Dilbert_X
The X stands for
+1,833|6607|eXtreme to the maX
Two heart valves replaced, pacemaker #2 was causing a different set of problems from #1, replaced with external (to the heart) pacemaker -> pacemaker #3
Still going so far.

Heart only has so many beats - use yours wisely
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uziq
Member
+543|3953
i'm sure that's an immense relief after a long day of waiting around. glad to hear it.

incidentally the last time i was on tenterhooks, sitting around in a sterile hospital waiting room during theater, i had clive james the amiable australian for company. may you find suitable literature in your hour of need.

Last edited by uziq (2025-09-03 05:42:33)

Dilbert_X
The X stands for
+1,833|6607|eXtreme to the maX
Things progressing steadily.

One thing we have learned repeatedly is the medical 'industry' is riddled with charlatans who care exactly fuck all for their patients and see them as cash cows and nothing else.
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RTHKI
mmmf mmmf mmmf
+1,749|7238|Cinncinatti
Was on vacation last week and my grandma died, the funeral is tomorrow. Fun
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uziq
Member
+543|3953
eesh, sorry to hear that. it all happens so quickly with the oldest generation.

hope she passed peacefully and your family are doing okay.
unnamednewbie13
Moderator
+2,086|7273|PNW

ditto^

side note: the urge to ask a dying person some variant of "how are you doing" is an odd compulsion, and one that i may never tire of hearing dying people shut down with some of the darkest humor that's ever tickled my ears (seems to be a highlight of their day). people who ask that stuff may know it's a dumb question, at least in hindsight, but probably can't think of what else to say.
uziq
Member
+543|3953
my grandmother fell on xmas day a few years ago, broke her hip. late 90s. basically always fatal, if not immediately then in the very short term. she passed about 3 days later in the hospital ward. recovery from any sort of serious injury or break drains way too much energy for most old people to cope.

i didn't ask her how she was doing, because she was hallucinating and seeing little birds in the corners of the ceiling. but, on balance, pretty much a merciful and not too protracted end to a very long life. watching (very) old ones age and pass seems to be a very complicated matter thesedays, with so much excellent medicine and infinitesimal extensions to life available.

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unnamednewbie13
Moderator
+2,086|7273|PNW

very complicated.

i don't want to watch old people die of a broken hip, but probably less miserable than lingering, years-long terminal illness. there's been multiple, preventable hip fractures in my circles. some of those don't really change their habits, so reinjure themselves easily.
Adams_BJ
Russian warship, go fuck yourself
+2,061|7124|Little Bentcock
I don't want to grow old. Once I start losing my faculties I want someone to hit me on the head with a hammer from behind.
uziq
Member
+543|3953
yeah, physical decline i can deal with, but dementia or alzheimers or anything like that gives me the heebie jeebies.
SuperJail Warden
Gone Forever
+668|4221
I am not convinced I will ever die. I haven't seen any evidence that I will.

I am sure ChatGPT will back me up here
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unnamednewbie13
Moderator
+2,086|7273|PNW

if you come up with an either/or question for a fictional scenario or something that can be interpreted as a thought experiment, chatgpt will probably pick the first thing and run with that. unless you specifically tell it to consider both (and sometimes even if you do), it seems to skip options past "or." so make sure to plunk immortality down as the first option.
KEN-JENNINGS
I am all that is MOD!
+2,993|7133|949

I saw my uncle go from playing tennis to a frail, bedridden shell within 2 weeks due to spinal cancer. His decline was something I wasn't ready for.

He understood what the constant parade of people filing into his hospital room meant, so there was no need to address it. The time was spent reminiscing and catching up. He went to hospice for a few weeks but then my dad (his brother) took him home to die. Dad went to change my uncle's wounds one morning and that was it.

This guy was the smartest, most caring dude I ever met. Built two airplanes from scratch in his garage. Never held a real job in his life. Its been almost 4 years and it still tears me up.

Hug your loved ones and let them know you care about them

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