_j5689_
Dreads & Bergers
+364|7138|Riva, MD

burnzz wrote:

_j5689_ wrote:

It got a little bit better, talked about the school system bullshit and the driving stuff.  She had to leave before she got caught on the comp though.
are you sure "she" is not "he" and doing time in the county lock up?
No, I'm banned off the comp too.  One thing we have in common is that we're both punished because of bad grades for classes we don't need to graduate.
13urnzz
Banned
+5,830|6919

ah, i see. i would be afraid to give any info to someone i didn't know in this situation - do you know her IRL?
_j5689_
Dreads & Bergers
+364|7138|Riva, MD

burnzz wrote:

ah, i see. i would be afraid to give any info to someone i didn't know in this situation - do you know her IRL?
Yeah, I've known her for three years but we're not that close
Lai
Member
+186|6572

Ioan92 wrote:

Hi guys. I'm sick of this shit.

The girl I've loved since the beginning of school is really confusing me. I can't think clearly anymore..

She is always smiling to me, staring at me, bla bla. Sometimes asks me for help at English, etc.. But when I talk to her in private, she locks up like jeez. Its really annoying and ankward. Along with that, I have three cock blocking asshole friends that really piss me off. She wanted me to sit with her, dear jesus. her friend goes to sit at my place but my idiot bench mate won't let her sit so she has nowhere else to go. So I go back.. I felt like fucking that idiot's face......


What do I do?
Well, have you considered the fact that she's always reeling you in then shuts up might actually be a hint? This is by no means a guarantee, but I've said this before and I will say it again:

Silences and awkwardness are awkward, but may indicate something else as well. If you're just chatting someone up in a pub it generally doesn't, but if you're looking at something a bit more serious it very well might be. Why? Because if you can fall silent and feel awkward so can she. Women are not thát different
_j5689_
Dreads & Bergers
+364|7138|Riva, MD
Shit, I think she wanted me to ask her out after thinking about it, lol

After I finished a topic off, she said ".....so" like literally right after I posted.  And then I asked what and she said "nothing" and we moved on to the next subject

Hard to do shit though when neither one of us can drive.  She said she's about to get her learner's (you have to hold it for 9 months before you can drive without parents), and I can't drive till July.

Last edited by _j5689_ (2010-04-16 14:12:06)

mtb0minime
minimember
+2,418|7076

How do I get girl I really like who doesn't even know me? Talking to her is not an option.
Ioan92
Member
+337|6144

Lai wrote:

Ioan92 wrote:

Hi guys. I'm sick of this shit.

The girl I've loved since the beginning of school is really confusing me. I can't think clearly anymore..

She is always smiling to me, staring at me, bla bla. Sometimes asks me for help at English, etc.. But when I talk to her in private, she locks up like jeez. Its really annoying and ankward. Along with that, I have three cock blocking asshole friends that really piss me off. She wanted me to sit with her, dear jesus. her friend goes to sit at my place but my idiot bench mate won't let her sit so she has nowhere else to go. So I go back.. I felt like fucking that idiot's face......


What do I do?
Well, have you considered the fact that she's always reeling you in then shuts up might actually be a hint? This is by no means a guarantee, but I've said this before and I will say it again:

Silences and awkwardness are awkward, but may indicate something else as well. If you're just chatting someone up in a pub it generally doesn't, but if you're looking at something a bit more serious it very well might be. Why? Because if you can fall silent and feel awkward so can she. Women are not thát different
Are you saying the likes me and is way to shy with me or scared to not say something wrong or she's fucking around.

I'm very tired and my brain is operating like a 80's computer
11 Bravo
Banned
+965|5659|Cleveland, Ohio

mtb0minime wrote:

Talking to her is not an option.
cunt punt
_j5689_
Dreads & Bergers
+364|7138|Riva, MD

mtb0minime wrote:

How do I get girl I really like who doesn't even know me? Talking to her is not an option.
You're not gonna get a girl without talking to her, plain and simple.  The only possible way is if she approaches, otherwise it's not gonna happen.
Pochsy
Artifice of Eternity
+702|5964|Toronto

Ioan92 wrote:

Lai wrote:

Ioan92 wrote:

Hi guys. I'm sick of this shit.

