crimson_grunt
Shitty Disposition (apparently)
+214|7098|Teesside, UK

Fancy_Pollux wrote:

I think her simply storming out of the room as I'm in mid-sentence was extremely rude, especially considering I spent over an hour putting this together and am trying salvage our failing relationship. How long should I wait for her to apologize?
Did you apologize to her for storming out on her the night before?  If not your just as bad as her.

Fancy_Pollux wrote:

She started up again and I didn't want to deal with it so I just walked out
Plus how can you expect her to stick around and hear all your points when you didn't offer her the same courtesy?

Last edited by crimson_grunt (2007-01-13 04:32:50)

FFLink
There is.
+1,380|7135|Devon, England
It would have helped if you had told her those thoughts in person... I would buy her something nice, something that would remind her of a past good time you two had, go to her and apolgise first. Sit with her, tell her what's wrong, making sure not to start her off if she does, admit to all she's saying, it's always the guys fault. When you think she has a let a bit out, apologise, and carry on (Of course she might not start off, which would be even easier for you). Don't straight up offer to change, as that shows weakness. If you think she might not like you on the computer so much, so you'll cut it. Compromise with her, and do anything she asks (within reason).

When you have said all you can think of, tell her how you feel, and how you love her and how much she means to you. Wait for a reaction. If nothing comes up, just say you should go now, and then go.

Now you play the waiting game. You must wait for her to contact you. But of course, give this up if it's been over 2 weeks. In this case, ring her and ask if she wants to go out somewhere. Make it nice!

That should solve your problem and I hope I helped.
sporadicfire
Member
+6|6755|a shallow grave in karkand

Fancy_Pollux wrote:

As soon as I got home I sat down at my computer and organized by thoughts and feelings on the matter into a Powerpoint presentation
you actually put your feelings into a power point? dude i laughed at this for days lol

I'm not laughing at you and if there wasn't already good advice posted i would post some of my own.

 

Fancy_Pollux wrote:

presented the Powerpoint very politely and professionally
GOld i love it +1

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