KnowMeByTrailOfDead
Jackass of all Trades
+62|7127|Dayton, Ohio
I haven't seen a thread for stories of family or friends that couod use an extra prayer, an extra thought or just a little positive energy so here we go.  This is completely non religious.  Just a place to share a storie and give the people that need it a little extra.

Little back ground.  My best man has been by my side through thick and thin since the 6th grade.  He was the best man at my wedding and he made me the god father of his first born.  He is the closest to a true selfless friend as I will certainly ever know.  He is a husband and a father of two wonderfull little girls.  He tried to be a marine but was sent home after a seizure.  Since then he has been a truck drive spending weeks on the road putting his wife though nursing school.  His family has always had the worst luck.  Right after we graduated highs school his younger brother burned to death in a car accident with 2 of his foot ball team mates.  A few years later his Aunt and Uncle were killed in a car accident.

Last year he was diagnosed with cancer at the age of 27.  He had a mass the size of a grape fruit in his chest and was barely able to breath.  He has gone through all the chemo, radiation and even a bone marrow transplant.  He has been on deaths door more than once.  Two weeks ago the doctors we just waiting to declare him cure.  Everything look great and he had all the hope in the world.  Today he is back in the hospital.  The Cancer has moved to his bone marrow and spleen.  They had to take him off the drugs that were being used to keep his body from rejecting the original doner marrow.  Not even he sound to hopefull at this point.  I worry more for his family then I do for him.  I know he will stay strong and I know he will continue to support his family though these tough times but if the day comes I fear they will loose the steady sholder that has supported them though so many storms.

All I ask is a kind thought for a good man. 

Thank you,
Schwarzelungen
drunklenglungen
+133|6742|Bloomington Indiana
My thoughts are with you.
i was thinking about making something along the same lines here..you beat me to it.

nothings really going on with me now. i had two good friends of mine die within 2 weeks of eachother around thanksgiving of this past year.  One died the day after thanksgiving of a heroin overdose...his own fault but it hurt everyone.  the other got killed in a car wreck less than two weeks later.
my vent is done.

i hope others are more fortunate than my circle of friends recently.
KnowMeByTrailOfDead
Jackass of all Trades
+62|7127|Dayton, Ohio

Schwarzelungen wrote:

My thoughts are with you.
i was thinking about making something along the same lines here..you beat me to it.

nothings really going on with me now. i had two good friends of mine die within 2 weeks of eachother around thanksgiving of this past year.  One died the day after thanksgiving of a heroin overdose...his own fault but it hurt everyone.  the other got killed in a car wreck less than two weeks later.
my vent is done.

i hope others are more fortunate than my circle of friends recently.
Yea, I think shit happens in twos.  I got the cancer new from my buddy today.  Last we I found out that a friend I hadn't seen in about a year had commited suicide.  I don't even know where he was buried to pay my respects.   Makes for a long week.
ATG
Banned
+5,233|6975|Global Command
Kind thoughts here.
KnowMeByTrailOfDead
Jackass of all Trades
+62|7127|Dayton, Ohio
Well, the day I have feared for over a year has finally come.  My best friend is being sent home from the hospital with 1-2 weeks to live.  The cancer in his bone marrow just continues to get worse and all the torture they have put him tough has done nothing to slow it down.

This has to be the most hollow feeling int he world.  I know he is a dead man, what do you say when you visit a dead man?
Bull3t
stephen brule
+83|6747

KnowMeByTrailOfDead wrote:

Well, the day I have feared for over a year has finally come.  My best friend is being sent home from the hospital with 1-2 weeks to live.  The cancer in his bone marrow just continues to get worse and all the torture they have put him tough has done nothing to slow it down.

This has to be the most hollow feeling int he world.  I know he is a dead man, what do you say when you visit a dead man?
I do not know, But I wish you, him & and his family nothing but the best.
chittydog
less busy
+586|7281|Kubra, Damn it!

If there's anything you need to say to him, say it now. It's beyond the point of feeling like it's gay or being embarrassed. Tell the man what he means to you because you'll never have another chance. Try to make this last bit of time for him a happy time so he can leave the world on a positive note.

My thoughts and good hopes go to you, to him and to your families.

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