Turquoise wrote:
I'll put it this way... The Mormon explanation of the afterlife makes a lot more sense than the normal Christian one, but the ritualism and polygamy stuff kind of ruins it.
I guess what I'm trying to say is.... Why can't Mormonism just focus on a more logical explanation of the afterlife without focusing so much on tradition? Polygamy and the previous prejudice toward blacks has left the Mormon church for the most part, so why can't you guys also promote things like gender equality? I hope you don't take offense to any of this stuff, but I can't help but bring it up....
Ritualism and polygamy: If you're asking about what you would describe in the temple ordinances as rituals, I'll simply state that they are what they are...a vicarious, graduating path of man's (and woman's) journey through the entire plan of salvation as we call it. It is filled with rich symbolism, spoken and gestured ordinances, the making of covenants, and for the experience of communing directly with God. The first time you go through the temple you do so for yourself. THereafter, you go on behalf of (vicariously) those who have already passed and haven't had their ordinances done for them. That's it. I won't apologize if that seems "ritualistic." It's actually quite boring unless you're going through humbly, with a clear heart and mind, and clean spirit willing to be taught from on high. The revelatory experiences in the Temple are second to none. It prepares you for whatever the world can throw at you. It's the very core of what makes Mormon's so happy.
Some biblical patriarchs, most notably Abraham, were commanded to have additional wives. Being that the Mormons believe what is promised in Acts, that "all things will be restored," it makes sense that "plural marriage" was restored since it was an ordinance once commanded of God's people. It was met with resistence by Joseph Smith until about a decade later he was threatened with destruction if he did not comply. As the church moved from Nauvoo to Utah Territory, some leaders were tasked with taking wives. These men were able to (they could provide seperate homes, feed, clothe, and lead with righteousness) because they were spiritually prepared. Not everyone was commanded to do so. Usually the "wife" of the man aided in the selection process. Often it was widows who were married to a man in order to provide for them. Polygamy as practiced by the early Mormons was NOT for the purposes pretty much every sicko things of it as today...it's not a sex orgy and the women are NOT servants. TO better imagine it, imagine yourself with 4 copies of your wife, 4 sets of kids, 4 mortgages to pay, 4x the food, clothing, etc.. Exactly...it's no picnic which is why it wasn't something men sought after. Utah was applying for statehood shortly after it was repealed by the Lord as having been "fulfilled." No laws were broken because "bigamy" was not introduced by the US Government until afterwards..and Utah Territory wasn't even a state yet so it didn't matter anyway. Mormons do hold the laws of the land in high regard and commandment to follow.
ANyway, this is all information many apologists will yield if you search (jeff lindsay is a good one).
**EDIT!!**
Sorry, I meant to address the gender inequality and black prejudice comments too.
TO be clear, this church does not bend and run with the flow of other churches who try to appear more mainstream, more in-tuned with the world. That would denote that it is a church of man, not something divinely instituted. We actually claim to be the restored church, in it's fullness, as a restoration of the ancient church the Savior established himself. We don't pick and chose if men and women get to hold priesthood..which is the thing I"m guessing you're referring to (some feminists were excommunicated, at their wish, after they petitioned and publicly argued against the church to be able to hold the priesthood..like the other churches do). And for what it's worth, women have a much greater role in our church than holding priesthood. Further, what is the big deal about holding priesthood? It's not like you are suddenly powerful and great. The priesthood is on the earth so it can be used to build the kingdom, to glorify god..not the holder who uses it. But that's another discussion.
As far as the blacks holding priesthood before 1978, that was/is an ancient punishment due to the sin Ham committed...where he and his seed were not to inherit the rights of the priesthood. As for the church being prejudiced? I'd have you reserch our early years, when the church was run out of town from NY, to OH, to MO, to IL, and finally to UT. THey were persecuted and hated because the represented a voting block that was opposed to slavery (when everyone else wasn't), they built beautiful towns out of nothing, were virtuous, didn't drink, and threatened the lifestyle of the scumbags in office. Just like in Kosovo, the Mormons were given an extermination order from Missouri by Gov. Boggs...why? They voted against slavery among other things.
THere's zero prejudice against blacks in this church. All children of God are equal, are entitled to the same benefits and blessings of heaven as anyone is and was. Priesthood is not ours to give... And when it was revealed (probably because it was finally safe or because mankind was finally getting a grip on racial equality), black mormons all over the world were immediately ordained, humbly exercised their priesthood to bless their families, their local congregations where they served, etc. THe non-black members didn't suddenly start being nice to them. Nothing changed because they always treated blacks as equals, etc.
Anyway, again, it's not some church were a bunch of guys sit around and decide on policies like pretty much any other church does. I've been involved in enough to know that it's not directed by man. Another big factor, if you want to reason things out with logic, is that nobody is PAID to do what they do. NOne of the leaders are paid from the president down to the local level leaders. THere is nothing worldly to gain from being Mormon, no "power," no riches, no great influence...rather, we're ostracized, expelled, laughed at (underwear), and ridiculed..but when you start talking about mormons you know, it's always "hey, they're great neighbors to have" or "they really take care of their families."
Ok, enough mormon hijacking. Maybe it's time to have a "Ask a Mormon" thread! lol
Last edited by IRONCHEF (2008-04-05 16:00:40)