The girl I've loved since the beginning of school is really confusing me. I can't think clearly anymore..

She is always smiling to me, staring at me, bla bla. Sometimes asks me for help at English, etc.. But when I talk to her in private, she locks up like jeez. Its really annoying and ankward. Along with that, I have three cock blocking asshole friends that really piss me off. She wanted me to sit with her, dear jesus. her friend goes to sit at my place but my idiot bench mate won't let her sit so she has nowhere else to go. So I go back.. I felt like fucking that idiot's face......


What do I do?
Well, have you considered the fact that she's always reeling you in then shuts up might actually be a hint? This is by no means a guarantee, but I've said this before and I will say it again:

Silences and awkwardness are awkward, but may indicate something else as well. If you're just chatting someone up in a pub it generally doesn't, but if you're looking at something a bit more serious it very well might be. Why? Because if you can fall silent and feel awkward so can she. Women are not thát different
Are you saying the likes me and is way to shy with me or scared to not say something wrong or she's fucking around.

I'm very tired and my brain is operating like a 80's computer
What he's saying is you should practice for a woman by picking up guys.
The shape of an eye in front of the ocean, digging for stones and throwing them against its window pane. Take it down dreamer, take it down deep. - Other Families
Flecco
iPod is broken.
+1,048|7086|NT, like Mick Dundee

mtb0minime wrote:

How do I get girl I really like who doesn't even know me? Talking to her is not an option.
Why isn't it an option?
Whoa... Can't believe these forums are still kicking.
13urnzz
Banned
+5,830|6919

she's earless.
Flecco
iPod is broken.
+1,048|7086|NT, like Mick Dundee

Whoa... Can't believe these forums are still kicking.
Bevo
Nah
+718|6942|Austin, Texas
Flecco and J got trolled, lol.

@Ioan: Yes, she likes you. Ask her out, who gives a fuck about your friends.
Flecco
iPod is broken.
+1,048|7086|NT, like Mick Dundee

Whoa... Can't believe these forums are still kicking.
Lai
Member
+186|6572

Ioan92 wrote:

Are you saying the likes me and is way to shy with me or scared to not say something wrong or she's fucking around.

I'm very tired and my brain is operating like a 80's computer
I'm saying she could be shy, because she seems to be drawing you in thén fall silent (rather than ignoring you or drawing you in and going on a rant). The reason for her being shy would indeed pretty much leave only one conclusion.

She could be fucking around as well, but you should be able to judge what kind of girl she is.

_j5689_ wrote:

Shit, I think she wanted me to ask her out after thinking about it, lol

After I finished a topic off, she said ".....so" like literally right after I posted.  And then I asked what and she said "nothing" and we moved on to the next subject

Hard to do shit though when neither one of us can drive.  She said she's about to get her learner's (you have to hold it for 9 months before you can drive without parents), and I can't drive till July.
Call her now!
_j5689_
Dreads & Bergers
+364|7138|Riva, MD

Bevo wrote:

Flecco and J got trolled, lol.

@Ioan: Yes, she likes you. Ask her out, who gives a fuck about your friends.
I got trolled?

Lai wrote:

_j5689_ wrote:

Shit, I think she wanted me to ask her out after thinking about it, lol

After I finished a topic off, she said ".....so" like literally right after I posted.  And then I asked what and she said "nothing" and we moved on to the next subject

Hard to do shit though when neither one of us can drive.  She said she's about to get her learner's (you have to hold it for 9 months before you can drive without parents), and I can't drive till July.
Call her now!
Aw fuck, I can't cuz her phone got taken away.  Shite, it's not till I think into it for some amount of time that I actually realize what girls were trying to get across.  Will there be a chance again you think?
Bevo
Nah
+718|6942|Austin, Texas

_j5689_ wrote:

Bevo wrote:

Flecco and J got trolled, lol.
I got trolled?
Yes

_j5689_ wrote:

mtb0minime wrote:

How do I get girl I really like who doesn't even know me? Talking to her is not an option.
You're not gonna get a girl without talking to her, plain and simple.  The only possible way is if she approaches, otherwise it's not gonna happen.
Clearly not serious

