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ghettoperson wrote:

Hurricane2k9 wrote:

ghettoperson wrote:

Nah, it's fine.

any other input

Just don't have her as your fucking profile pic and it's all gold.

way ahead of ya

I tried a Black & Mild this weekend and omg, I've never been chill like that without masturbation.  I just didn't care about anything and I felt better at socializing and more confident and stuff like that, now I understand why people do any of that bad stuff.  Maybe that'll be my key to approaching girls but that still seems a bit pathetic and like a crutch.  Better than nothing though I guess.

I'm sure people are gonna be like alcohol/weed or gtfo though

haffeysucks wrote:

_j5689_ wrote:

I tried a Black & Mild this weekend and omg, I've never been chill like that without masturbation.  I just didn't care about anything and I felt better at socializing and more confident and stuff like that, now I understand why people do any of that bad stuff.  Maybe that'll be my key to approaching girls but that still seems a bit pathetic and like a crutch.  Better than nothing though I guess.

I'm sure people are gonna be like alcohol/weed or gtfo though

lol cigars make you chill?  that's what you call placebo

i understand alcohol; i'm the happiest fucking person in the world when i'm buzzed and i'll strike up a conversation with anyone and everyone...but tobacco?

Go figure, I'm just a lightweight at anything I would try(even stuff that wouldn't do that, lol) since I've never done any of it I would have to think, even though I weigh 205 lbs.  I don't want to get involved in weed and I can't keep alcohol down and would feel guilty as shit drinking it anyway, police crack down on underage drinking hard for like no reason too even though in any other country it would be perfectly normal at that age.

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ghettoperson wrote:

haffeysucks wrote:

_j5689_ wrote:

I tried a Black & Mild this weekend and omg, I've never been chill like that without masturbation.  I just didn't care about anything and I felt better at socializing and more confident and stuff like that, now I understand why people do any of that bad stuff.  Maybe that'll be my key to approaching girls but that still seems a bit pathetic and like a crutch.  Better than nothing though I guess.

I'm sure people are gonna be like alcohol/weed or gtfo though

lol cigars make you chill?  that's what you call placebo

i understand alcohol; i'm the happiest fucking person in the world when i'm buzzed and i'll strike up a conversation with anyone and everyone...but tobacco?

I have no idea what a Black and Mild looks like, but a bit of sun, a deck chair, large Cuban cigar and a whisky/beer is the most mellow thing in the world. It's amazing. I can't say it's something that would make me more social though, but whatever works for you.

Yeah, at least something works at all.  It feels like I shouldn't need anything because that's how it seems with other guys, like they don't need anything.  But I'm not gonna be able to do it naturally anytime soon if ever so fuck it

btw, I'm also not depressing with B&Ms

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ghettoperson wrote:

TBH I get much further with girls when I drink, so I fully support socialising under the influence. Although I suppose that's mostly because normal social protocol would deem it inappropriate to fuck someone you just met.

Social protocol makes everything harder for no reason tbh

I've heard other people say it's pathetic to need alcohol to get girls but how can an average guy just do it without?

ghettoperson wrote:

Fuck what other people think, do what makes you happy.

Yeah, sometimes I forget about that.

And also an update on that girl I was talking about:

My friend and this other girl were saying that the "........so" that the girl I was talking about said on Yahoo was actually a sign of disinterest or disagreement with something I said.  So fuck her, I'm done playing games like that where a basic conversation is a problem.

Yeah I'm not really following you there either.

It's pretty hard to read into things online, it's easy to get the tone wrong. You're only going to figure out that kind of stuff by hanging out with them.

ghettoperson wrote:

It's pretty hard to read into things online, it's easy to get the tone wrong. You're only going to figure out that kind of stuff by hanging out with them.

It totally depends.

"...so" could mean they want to change the topic.
"...so" could mean they want to continue the conversation but don't know what to say.
"...so" could mean they have something on their mind but don't want to be straightforward with it.
"...so" could mean they want you to continue with the subject at hand.

I wouldn't put a single thought into it.

I'm Jamesey wrote:

quite easily

Guess I'm a below average guy then or something

mtb0minime wrote:

Don't think, just do. You're a man, it's in your nature to pull women. Stop thinking too hard and let your instincts take over.

I don't have those intincts, Asperger's Syndrome pretty much took that away.  It doesn't come naturally to me like everybody else.

mtb0minime wrote:

Oh My bad, you probably mentioned it before but I missed it

But hey, at least you're talking to her. Keep it up and the next time you talk to her in real life, you shouldn't be as nervous or awkward since you've already had the experiences. Hell, it'll probably be easier since you'll be able to hear the tone in her voice as opposed to having to read it in text and decide for yourself.

I guess, I don't know if she's the right person for me anymore though.  She's so fucking shallow now and she wasn't when I first liked her.  Now she just makes everything difficult and I always have to chase, which never works at all.  I can't play these dumbass games

Just gotta wait till Community College next year I guess or something like that

ghettoperson wrote:

It's all good practice, even if you decide you don't want to be with her.

I would see it that way but it feels like we're wasting both our time if she's not trying to let it go anywhere at all like she does.  She'll show interest one time and then go silent every other, I don't get it.