then "at least give me some time to get used to it (wtf?)).
I wish I could just see her tomorrow and get this over with.
I know it's hard to resist right now, but seriously, just wait until you see her. And lay it on easy. You can think of what to say, I'm sure of it.
Laying it on her "easy" being... "FUCK YOU BITCH I FUCKING HATE YOU YOU'RE PSYCHO YOU FUCKING PSYCHO BITCH!!!" *punches her in face and runs*
lol you forgot more of the story, going down to the station
That's Fatal Attraction shit yo.
I might hold that opinion and I might not. I am not bringing it in in any case. The advice given on this forum should remain advice online, help you find out what you want and subsequently how to get it. Don't expect us to tell you what you want/must do. Don't break up or stay with your girlfriend because some guys you don't really know on the internet say you should or shouldn't. Whether you want to break up with her or not, the fact is she is much closer to you than any of us are. Therefore only you can and should make the final call.Hurricane2k9 wrote:
And if anyone wants to weigh in on this matter who thinks I shouldn't break up, speak up please.
Just call her and say you'd like to see her this weekend, can you come over to her house. If she says why, just say that you think you need to talk about the relationship, and it's important that you do it face to face. That way she knows you're coming over for a serious reason and she doesn't get wildly excited that you're coming with some friends to make her airtight.Hurricane2k9 wrote:
Okay then... I guess I'll have to do it and pull the trigger on Friday.
This is gonna be a shitty weekend
This man has it close to spot on.JakAttaK wrote:
And I would say, if she maintains eye contact, it may be worth a kiss? Not if you've only just met her. But. Like. Yeh. No. I know what i meant.mtb0minime wrote:
As long as you maintain eye contact during the silence, instead of looking away or looking at your watch, etc., you should be ok.
Make lots of eye contact. Smile. Make her laugh/giggle/touch her hair.... Grab and kiss.
Honestly? Never failed. Never.
The element of surprise usually gets the girl, and she doesn't know what's going on, and the next minute she's enjoying every bit of you. Seriously.
I've done it and it's always worked, and then to make sure what the girl was thinking, I asked them what went through their heads when I did it...
"Oh what the... mmm... what the fuc...... mmmm.... Okay....... Hmm...... Lets continue"
Seriously though, the element of surprise is one huge weapon every guy has, and sometimes you gotta be drunk to use it, but it still works majestically.
I don't have big balls nor do I claim to have them, but I mustered up the courage to do this and it's always worked. My way of thinking?
"Fuck this shit. There's nothing terrible that can happen from this".
Make sure you try it on girls you've just met though, none of the long term friends... You'll get a slap.
eye-fuckerooooooooo
Well, it's over. I mean, it pretty much was last night, but this morning I saw on her blog a post about how I broke up with her last night. So even though I never said "it's over" I think she understood that it was.
Is it strange that I'm not super sad or anything? I have this feeling in my gut, the kind you get because of something bad or emotional, but it's not like I'm bawling.
Also, when should I change my Facebook relationship status? Yeah I know it's silly but I mean, I think we've both accepted that it's over. Her profile picture is just her now. Should I just do it?
Is it strange that I'm not super sad or anything? I have this feeling in my gut, the kind you get because of something bad or emotional, but it's not like I'm bawling.
Also, when should I change my Facebook relationship status? Yeah I know it's silly but I mean, I think we've both accepted that it's over. Her profile picture is just her now. Should I just do it?
Ehehehe,.. Evgeny Bazarov!Zimmer wrote:
This man has it close to spot on.JakAttaK wrote:
And I would say, if she maintains eye contact, it may be worth a kiss? Not if you've only just met her. But. Like. Yeh. No. I know what i meant.mtb0minime wrote:
As long as you maintain eye contact during the silence, instead of looking away or looking at your watch, etc., you should be ok.
Make lots of eye contact. Smile. Make her laugh/giggle/touch her hair.... Grab and kiss.
Honestly? Never failed. Never.
The element of surprise usually gets the girl, and she doesn't know what's going on, and the next minute she's enjoying every bit of you. Seriously.
I've done it and it's always worked, and then to make sure what the girl was thinking, I asked them what went through their heads when I did it...
"Oh what the... mmm... what the fuc...... mmmm.... Okay....... Hmm...... Lets continue"
Seriously though, the element of surprise is one huge weapon every guy has, and sometimes you gotta be drunk to use it, but it still works majestically.
I don't have big balls nor do I claim to have them, but I mustered up the courage to do this and it's always worked. My way of thinking?
"Fuck this shit. There's nothing terrible that can happen from this".
Make sure you try it on girls you've just met though, none of the long term friends... You'll get a slap.
Tactic wouldn't work for me though, simply because I wouldn't bother with a girl I've just met, but I guess that's personal.
Just change it, since she apparently gets it. If she didn't get it, it might be a little mean...Hurricane2k9 wrote:
Well, it's over. I mean, it pretty much was last night, but this morning I saw on her blog a post about how I broke up with her last night. So even though I never said "it's over" I think she understood that it was.
Is it strange that I'm not super sad or anything? I have this feeling in my gut, the kind you get because of something bad or emotional, but it's not like I'm bawling.
Also, when should I change my Facebook relationship status? Yeah I know it's silly but I mean, I think we've both accepted that it's over. Her profile picture is just her now. Should I just do it?
Yes, but we've already gathered you don't smile at girls because you're so incredibly Russian. Or Dutch. Or something.Lai wrote:
Ehehehe,.. Evgeny Bazarov!
Tactic wouldn't work for me though, simply because I wouldn't bother with a girl I've just met, but I guess that's personal.
Yeah, I'm pretty sure she gets it:
"I’m glad I had this relationship. It taught me a lot about life. And it taught me a lot about myself. And now I’ve got beautiful memories that will last me the rest of my life. I may have lost a boyfriend, but I’ve still got friends. He’s still one of them, I hope."
Anyway, done.
"I’m glad I had this relationship. It taught me a lot about life. And it taught me a lot about myself. And now I’ve got beautiful memories that will last me the rest of my life. I may have lost a boyfriend, but I’ve still got friends. He’s still one of them, I hope."
Anyway, done.
Now go out and bang some floozy!
jesus wept. you just broke up with a romance novel . . .Hurricane2k9 wrote:
"I’m glad I had this relationship. It taught me a lot about life. And it taught me a lot about myself. And now I’ve got beautiful memories that will last me the rest of my life. I may have lost a boyfriend, but I’ve still got friends. He’s still one of them, I hope."