Lai wrote:

_j5689_ wrote:

Shit, I think she wanted me to ask her out after thinking about it, lol

After I finished a topic off, she said ".....so" like literally right after I posted.  And then I asked what and she said "nothing" and we moved on to the next subject

Hard to do shit though when neither one of us can drive.  She said she's about to get her learner's (you have to hold it for 9 months before you can drive without parents), and I can't drive till July.
Call her now!
Aw fuck, I can't cuz her phone got taken away.  Shite, it's not till I think into it for some amount of time that I actually realize what girls were trying to get across.  Will there be a chance again you think?
Probably.
Lai
Member
+186|6572

_j5689_ wrote:

Will there be a chance again you think?
No, you'll have to create it.

Get back to it as soon as you see/talk to her again.
Ioan92
Member
+337|6144

Lai wrote:

Ioan92 wrote:

Are you saying the likes me and is way to shy with me or scared to not say something wrong or she's fucking around.

I'm very tired and my brain is operating like a 80's computer
I'm saying she could be shy, because she seems to be drawing you in thén fall silent (rather than ignoring you or drawing you in and going on a rant). The reason for her being shy would indeed pretty much leave only one conclusion.

She could be fucking around as well, but you should be able to judge what kind of girl she is.

_j5689_ wrote:

Shit, I think she wanted me to ask her out after thinking about it, lol

After I finished a topic off, she said ".....so" like literally right after I posted.  And then I asked what and she said "nothing" and we moved on to the next subject

Hard to do shit though when neither one of us can drive.  She said she's about to get her learner's (you have to hold it for 9 months before you can drive without parents), and I can't drive till July.
Call her now!
She's a pretty sensible person, she's smart to some extent. A really weird thing I see in her is the near exactitude in qualities we both share. She's like my chick version. Oh I love myself.
_j5689_
Dreads & Bergers
+364|7138|Riva, MD
Well, geez I only ever take things literally anyway.  Not a big deal that I was trolled but in hindsight that was pretty damn funny

Lai wrote:

_j5689_ wrote:

Will there be a chance again you think?
No, you'll have to create it.

Get back to it as soon as you see/talk to her again.
I'll be sure to do that.

Oh yeah but she also mentioned in the beginning that she's grounded and can't do anything this weekend when I asked her what her plans were so wtf

Last edited by _j5689_ (2010-04-16 14:29:33)

Bevo
Nah
+718|6942|Austin, Texas
Next weekend then?

Listen to lai, he smart guy. Pursue, you cannot wait for things to happen because they never rarely will on their own.
Lai
Member
+186|6572

_j5689_ wrote:

I'll be sure to do that.

Oh yeah but she also mentioned in the beginning that she's grounded and can't do anything this weekend when I asked her what her plans were so wtf
That gives you a good reason to take her out when she's released.

Common, think outside of the box 'weekend', 'driving license' and 'parents' are not binding factors. They are rigid, but you don't need them and/or can work around it.
_j5689_
Dreads & Bergers
+364|7138|Riva, MD

Lai wrote:

_j5689_ wrote:

I'll be sure to do that.

Oh yeah but she also mentioned in the beginning that she's grounded and can't do anything this weekend when I asked her what her plans were so wtf
That gives you a good reason to take her out when she's released.

Common, think outside of the box 'weekend', 'driving license' and 'parents' are not binding factors. They are rigid, but you don't need them and/or can work around it.
Yeah, I thought about that too.  It makes sense or she wouldn't have hinted at it like that.

Really I just thought she wanted to talk for longer before I asked her out and I was actually somewhat enjoying the conversation.  Usually in RL it's her telling me a story about her life

Last edited by _j5689_ (2010-04-16 14:39:55)

_j5689_
Dreads & Bergers
+364|7138|Riva, MD
I don't want to have to wait till the next time she gets on, that's gonna take forever but it's all I can do.  She can still say no too just because of the way I ask.  It was nice to look forward to at first, but even if they say yes, there's still stuff to ruin it and keep it from happening.  = The result of thinking too much

Last edited by _j5689_ (2010-04-16 18:29:37)

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