BF2S Forums Good things that have happened in your life lately

Congrats!

I turned down an escort on Hinge. We agreed to $500 for a first date at my place. She offered me a blow job.

I did the right thing and unmatched her.

I am going to digitize my family albums.

Last edited by SuperJail Warden (2023-02-09 12:48:50)

I will periodically upgrade the media storage then. I will leave a note saying the only copy of my will is on the drive and they have to find it.

I gave $100 to the Red Cross. I put "wherever it is needed most." I am hoping it goes to Turkey but to actually directly donate to that is vanity.

Last edited by SuperJail Warden (2023-02-11 00:05:24)

The whole phone wouldn't respond at all. I thought I may have had to drain the whole battery before it could reset. I was about to give the lady my credit card to buy herself an Uber back to Staten Island

Seinfeld is a 60+ boomer. Not like "lol ok boomer" meme. He just is.

Are you really an addict

Red Cross seems much the same as any other problematic company or organization. The CEO makes like $700k a year while workers hover around minimum wages, have poor working conditions, and are chronically understaffed. Maybe they get some help to people who need it, but is donating to them that much more of a redemptive coup than, say, a children's hospital.

Why would you DoNaTe $100 tO tHe ReD CrOsS because you were flirting with a woman at work, if there was nothing about it that should make you feel guilty?

It's still ill-advised, mind, and an abuse of posiitonal power balance (you, the teacher aiming for admin vs. her, the substitute). I don't think it's huge blackmail material since nobody was getting handsy, but it could be used to smear your character as a womanizer, or someone who can influence your promotion could argue that you were abusing your power. Maybe stop picking up women at work, my dude.

“When we’re working, we’re expected to work at 100%, but we never have 100% in return,” added Zebrowski. “We’re always forced to come into work no matter what, sick or not, we were expected to be there. Otherwise, we’d be fearing for our job because we’d be too worried about being written up for attendance.”

“The people they’ve hired since November are significantly making more money than the staff who have been here for years,” said Terrell. “That’s a major slap in the face to the current staff that have worked through this whole pandemic and not been offered anything but pizza.”

Phew.

Last edited by unnamednewbie13 (2023-02-16 12:41:00)

Had my annual review and apparently for the third time in my career, my position has been reevaluated and found to be underpaid, so I have a 15% raise to the base salary coming my way. I feel like Peter in Office Space being amazed when they want to give him more money.

They have no idea about the polyamory or writing project.

I am not really having a religious guilt trip. It doesn't feel like "consenting adults" though when you tell them what they want to hear until you get your writing prompt. I appreciate you trying to make me feel better about this but I am aware that I am exploiting these women even if I am very kind and generous to them when we are together. Even after I wrote all of that stuff earlier I was chatting up the guidance counselor after work. It is compulsive.

The reason I give to the red Cross isn't because I believe there is a Catholic God who is disappointed but I feel like I need to balance out my actions or else the weight of my sins will all come down on me.

SuperJail Warden wrote:

The sex part isn't the troubling part of sex addiction. Sex addiction is basically the result of low self esteem and the need for validation and attention leading you to seek out sexual encounters in order to feel good about yourself. I could sleep with only 1 new girl a month and still be addicted to the validation.

My brother & I have this same problem.  Our mommy issues cause us to seek validation from women, and the validation ends up being the best part about sex.

Lucky for him, he has it regularly.  I've only had it twice.

Last edited by _j5689_ (2023-02-16 21:31:34)